The child who was taken by his father to run a long-distance delivery died and never saw his mother again. Is his mother cruel?

"Baby, baby, did you hear that? Dad came to see you, did you hear that? " In the intensive care unit of a hospital in Hangzhou, Zhejiang, truck driver He Tianzhong called for his 5-year-old son, but he never heard his response. "Baby, what will Dad do if you leave?" He Tianzhong cried and put on new clothes for his son. 19 September, 12 o'clock later, what He Tianzhong feared most came, and his son He Yuze left. This is the last time he saw his son Tian Jinzhong in the ward. What made him sad was that his son couldn't see his mother at the last minute. Previously, after learning that his son was in a state of brain death, He Tianzhong helped his son make a decision to donate his body and repay the society with gratitude. The picture shows He Tianzhong dressing his son on September 19.

After learning the news, the volunteers cried and the photographer choked. On September 15, the photographer posted a message on the online platform entitled "After the outbreak, his wife left, and the 30-year-old truck driver ran for more than 40 days with his seriously ill son" to raise treatment fees for children, which attracted the attention of millions of netizens. /kloc-more than 0/000 netizens donated their love and raised 400,000 treatment fees for children in just three hours. After that, some netizens still want to help the father and son, but the fundraising has ended. Unexpectedly, the money was still there, but the child was gone. The picture shows He Tianzhong and Xiao Yuze on the highway on September 7.

He Tianzhong, 30, is from Yingjiang Street, Dao County, Hunan Province. An accident in 2003 completely changed the fate of the whole family. At that time, my father had an accident while helping people demolish houses. He was paralyzed and spent a lot of money. He died five years later. After his father died, he dropped out of school and went out to work. In 20 13, 23-year-old He Tianzhong met his wife in Maotai Town, Guizhou Province, who also worked in Hangzhou through the Internet. 20 15, the two still came together. In the year they got married, their son He Yuze was born. Just as He Tianzhong was planning for his family's future life, his mother died of illness. The picture shows He Tianzhong filling out a voluntary donation book on September 17.

After his parents died, his wife and children became the only two relatives of He Tianzhong. In the following days, his wife took care of his son and he worked hard to make money. In 20 17, He Tianzhong's family came to Shaoxing to open a fruit shop. With his efforts, he quickly paid off the foreign debt owed by his parents for medical treatment. In order to expand his business, He Tianzhong opened a second shop with a loan. Unexpectedly, the business declined in less than a year, and the quarrel between the couple gradually increased. My wife once ran back to Guizhou in a rage. The picture shows that on September 7, on the truck, He Tianzhong helped his son put on pants.

The business of the shop is not good, and his wife has returned to her hometown to take care of the children by herself. He Tianzhong simply decided to sell the shop. Soon after, he took his wife back. However, just when He Tianzhong expected his wife to return to the family, his son had another accident. 20 19 10, He Yuze cried and had a headache in kindergarten. 10 year1October 28th, He Tianzhong took his son to Shaoxing Hospital for examination. As a result, a tumor appeared in the pineal region of the brain. On the same day, he was transferred to the hospital in Hangzhou, and finally the child was diagnosed with a brain tumor. The picture shows Xiao Yuze sitting alone in the cab when his father unloaded the goods on September 7.

"In any case, save the child." At that time, He Tianzhong had only 5,000 yuan in his hand. He found some money from relatives and friends to let his children live in the hospital. What He Tianzhong didn't expect was that his wife said, "If you can cure it, you can cure it if you have no money." 10 year 10. On October 29th, at the insistence of He Tianzhong, He Yuze underwent hydrocephalus shunt surgery, followed by thoracic infusion port surgery and chemotherapy after operation. In order to raise money, He Tianzhong sold everything that could be sold at home. The picture shows He Tianzhong and his son eating in the cab on September 3.

After the Spring Festival, He Yuze was treated in the hospital. Although blocked everywhere, He Tianzhong didn't rest for a day, helping a medical factory in Shaoxing transport relief medical supplies to and from Xiaoshan Airport and Pudong Airport, hoping to earn more medical expenses for his children. In March this year, Yuze was transferred to a hospital in Hangzhou for chemotherapy and radiotherapy, and the chemotherapy effect was particularly good. The doctor said that chemotherapy consolidation can be completed in July. However, at this time, He Tianzhong found that all the money he raised was not counted, and he still owed a lot of money to the hospital, so his son could not continue treatment. On June 18, He Tianzhong was helpless and left the hospital with his son. The picture shows He Tianzhong and his son in the expressway service area on September 7.

Unexpectedly, on the day of discharge, my wife proposed to go back to her hometown. Despite He Tianzhong's pleading, on July 20th, his wife finally left. After his wife left, He Tianzhong's phone was hacked, and He Tianzhong could only contact through friends. Later, He Tianzhong once asked someone to persuade his wife to come back. I didn't expect her to put down a cruel word: "Don't bother me anymore, even if my son is gone tomorrow, I won't come back." The picture shows that on September 7, He Tianzhong helped his son wash his face in the expressway service area.

After his wife left, He Tianzhong got into trouble. On the one hand, the son has no one to take care of, on the other hand, the son needs money for treatment. In order to earn money to treat his son, he began to take his son's sports car with him. Since then, there has been a son's "companion" in the stuffy cab. In the car, He Yuze will sit quietly beside He Tianzhong as long as it doesn't hurt. Afraid of his son's boredom, He Tianzhong occasionally sings some children's songs to his son in a tone-deaf voice. The picture shows that on September 7, in the cab, He Tianzhong reached his son with his hand to prevent him from falling.

