How do couples who have always loved each other in marriage do it?

You have been married for many years. Do you still believe in these things?

Do you believe that love can last forever?

Have you really seen what a caring couple looks like?

Do you think that true love is as far away from reality as the stars in the sky?

As time goes by, will you seriously fall in love with the man or woman you call "husband" or "wife"?

Dong Qing's new program The Reader is like a refreshing stream. Let's slow down and calm down. One of the readers of the first issue, Mr. and Mrs. Huagu, makes people feel that love in marriage can be so touching and warm.

"When we have a garden.

If you give me some time, I will send you the best garden in China. "

This valley blooms all year round, and more importantly, it comes from a promise of love. This is a husband's promise to his wife. He spent all his money to build such a flower valley for his wife. You have been married for many years. Do you still believe in these things?

Do you believe that love can last forever?

Have you really seen what a caring couple looks like?

Do you think that true love is as far away from reality as the stars in the sky?

As time goes by, will you seriously fall in love with the man or woman you call "husband" or "wife"?

Dong Qing's new program The Reader is like a refreshing stream. Let's slow down and calm down. One of the readers of the first issue, Mr. and Mrs. Huagu, makes people feel that love in marriage can be so touching and warm.

"When we have a garden.

If you give me some time, I will send you the best garden in China. "

This valley blooms all year round, and more importantly, it comes from a promise of love. This is a husband's promise to his wife. He spent all his money to build such a flower valley for his wife.

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The most romantic thing I can think of,

Is to grow old with you

"Unconventional" Road to Love

Meeting, knowing each other, falling in love and getting married, the marriage routine of ordinary people, has undergone "great changes" in Zhou Xiaolin and Yin Jie, an unusual couple.

"When Zhou Xiaolin chased me, I also said that even if I married 10,000 people, he wouldn't be that one." But what Yin Jie didn't expect was that this 100 1 became 100% of her life.

1986 in the summer, Yin Jie, a student of a medical college in Beijing, went to Sichuan to play with his classmates. The guide who received them was Zhou Xiaolin. After a few days' journey, they became friends who talked about everything. Yin Jiexi loves flowers and plants, and she takes good care of every flower and plant along the way. This enthusiasm and naivety moved Zhou Xiaolin by her. Even after the trip, the beautiful image of "Princess of the North" still lingered in Zhou Xiaolin's mind. In the next five years, the two kept in touch with each other. In his letter, he kept telling his thoughts and even expressed his desire to marry her.

Marry a northern wife, don't leave yourself a "back road"

With a good marriage certificate, a small amount of change and a one-way train ticket, Zhou Xiaolin resolutely embarked on the road of "going north to marry".

Yin Jie was shocked when she saw the travel-stained Zhou Xiaolin. She asked, "What are you doing here?"

"Come and get married."

"To whom?"

"Marry you."

Perhaps it was the passion of that era, or the man's firm love. Yin Jie was finally moved by his sincerity and decided to marry him. "I am a mature woman, I dare to gamble for him. If he is not good to me, I will come back in a month; If he is good to me, I will accompany him for a lifetime. "

If you love ta, you always want to do something for ta.

Now, Huagu has three "biggest" names-the sea of hollyhock, the sea of hibiscus and the largest primary lily garden in China, which is the largest in the world and has the largest variety of plants.

In summer, wild lilies have climbed to more than half a man's height. Walking into the flower field is like countless white pigeons dancing on their chests. Living in a honey pot built by her husband, Yin Jie is neither arrogant nor impetuous. "After so many years, even if I asked Miss Zhou to pour me a glass of water, I would definitely say' thank you' and' please'. Sometimes when we come back from outside, he is so tired that he falls asleep, but no matter how tired I am, I will help him wash his face, grind his favorite coffee, and then rest. Love a person, always want to do something for him, make him feel that I care about him.

The "Flower Valley" couple shared their diary in Reader.

The wife said, "He is a very romantic man, so I am a very happy little woman".

Some people may ask, what is the secret of marriage preservation after 26 years of marriage?

The wife's answer is intriguing: "We have been in love" and "For more than 20 years, we have been playing a game and writing some words or poems to each other".

The husband proudly replied, "She is my wife and my lover, and has always been my dream lover.

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His expression has a heavy feeling like years. When he said this, he would not arouse the envy of others, but a kind of joy of watching quietly. Unlike the torrent of young people's love, it is just the calm after years of baptism.

The best love is:

I found you, just as I found myself. Without you, even if I love a hundred people, or a hundred people love me, my soul will still wander forever. You are unique. I will always be happy with you.

