People who are 30 years old and still rely on resumes to find jobs are rubbish? !

To every one of my readers, including myself.

I hope that when you are at the bottom of your life, don't be influenced by secular remarks, don't doubt yourself and don't give up your efforts, because the next second, you may reap good luck.

Do you think the following words are familiar?

Those who still rely on resumes to find jobs at the age of 30 are rubbish, never!

A 35-year-old man has no car, no house and no ability. It is estimated that this will be the case all my life!

If you are 40 years old and have not made a fortune, don't count on it!

He is 30 years old and he is not married. There must be something wrong with this man! Either too picky or have a personality problem!

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The anxiety of most of us comes from these remarks.

In this world, there are too many people who are better than you in culture, vision and education, are decisive, learn things faster and are smarter, and the key people are younger than you.

A friend told me on WeChat: "Did you watch the TV series Nothing but Thirty?" Gu Jia is so good, and her IQ and EQ are online. Can not only teach each other, but also hold up a sky. If I have her achievements at the age of 30, I will be anxious. "

Yes, everyone wants to live as a "Gu Jia". Before the midlife crisis, they had cars, children and gold. Only with these so-called "retreat" can we have a sense of security and not be anxious.

For a while, I was so anxious that I couldn't sleep, because I was 30 years old, but I accomplished nothing. Looking back at myself at that time today, I also feel that the anxiety at that time is not worth it. In fact, whether you are 20, 30, 40 or 50 years old, as long as you dare to work hard, keep moving forward and keep growing, you may reach the end of your dream.

Every day, every minute and every second in life is too precious to be bought with endless anxiety. We must run, not to mention that we have unlimited possibilities today.

Next, Sailor Moon shared with you three small habits to overcome anxiety.

0 1 Be a self-disciplined person

You ask me when I am most at ease?

It's time to underline the items on the task list. Don't underestimate these little horizontal lines, because they can make me sleep peacefully every night.

I have kept the habit of self-discipline since last year. For example, get up at 7 o'clock and turn off the lights at 1 1; Be sure to eat breakfast; Read 1 hour books every day; Code word 1000 per day. Make a daily reply every day, and have a fun run every other day. ...

Because of these little habits of self-discipline, I know what I have to do every day, and my heart will naturally become more firm, open and powerful.

Last week, I had a lazy cancer attack. Didn't sleep well, didn't eat well I just glanced at Tik Tok and didn't read a few pages. The whole person becomes lazy and confused.

Fortunately, I adjusted in time. I am still the person who goes to bed early and gets up early every day, insists on eating breakfast every day, insists on reading 1 hour every day, insists on repeating every day, and does a fun run every other day ... I am more lovely.

Of course, I'm not always busy, or I'm constantly learning. On the contrary, I didn't leave behind any TV series, variety shows or movies that I should catch up on. Proper entertainment will make us more motivated to move forward.

Record the little luck in life.

I've been lovelorn before? Divorce? Bankruptcy I cured my unhappiness through these three methods. What is written in this article is that I will calm my unhappiness by recording "Little Lucky". Similarly, recording "Little Luck" will make you feel peaceful and less anxious.

But this is still very difficult for a small partner who doesn't keep a diary often. However, at ordinary times, you can think more about "small fortunate" things, which can also reduce anxiety.

Recently, I am a little lucky:

The first traffic accident on the road turned out to be the uncle's full responsibility; Run more than 100 kilometers, only received a traffic violation; Go to Zhuhai to deal with traffic violations and queue up for the number 188. I thought I was going to waste another day, because I decisively changed the traffic police brigade and it was done in 30 minutes.

Although the air conditioner in the bedroom is broken, fortunately, it rained in Guangzhou these days and the temperature is still cool. Even without air conditioning, I can sleep comfortably at night.

In the evening, I had a delicious "Wuhan Duck Goods" and half an iced watermelon. Standing on the weighing scale the next day, I found that I was not fat, but thinner.

When I was confused in the workplace, I happened to listen to He Chuan's "Promotion and Salary Increase" course. If I think differently and do it differently, there may be different results.

When I asked the insurance salesman if he could postpone the payment of 1 month premium, he told me that the premium for each period only needs to be within 60 days after the anniversary.

The press release written to the customer actually passed the first draft and was well received by the customer: "It's really well written";

When I was looking for the news media, I asked if your company wanted to be a writer. The other party said that I needed it, and I would come to me if I needed a manuscript in the future, and I also met a lovely little brother.

A person ran to the hippocampus to take a photo of his ID card. Sure enough, a major is a major, which made me laugh so naturally when I took a photo.

For the first time, I tried to set up a self-regulated study group. Although I don't know how to operate it yet, my friends are very supportive. Every new attempt can make me grow and feel good.

The community is lush, full of green, and the trails are also ups and downs, which makes me run very hard, but the fitness effect will be quite good.

When I was worried about making money, I came across the book 38 letters Rockefeller left for his son. It seems that God wants me to be a rich woman.

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Fortunately, such a small thing is not as successful as some people think, but every time I collect it, I feel full, just like a sparkling diamond in a small day, which has precious power when connected.

When life is not satisfactory, try to "save money"

You may ask, "How can you save money when you have accomplished nothing?" No matter how you save it, you can't save Jinshan Yinshan! "

What is money to you?

I used to think that money was grandpa Mao. In fact, money may also be the realization of skills, knowledge and cognition for individuals.

Therefore, the more you are at the bottom of your life, the more you have time to learn survival knowledge and skills. This is saving money, because when the environment is good, you can realize them, that is, take out the saved money.

So how to save money? That's what I did.

First, study. You must have not read for a long time. How to update the brain system without reading? How can we make progress without updating our brain system? Choose a good book from tonight, read it carefully and take notes, and you will find different surprises.

Second, class. I wanted to learn this and that when I was studying, but family conditions did not allow it, so I put it on hold. Now that the internet is so developed, knowledge is paid. Why not choose some cost-effective courses according to your own situation and get more exposure to big coffee? The gains will far outweigh the efforts.

Third, skills. Different jobs, the most important skills are different, for example, for my copywriting, the most important thing is writing skills, so I want to improve my writing skills. Of course, copywriting is not a good copywriting, and you need to know some operational skills, brand strategy skills, speech skills and marketing skills. ...

Take a good look at yourself. What skills do you need most? Let's start making amends now.

Fourth, exercise. Health is the capital of the revolution. If you want to successfully complete the "Long March", you must have a healthy body. There was a traffic accident last time I went to Zhuhai, and it was already 12: 30 when I returned to the hotel. At this time, I still have the energy to turn on the computer and write several groups of posters. My sisters admire me and say that I am too energetic. I owe all this to my persistent running. So no matter how busy you are, set aside 3-4 hours a week for yourself to go for a walk or run.

So what if you are 30? So what if you are 40? So what if you're 50? As long as you don't lose your 20-year-old heart of trying, fighting bravely and loving learning, you are a star-studded person.

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