During that time, He Tianzhong took his son He Yuze from Shaoxing, Zhejiang to Wuhu and Tongling, Anhui every day. It took nearly 30 hours to go back and forth, and I ate and lived in the car. Because the child has not been taken good care of, and along the way, the body is getting worse and worse. I began to limp, and gradually lost consciousness in my arms and lower limbs, and my whole body ached. On August 17, He Tianzhong took his son to the hospital for a head examination. Confirmed that the tumor recurred, the doctor asked him to take the child back to the hospital quickly. It is necessary to pay off the arrears of the hospital and prepare for the follow-up treatment expenses. Finally, He Tianzhong could only turn around and hold the child and leave silently. The picture shows the service area, and the father and son are sleeping in the cab.

On September 7, after filming the life of He Tianzhong and his son, the photographer found that the child's symptoms became more and more serious. With the help of caring people, on September 8, He Tianzhong sent his son to the hospital in Hangzhou. Unexpectedly, the child's condition turned sharply after he arrived in Hangzhou. /kloc-On the night of September, 0/4, Yuze's heart stopped beating and the doctor rescued him for several hours. During this period after his wife left, Yuze often said that he missed his mother and asked where her mother had gone. So, on the night when the child was rescued, He Tianzhong tried his best to contact his wife, hoping that she would take a look at the child. He didn't expect to be rejected again The picture shows that on the evening of September 7, He Tianzhong and his son returned to Shaoxing.

On September 15, the photographer launched a fund-raising activity for Yuze through the online platform. The fate of the father and son attracted the attention of millions of netizens and raised 400 thousand treatment fees for them in just three hours. Due to his serious illness, He Tianzhong transferred his child to another hospital in Hangzhou by ambulance on September 16. After arriving at the hospital, he was sent to the intensive care unit and issued a notice of critical illness. In the meantime, He Tianzhong kept in touch with his wife, but her wife kept shirking. The picture shows that on September 7, when he returned home, He Tianzhong put his son to bed.

On September 17, the doctor announced that He Yuze was in a state of brain death, and He Tianzhong fought back his grief after learning the news. After careful consideration, he decided to donate the child's body and signed the donation book on the same day. When he pressed his handprint on the volunteer book, he could no longer control his tears. He Tianzhong said, "When the child is in the most difficult time, so many people care about him and help him. This is the only way for him to repay the society. I am proud of him. " The picture shows He Tianzhong dressing his son on September 19.

19 September 12: 50, He Tianzhong went into the intensive care unit to see the child for the last time and put on new clothes for his son. At this moment, this sturdy man burst into tears. On September 20th, He Tianzhong hoped to thank those netizens and caring people who had cared and helped Xiao Yuze through photographers. He said that Yuze was surrounded by love, and his only regret was that he didn't see his mother. His unused money will be donated to other seriously ill children for treatment. This is my wish, and it is also the transmission of Yuze's love. The picture shows the medical staff saying goodbye to Xiao Yuze on September 19.

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After I parted from He Tianzhong and his son in Shaoxing on September 7, I was always worried about my child, and I was once gratified to learn that he was sent to the hospital the next day. When I learned that caring people were helping children contact experts in Beijing and Shanghai, I felt that children had hope. Especially when the article "Kloc-0/5" was published in September, I was a little excited that the child was saved within three hours. However, I didn't expect everything to come so suddenly. When I learned that my child had left on September 19, I suddenly choked up: Sorry, son, we couldn't help you in the end. The picture shows He Tianzhong taking a bath for his son at his parents' home on September 7.

I remember before I took a photo with He Tianzhong and his son, I thought it was just the driver taking the children to run long distances. However, when I boarded the truck, I realized that the child was very ill and how difficult it was for the father and son. The moment I got on the bus, there was a pungent smell in the car I saw the father and son covered in dust, and the child leaned weakly in the seat and trembled involuntarily. I sat next to the co-pilot, and the child fell on his back countless times. At that moment, my heart ached. The picture shows He Tianzhong getting off with his son on the way back from Wuhu on September 7.

When the child came home to lie in bed, I heard him sigh, which was a feeling of relief. After twenty or thirty hours in the car, he didn't have a good sleep, even if he was lying down, he was staggered and stumbling. Maybe in bed at home, that's his most comfortable posture. What stung me most was that when my father went out to load the goods, he left him alone at home, with a box of milk on his chest, and I could touch it with my mouth open. The picture shows He Tianzhong, who is ready to go out, putting a box of milk on his son's chest on September 7.

When filming, He Tianzhong once told me, "I am most afraid that my sports car will run away and my son will disappear. I am also afraid to leave my son alone at home, turn around and push the door open, and my son fell asleep. " I didn't expect this sentence to come true. I can't forget the child's father singing for him, and his eyes lit up; I can't forget him sitting in the passenger seat alone, wobbling; I can't forget him lying in bed alone, looking at the narrow window alone ... The picture shows Xiao Yuze lying quietly in bed on September 7.

When the child is gone, he doesn't have to bump into his father's van, look at the narrow window and think about his mother. I hope you will have no more pain in heaven. The picture shows the medical staff saying goodbye to Xiao Yuze on September 19.