Teach you how to expand your network in college?

If you are still an introverted student in college and are afraid of talking to unfamiliar classmates and alumni, then learn a few tricks from me to help you get out of your own small circle.

1. Join a club. As long as you take the initiative to talk to others during this process, it is generally easy to get to know more people.

I remember that when I was a freshman, I was very interested in various societies. I joined the Cross Talk Association, the Photography Association, the Volunteer Association, and also signed up for the school newspaper and the External Relations Department of the Social Federation.

Let me tell you in detail how I got to know each other in the process of joining the club.

For example, I participate in the external relations department of the society.

First of all, when recruiting new people at the External Relations Department, I can easily get to know the people recruited by the Ministry of Foreign Affairs in front of the on-site registration table. In addition, you are not the only person applying. You can talk to the people around you who have applied. , Hua Tou is easy. "Hey, you are also from Changde? Hey, you are also a Chinese medicine major? Hey, are you also running for the office of the External Relations Department?... Wait. Usually others will say a few words to you politely"

< p> Then, the External Relations Department will notify you when the primary and final elections will be. In this process, you can strengthen the relationship with the people you met above, and you can also get to know the classmates who are running for election in the same classroom, such as those sitting in front of you, those sitting on your left, and those behind you. You can take the initiative to say "Hey, classmate, which department are you running for? Hey, classmate, there is a bug in your hair? Hey, classmate, we are destined to meet again, come on, I support you"

< p> Finally, if you successfully enter the club, you must actively get to know all the people in the club. There is no doubt that you will know the president. The best way to get to know other members is to serve in the department, such as meeting minutes. For personnel, or address book collection or check-in, etc., you must be enthusiastic.

2. Serve in the class, be enthusiastic, proactively help every student, and take the initiative to talk to them.

Our class is a large class with 119 people. I know basically everyone, and everyone remembers their names as quickly as possible.

Let me give you an example of how I got to know the people in the class.

When the freshmen reported, I went to the class teacher to report, and by the way, I said to the class teacher: Teacher, I have nothing to do. Can I help you register the roster or do other things? Teachers generally are in short supply.

In this way, the other freshmen students who signed up after you will all come. The class teacher sitting next to you will report here. You can simply get to know your classmates, their names, numbers, etc. You can basically know them. If you know something, it will be on the roster.

Then, in the dormitory, you can sleep together. Our class was quite special. The school did not allocate dormitories according to classes, but according to randomly obtained keys. This greatly expanded your network of contacts. You can quickly get to know your classmates by checking in with your classmates, such as notifying them of gatherings, helping to bring meal cards, or helping to pick up books.

The last step is to run for class cadres, so that in the process of serving your classmates, you will greatly deepen your understanding of your classmates. I was a study committee member for the election at that time, and I got to know teachers from various subjects. Teachers’ personal connections are really important, and everyone must pay attention to them. However, I felt that I didn’t manage the business well, and I didn’t have much contact with any teachers after graduation. In addition, senior I will still visit my class teacher to express my gratitude.

3. Actively organize and participate in activities, and you will get to know alumni from other classes.

I have three ways to get to know people in other classes, except for those in clubs.

First of all, the Fellows Association, based on the fellow fellows I knew at that time, and through their introduction, I also went to other classes to inquire about it, ran it myself, and then established a KouKou group to organize dinners and farmhouse entertainment. . Not only do I know people from the same class, but also those from the previous class and the next class. In addition, the relationship between fellows is the most practical. Most of them return to their hometowns to work after graduation. Take me for example. Many of the fellows I know have returned to their hometowns to work in the People's Hospital.

Then, as a study committee member, I organized this study committee exchange meeting to exchange ideas on how to be a good study committee member. At that time, the school also organized a study committee to hold meetings to explain the knowledge of getting loudspeakers to teachers, teacher sign-in sheets and other matters. In this way, the study committee members of the same session and the previous session got to know each other again. In addition, the squad leader and the league secretary are all the same, and they know the same positions horizontally.

Finally, participate in competitions, debates, speech contests, reading activities, three trips to the countryside, part-time jobs, art performances, entrepreneurship competitions, volunteer activities, exchanges with other class committees and other activities. As long as you love making friends and actively participate in activities, you can meet alumni anywhere. Addendum: When I was in school, both my family and friends were just acquainted with each other. At that time, I was really innocent. At most, I just paid attention to chasing a girlfriend.

In fact, my personality is very outgoing and I am very passionate about college life.

I can get to know people in the cafeteria, such as the milk tea girl who sells milk tea in the cafeteria, the chef who sells vermicelli and stir-fries, and my Xinjiang friends who sell ramen in the cafeteria. Of course, alumni will also be recognized in the cafeteria.

I can meet people in the back streets, I can meet people in the billiard room, I can meet people in the skating rink, I can meet people at classmates’ birthday parties, and I can meet people by singing in KTV...

According to Looking back after graduation, the seniors found that some interactions were ineffective, such as those bosses in the cafeteria and those shop owners in the backstreets.

According to the senior’s sigh at the end, acquaintance does not mean being a friend. People who know each other also need fate. Acquaintance is just the beginning. Remember everyone’s name and don’t mix them up.

Everyone’s personality is different. Not everyone is like me. Some like to be quiet and don’t like to know so many people.

I concluded, socialize as you please, the most important thing is to listen carefully to the lectures, learn your major well, don’t take too many part-time jobs and socialize, and spend more time studying your major and reading. The professional knowledge you learn must be more useful than the little money you earn part-time. The professional knowledge you learn can definitely increase your excellence. Only the communication knowledge of excellent people is effective.

Finally, I would like to say to my fellow students, no matter how many people you know in school, you still need to work hard after graduation. Only if you are excellent will your understanding be meaningful...