Gaining feelings from the wisdom of husband and wife

? The three-day wisdom study of husband and wife is over. In this study, I am both a teaching assistant and a student.

when I was a teaching assistant this time, I found that I was repeatedly confirming the identity of my teaching assistant by words and actions. Because there is a belief in my mind that "if you haven't studied this course, you can't be a teaching assistant in this course". Fortunately, I have three years of study and experience as a teaching assistant, in addition, I have a little self-confidence and willingness, and the support of the teaching assistant group.

? When I was supporting students in Tianlong Babu. My restricted mode appears again. "demanding perfection" and "shrinking back"

I seriously listen to and learn the ways and means that teachers guide students. However, when guiding the students, my behavior made me unable to be the first to guide the students. I was afraid of making mistakes. I was afraid that the students would laugh at me for "what I did, but I was still a teaching assistant." I wanted to do it well. When I finished it for the students, I saw that I actually did a good job, with clear guidance and strength, and Sister Wan Li loudly said to me, "You did a great job." This made my confidence double, which for me.

As a student, I also saw that it was not easy for my husband and I to come all the way for 22 years, from the romantic period to the demon period to the power struggle and indifference period, and now it is gradually moving towards the eternal romantic period. In this process, only changing yourself will change the way others treat you. When we get better little by little, our lessons will naturally disappear slowly.

the more you study, the more real and ordinary you are, and the more you dare to disfigure yourself.

Every time I work as a teaching assistant, I am moved. I am especially grateful to the dean for her trust, acceptance and opportunity. She shows me my growth and progress. Also let me hear more and more voices of life blooming and see the blooming of flowers. It also made me more and more determined.

in the next 21 days and in the future, I will also accompany our team members to complete the practical training and join hands in the eternal romance of marriage.

I am grateful to Mr. Minghe for his great love and guidance, to Dean Qiutang for his dedication and support, to every brother and sister in the teaching assistant group for their companionship and support, to the beautiful photographer Nana for the wonderful moments we left behind, to the music playing of DJ's little sister Yanan, to the dedication of the field service, to the off-site food delivery staff for bringing us delicious meals, and to the company of all the students!