Evening Reading丨Be still when encountering big events, change when encountering difficulties, and be restrained when things go well.

A writer once said:

Whether a person lives well or not depends on his ability to deal with things, but also on his mentality when facing problems.

Life is always live, and no one knows what will happen next second. But the angle from which you look at things affects the temperature of life and determines the height of your life.

01 Be still when encountering major events

Whenever encountering major events, you must calmly think about it and use stillness to brake. Be quiet first and then plan, plan first and then act, and the problem can be easily solved.

Quietness can overcome impatience in people and prevent them from being controlled by emotions. Because under the instigation of emotions, even trivial things can be magnified into exaggerated events.

Silence can open our eyes to appearances and help us quickly find the root of the problem and the key to solving the problem.

Only by being calm can we make decisions, only by making decisions can we do things, and only by doing things can we achieve success.

Being quiet is the basis for sharpening one’s will and cultivating one’s character.

02 Things need to change in times of crisis

There is a saying often heard: Don’t hit the wall, don’t look back.

This kind of persistence is admirable, but sometimes it can hurt yourself if you are too persistent and don't know how to adapt.

Everything in the world is often tortuous and cyclical. In life, there are few times when things are smooth and smooth, but there are many times when there are twists and turns.

If you enter a "dead end", you might as well look at the exit next to it and the forks on the left and right. You can consider stepping on it and continue moving forward.

As the saying goes: "All roads lead to Rome." As long as your original intention remains unchanged and your determination remains unchanged, then focus more on the results and less on the process.

People who are flexible and flexible can often survive in desperate situations; while people who are dull and dull often waste great opportunities.

Only by learning to be flexible can you experience fewer difficulties, more vitality, and a smooth path in life.

03 Be cautious when things go well

There are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside the people. People with a big structure know how to be restrained when they are proud.

If the trees are beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy them; if they behave above others, they will be rejected by others.

The bigger a person is, the more he knows how to have a humble and low-key attitude towards life, seeking the high with the low, and maintaining self-control with humility. It is precisely because of being humble, courteous and open-minded in treating others that they can often win reputation and support, thereby achieving their own success.

Only by being low-key and unassuming can you go further in a down-to-earth manner.

In life, we will encounter all kinds of people and things. Although we cannot control the development of things, we can adjust our mentality.

When encountering major events, you should be calm and calm; when encountering difficult situations, you need to turn around in time and be flexible; when encountering good things, you should also be restrained and low-key, and treat others with humility.

Only by maintaining a higher mentality than life can you meet a better self and a more beautiful scenery.

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