What should I do if I find myself gay or bisexual?

Judging from your various performances, you have a certain homosexual tendency, but your cognition is wrong. You think it's a disease. First of all, you should correct your attitude, clearly realize that homosexuality is a normal sexual orientation, learn as much as possible about this knowledge, read some BL novels and visit BL Post Bar. You will find that many people have a positive attitude towards gay love. About your friend, you can also let him know more about this. A true friend won't break up with you because of your different sexual orientation.

Homosexuality refers to a person's sexual, psychological, emotional and social interests, the main target is people of the same sex, and this interest is not revealed from the explicit behavior. Those who have love, sexual desire or admiration for the same sex are called homosexuals.

From 65438 to 0973, the American Psychological Association and the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexual behavior from the disease classification system. The definition of homosexuality is corrected as follows: homosexuality refers to a person's interest in sex, psychology, emotion and social life, and the main target is people of the same sex. Such interest is not revealed by explicit behavior. It can be seen from this that homosexuality does not only refer to sexual orientation, but many people who are forced to have sex with the same sex out of curiosity are not homosexuals.

On April 20th, 20001year, the third edition of the classification and diagnosis standard of mental disorders in China was released. The definition of homosexuality in the diagnostic criteria is very detailed, and homosexual sexual activity is not necessarily a psychological abnormality. Therefore, homosexuality is no longer classified as pathological. Homosexuality is no longer regarded as a morbid psychology, which is the progress of Chinese mainland society.

The exact standard of homosexuality:

1: pure conscious homosexuality.

2. People who are not influenced by external factors and simply tend to be of the same sex.

3. Not including those who are doubly rewarded for appreciating talents and abilities.

4. Not including those who cherish the continuity of consorts' families out of affection.

5. Does not include people who are close because of brotherhood or finding bosom friends.

6. Not including the precious trust gained from years of service.

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Long Yangjun, a figure in the Warring States Period, laid a pillow for Wang Wei.

Emperor Ai of the Han Dynasty told a story that Dong Xian could not bear to be surprised and broke his sleeve.

Mi Fei, a figure in the Three Kingdoms period, often saw people naked.

Emperor Wei Yuan, love and serve children in the same pool.

Jin Chengdi often met white birch naked in the bamboo forest.

Chen Wendi put forward the idea of establishing a male queen for Han Zigao.

Tang Xizong and bodyguard Ji Sun have a tryst in the harem.

Song Gongdi, embrace the talented person Sui Shun.

Yu Xin, a scholar in the Northern and Southern Dynasties, once broke his sleeve with Xiao Shao (later mistakenly written as Wang Shao), the imperial clan of Nanliang.

Wang Yan, the former Shu emperor in the Five Dynasties and Ten Kingdoms period, was favored by Wang Chengxiu.

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Yuan Mei, a scholar in Qing Dynasty.

Li Guiguan, an opera actor in the Qing Dynasty, was nicknamed "the top lady" because of her friendship with Bi Yuan.

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Lin Huaimin, founder of Cloud Gate Dance Collection in Taiwan Province.

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Chen Junzhi, Taiwan Province Documentary Director.

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Sociologist and social worker Guo Huaxiu.

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V homosexuality is as simple as the earth going around the sun. Many people don't understand this secret and the world, which leads to misunderstanding and even hatred. This is normal.

Homosexuality, like heterosexuality, is natural, not mental illness, which has been recognized by more and more psychologists. Homosexuality exists not only in human beings, but also in the animal kingdom, which is not a patent of human beings. Perhaps, the orientation of the sexual object itself is independent of human will.

People often regard homosexuality as mental illness, sexual perversion and sexual perversion. In fact, their minds are completely normal. Not to mention, some homosexuals, such as louganis and Versace, have made remarkable achievements in their respective fields.

Homosexuality is a cultural phenomenon. Homosexuality has existed since ancient times, but until a century ago, homosexuality was always regarded as an evil "behavior" rather than a "state". Gay sex is condemned as evil by Christianity and illegal in some European countries, including Britain.

The first case study on homosexuality was published in the United States on 1879. It takes this topic as a brand-new topic, as if homosexuality had never existed before.

During this period, many experts used "sexual perversion" to describe homosexuals in the new sense. This shows that homosexuality is regarded as a reversal of gender identity, or it is upside down: "lesbians are physically women and psychologically men." On the other hand, gay men are physically male and psychologically female. "Sexual perversion explains why women's passivity can be seen in men, while men's initiative can be seen in women. Research experts have concluded that for a woman who wants to be a man, or a man who wants to be a woman, homosexual relationship is an emotional effort as close as possible to normal heterosexuality.

Nowadays, homosexuality, heterosexuality and bisexuality are considered as different types of "sexual orientation", which is defined as "persistent attraction to members of a specific gender in sex, feeling or illusion"; Therefore, homosexuality refers to "the basic or absolute attraction to members of the same sex"

However, after all, homosexuals are a minority of sexual orientation, and their sexual partners are opposite to heterosexuals. When laws and social customs reflect the will and intention of most people or rulers, discrimination and persecution against homosexuals are inevitable. Therefore, the elimination of public discrimination against homosexuality depends mainly on universal education, which requires both emotional care and rational judgment.