Only infatuated silly women, no responsible good men?

You are right.

In reality, how many people are led by their emotions to have all their joys, anger, sorrows, and joys, and it is these infatuated people who allow us to see the touch of love.

I believe many people have heard the term "silly woman".

The so-called "silly women" refer to those who are easily addicted to love, devote themselves wholeheartedly, and even ignore the advice of others. Even if they know that the man in front of them is not so perfect, they are willing to give up.

Such a woman may be cold and passive when she is being pursued, but once she is moved by the man pursuing her, she will become warm and even abandon all reserve. Give all of yourself to that man without reservation.

If that man happens to treat her the same way, then this love will be perfect.

But most men are enthusiastic and active before pursuing someone. Once they pursue someone, they will gradually detach their hearts and put the focus of their lives elsewhere.

This is the truth: there are only stupid women in this world, not stupid men.

01

Women’s love is more emotional

Due to different physiological structures, women’s thinking is more emotional than men’s, and this sensibility is expressed emotionally is more obvious.

Xiaoyan is a girl who loves to play games. One day she met Xiao Zhang in the game.

The two started their relationship as gaming friends and often played games together. At that time, Xiaoyan didn't think about anything else and simply regarded Xiao Zhang as a game friend.

Until Xiao Zhang expressed his feelings, Xiao Yan's first reaction was to be afraid. How could a person she had only known for a few days fall in love with her? He was definitely a liar.

As a result, Xiaoyan began to deliberately avoid playing games with him, but Xiao Zhang did not give up. He chatted with Xiaoyan in the game every day and told Xiaoyan about him. As time passed, Xiaoyan's heart relaxed, and she began to feel that Xiao Zhang was sincere.

Xiao Zhang still plays games with Xiao Yan every day. The two further added WeChat and had a lively chat. Xiao Yan is very surprised why Xiao Zhang likes her, after all, he has only heard his own voice.

Xiao Zhang’s answer was very vague. He said it was a sudden heartbeat, and he felt itchy in his heart when he heard Xiao Yan’s voice.

For about half a year, Xiao Zhang chatted with Xiao Yan every day, saying many things to make her happy. Xiao Yan was moved by her and decided to muster up the courage to date him online.

A woman’s love really comes suddenly. Faced with the word online dating, I believe many people will be afraid. After all, there are too many unknowns about love in the virtual world.

Xiaoyan is a timid girl, but she can't stand Xiao Zhang's daily pursuit. She suddenly feels that maybe her love is really coming.

A woman is a creature full of sensibility. She may be moved by you and accept your pursuit because of a certain moment or a certain action. At that moment, she didn't care about other external factors. In her heart at that time, she was impulsive and emotional.

02

Women are more insecure

This is how Xiaoyan and Xiao Zhang started dating online. At the beginning, they agreed to try to get along for three months. If Xiaoyan felt that it was inappropriate, they could break up at any time. At that time, Xiaoyan felt that Xiao Zhang was a good person and respected her feelings.

Women are inherently insecure, and the uncertainty of online dating undoubtedly aggravates this feeling.

Xiao Yan was still a little scared. She couldn't completely trust everything Xiao Zhang said, but she kept all her insecurities in her heart.

Until she discovered that Xiao Zhang no longer looked for him every day. The situation seems to have become that she is looking for Xiao Zhang more often, and Xiao Zhang no longer responds instantly, sometimes even not replying at all, which makes Xiao Yan's insecurity even worse.

Sometimes, Xiaoyan finds out that Xiao Zhang is obviously playing games and will lie to her that she is at work; she asks Xiao Zhang to send him something, and Xiao Zhang obviously agrees, but in the end the things always disappear for various strange reasons...

Xiaoyan also restrained her suspicion, but she really couldn't do it. Now she is extremely insecure. She is more and more afraid of Xiao Zhang's purpose of being with her, and she is more and more afraid of being cheated.

But Xiaoyan was always lying to herself. She said to herself: It is normal for men to tell some little lies. It is because she is too thoughtful and does not trust him enough. Xiao Zhang was just too busy to take into account her feelings.

It is always this kind of self-comfort that gives Xiaoyan the courage and motivation to continue to support his love with Xiao Zhang.

She is like most "silly women" in relationships. She knows that the other person may not love her that much anymore, but she still wants to deceive herself and continue to act with the other person. As long as the other person doesn't tell them to leave, she will You can deceive yourself for a lifetime.

03

Women are more likely to lose themselves in relationships

Self is something we must protect in life. Once we lose ourselves, we will Unknowingly, one becomes a vassal of others and cannot live without others.

Xiao Yan really likes Xiao Zhang. Although she knows that Xiao Zhang is not that perfect and even deceives her, she is still willing to give him another chance.

As Xiaoyan's sense of security became increasingly lacking, the conflict between the two gradually escalated.

Xiao Yan began to become very irritable. She wanted to use this method to attract Xiao Zhang's attention and make Xiao Zhang realize that she was abnormal.

In fact, this method has no effect on Xiaoyan. Because her love is too humble, every time Xiao Zhang only needs a few words of coaxing, she won't be angry, and it won't have any effect on Xiao Zhang.

Sometimes Xiaoyan loses his temper and annoys Xiao Zhang, and in turn Xiaoyan can't help but coax him. She is really afraid of losing and loves so much that she loses herself in the relationship.

This is the typical example of a "silly woman".

The most taboo thing in relationships is losing yourself. Once we lose ourselves, our love of mutual respect will turn into unequal love. Over time, the proportion of such love will become more and more imbalanced until it is fragmented.

This is the love of "silly women". In their eyes, there is no one else but the other person. Even if they cheat, they are willing to deceive themselves.