I understand your commonness day by day, but I love you more and more day by day. If you look in the mirror, you won't see anything particularly good about you, but if you walk into my heart, you will know how good you are.

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Zhu Shenghao's love letter

Don't worry about getting old, it must be lovely to get old.

The poems recited by the Huagu couple are selected from the collection of letters written by the famous translator Zhu Shenghao to Song Qingru from 1933 to 1937.

You may not believe it, I often imagine how beautiful and lovely you are, but when I really met you, you were much more beautiful and lovely than I expected.

You can't say I'm lying, because otherwise, I just need to remember that you are self-sufficient and don't have to rush to see you.

Zhu Shenghao has always been known for his introverted reticence. This is a fact, and he himself described himself like this: "When I am with others, I am always particularly world-weary." "Although they are all old classmates, I feel strangely strange; Sit there and try not to say anything. " The impression is unsmiling, mature and steady.

However, when I met Song Qingru, my feelings were completely different. An active and rich inner world expressed to loved ones. It turns out that his personality, love and hate are so distinct and full of personality. Even better, from his irresistible sense of humor and jokes, the letters reveal a youthful atmosphere from time to time.

Don't worry about getting old, it must be lovely to get old. Moreover, if you are ten years older, of course, I am ten years older, the world is ten years older and God is ten years older. Everything is the same.

Do you believe that love can last forever? Have you really seen what a caring couple looks like? Do you think that true love is as far away from reality as the stars in the sky?

If you say you never believe in love: if you say you have never seen love, if you answer yes, then it is really as far away as the stars, you may never experience life, you may never seriously fall in love with the man or woman you call "husband" or "wife", and even you will never understand the true meaning of love.

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Please kiss me like this when I am old.

Lauren Fleischman, a famous American photographer. Hello, All the Time in the World is a collection of her photographic stories. She interviewed 55 couples who had been married for more than 50 years, listened to their love stories and took a group of photos for them. After each couple's love story is finished, you will feel the power of love from those sentences. Those couples seem to have only increased the thickness of the years and obvious wrinkles on their foreheads. Besides, they love each other like young people, and they have always loved each other. Looking at the photos behind, they hugged and kissed, and you can't help but sigh in your heart: you can kiss me like this when you are old.

"I never thought about getting old. I won't find each other's wrinkles growing quietly. I don't think about it every day. It turns out that I have been married to an old man for almost my whole life. I hope he feels the same way. "

"We met at a dance, which was 1938+0. She turned down the first person, and I was the second person to approach her. So far, I'm still not sure whether my uniform or my appearance attracted her. "

"I tell you today, how much I love you? Every day, my wife expresses her love to me. Now, I am almost 88 years old and she is almost 85 years old. I hope we can spend the next five years together. I don't want to leave her alone, and neither does she. "

"1948, we broke through the barriers to get married. You can't imagine how serious the discrimination suffered by blacks at that time. We can't rent a house, and the children are dead. Since then, all the difficulties in the world have become normal for me. We have lived together for more than 60 years and we are very happy. "

"We change slowly, but our hearts remain the same and love becomes stronger. I think he thinks so, too. He is my first love and my last love. "

"We have been married for 63 years. In my opinion, love is accumulated little by little, not overnight. We are all very young. Although he is old now, I still love him very much. He always speaks so softly to me. "

"I have known him for a long time. He is kind, friendly, lovely and kind. Time has passed slowly, and many far-reaching things have gradually become dull. "

"We will quarrel, but every time I go back to my room to hug her, I still feel the same heartache as before. I love her very much. "

"He is modest and generous and good at cooking. He always takes care of everything. Sometimes, he makes me angry, but more importantly, he makes me thank God. "

"In this way, more than 70 years have passed, and even the trivial things we have experienced together make us feel that love is consistent and never far away. We love each other deeply. "

We met in the Catskill Mountains when I was dating Sylvia's girlfriend. I can't remember the name now, because the fire of love is gone, and I love Sylvia very passionately.

We have been running this laundry for 23 years. When we first fell in love, he was very gentle and I felt very happy. After that, our busy work made us feel bored, but love made us communicate and trust each other.

Love is sharing, regardless of what you have, and willing to give what you have. I want to tell people nowadays that love needs more concentration.

Maybe love at first sight won't work, but as you get to know someone, love will come.

We are all dying people, so we love each other more and worry about each other more.

I still remember clearly that I like the way he kissed me, so I am willing to marry him.

Romance is not love at first sight, but growing old with you.

Our love life is still too short.