He Xiqi fell in love with more than one other woman during the process of meeting and falling in love with Sanmao. Why did he choose Sanmao in the end?

José actually fell in love with more than one other woman during the course of their acquaintance and love with Sanmao, but it was just out of love and politeness that José still fell in love with Sanmao in the end.

In extramarital affairs, except for scumbag men and women who are used to flirting with women and playing with their emotions, generally speaking, it is not just right and wrong that can determine moral quality. Emotions are not guaranteed by just a marriage contract. It is also possible for a person to fall in love with two people at the same time. There are too many factors behind deception, and absolute evil cannot explain everything. Behind life, there may be thousands of causes, and when it comes to being brave and sincere, men and women who lack the ability and are afraid of pain are unwilling to welcome changes in relationships.

The following story comes from a letter "How to Face Extramarital Affairs" written by Sanmao in reply to a reader in "Dear Sanmao", which may be able to better answer this question:

Many years ago, my husband left me after graduation and went to the Canary Islands to return to Spain to receive 19 days of deep-sea diving training. At that time, we had known each other for eleven years and had been married for four years. My husband invited me to go with him, but I refused to go in order to save travel expenses. During those ten days apart, my husband contacted me every day. After returning home, he directly told me that he had met a girl and was close to falling in love. He also said: If not for getting married

Mr. When he heard me propose such a solution, he rushed up to me, hugged me and shed tears. I also cried at that time. A year later, we were sitting on the balcony watching the sunset over the autumn sea. I touched my husband’s hair and asked: Do you still miss her? He said thoughtfully: That kind of love is completed in an instant and is unforgettable. As for the kindness and love between us, the life is so deep that it will last forever

Two years later, my husband drowned After passing away, I lived silently alone. One day I was planting vegetables at home, and the woman appeared outside the yard. I slipped a large bag of corn seeds from my hand and ran towards her. The two of us hugged each other and cried.

Later, my husband’s dearest friend, a photographer, asked to take me in, but I introduced this good girl to him. They got married and had a little boy. They named me after my husband as a souvenir. The child called me: "Chinese mother."

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