A sadder story than sadness-because I don't know if I can meet you again in my next life.

Since the film was released last week, it has been screened in the circle of friends. When the film was shown in Taiwan Province Province and Hongkong, it was a high box office. It is a remake of the Korean film of the same name. I didn't watch the Korean version, only the remake, so I will talk about this version of Chen Yihan's Sorrow.

Among them, the more controversial is the love view of the couple, and Cindy's love view. It can be seen that the audience still has their own ideas. It is also gratifying to see that many people say that the film has three incorrect views, because it is indeed "three incorrect views" and the audience has not been blindly brainwashed by directors and screenwriters. There will be good and bad works, which I think is very good. The existence of controversy proves that there are collisions and fireworks, which has aroused our thinking.

The plot of three incorrect views &; Unreasonable love

Let's start with the man. I obviously like Yuanyuan, but I let her marry another good man, whether Yuanyuan likes it or not. Then she persuaded the dentist's fiancee to break up and alienate others from her love. It looks great, but it is also selfish. The woman obviously likes the man, too, but she regards his wish for herself as her own wish, marries a "good man" she doesn't love, "intervenes" in the feelings of the dentist and photographer, finally completes the task, and then shows her cards to the dentist and leaves the dentist. Photographers are even more ridiculous. She stayed with the dentist because she was kind to her, loved her and hurt her at the same time. Does that mean she is kind to her? Is it better to bite the hand that feeds you? Finally, I went to Lin Youxian, and the whole journey was as simple as that. I loved my first love and gave everything, but I was green: I loved Yuanyuan and thought I would spend the rest of my life with her, but I was told that she had someone else in her heart and he was just being used.

Do you feel unreasonable and incomprehensible? Do you feel that the three views are not correct? Do you think this is immoral? Yes! But isn't this the normal state of love?

If love can explain, no one will suffer because of love.

Maybe everything in the world can be explained, but love can't Didn't Zhang Zhekai know that he was destroying the relationship between Cindy and Lin Youxian? He knows. They didn't break up originally, but because of the intervention of the man and the woman, their relationship will eventually come to an end. Their purpose is to separate Cindy from youxian. It's terrible, isn't it? Destroy others' feelings. However, it is also based on the weak love between the dentist and his fiancee that others will take advantage.

The first is the love between photographer and dentist. Even if there is no round intervention, it is a fact that she cheated, and Youxian is not the first in her heart. So the intervention of men and women only accelerated the breakdown of their relationship. If they do get married, they will divorce sooner or later, and they will not be happy even if they don't divorce.

Some people say that it is wrong for dentists to accompany the hostess to drink when they are about to get married, but I can understand that people are not cheating. And after the dentist made an appointment, it showed that he was engaged. His previous performance was obvious, and he was always embarrassed about Yuanyuan's initiative, but he was embarrassed to refuse. He was right from beginning to end, at least in my opinion.

Then there is the love between men and women. He loves Yuanyuan very much. He thinks about everything in her future life except love. He thought she would have someone to rely on and a good man to take care of her in the future, but he didn't say that he thought she could live a good life with the person she really loved. He clearly understands that Yuanyuan loves herself and loves Yuanyuan very much. He chose to escape the love between them. He didn't fulfill himself and Yuan Yuan at the same time. While being good to Yuanyuan, I don't fulfill this relationship. He thought that Yuanyuan's good life was that she was really good. He never asked her what she wished for. I want to realize my "wish" blindly. Is this view of love right? You are kidding! However, from another angle, he is also right, because in his view, he can't give Yuanyuan eternal love, so he would rather not give it for a moment. Because he knows the pain of being abandoned and the sadness of leaving. If he gives her love, he will definitely give her sorrow. The deeper he loves, the sadder he is. Why bother? Although love can't give her, it is equally important that she can have someone to take care of her forever and accompany her forever, because with the company of others, at least she doesn't have to suffer alone, even if she knows that she has passed away, it will not be so painful. What he did was to minimize her pain and sadness when she faced leaving. Some people say that if you want to die, you have to sacrifice the love of others. But that's not what I saw. If Cindy and Youxian love each other enough, the man has no chance to make this request. He knew Cindy didn't love Woo-hyun so much that he dared to take that step. Why didn't he go to woo-hyun and beg him to break up with Cindy and stay with her? Because youxian didn't do anything wrong.

Is the woman's view of love wrong? She should not get involved in the love between the dentist and his fiancee, and should not use him to completely fulfill her "wish". Aside from the purpose of the hostess, it is true that she didn't cross the line and took the initiative to be nice to a person she likes. She didn't say the photographer was bad, she knew she was excellent. She has her own dedication and helpful attitude. If it weren't for the purpose of the hostess, I think they could become good friends. People have to live, work and socialize. It is impossible to cut off contact with friends of the opposite sex just because they have a partner. The problem lies not in the acquaintance and meeting between Youxian and Yuanyuan, but in Yuanyuan's purpose. You Xian decided to break up after learning that his fiancee was cheating on him and getting along with Yuanyuan, not because he had a new development. But because he realized that his love with Cindy was unbalanced and had long gone bad. And he also knew that Yuanyuan had Zhekai in his heart, but because he was moved by Yuanyuan, he was willing to wait. Therefore, the hostess did not destroy the relationship between Youxian and his fiancee.

Life is precious, but love is more expensive?

Although everyone has their own views on their love, I want to criticize the heroine at the end. Finally, the heroine's double suicide is really disappointing. Is there only love in life? I don't believe it was because something became a family relationship that I didn't give up and couldn't bear to leave before committing suicide, because she didn't commit suicide when her family died, and now her husband is dead and she has committed suicide. Is it so fragile? So it's no use for the man to do so much?

Finally, I think this movie is very interesting, because it is full of tears, and many people cry, but many people don't like it, saying it goes against morality and core values. Yes, it really feels like this. But in reality, there are a lot of love with three incorrect views. Love caught off guard doesn't always appear in the right place at the right time. It is so restless that it afflicts some people. This also corresponds to the sentence in the movie, "If love can explain, no one will suffer because of love."

Then why are we so contradictory? Obviously drama comes from life. That's because we are watching other people's love. Since ancient times, there has been a saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Have you ever been desperate in it?