The daughter teacher's son is married and wants to buy a house for a new trip. Is it suitable for crowdfunding down payment among parents?

I have never seen such a brazen thing. Does this teacher usually make up lessons for the students in the class for free? If there is, if I am a parent out of human feelings, I will take the initiative to express my interest. My children fell in love with online games in junior high school. The class teacher really didn't worry less, and often communicated with me, which played a great role. When the head teacher's children get married, others will pay two or three hundred, and I will pay one thousand. There will be reciprocity in peacetime. Because even if you are not a child's teacher, you should be a friend!

I am an art training teacher who taught myself to take the art college entrance examination. I often coordinate the conflicts between students and parents, and the parents of children are also very grateful, and often bring me some special products and the like. Because today's children are more rebellious, but what their favorite teachers say is more useful than parents, and parents are more grateful. Some people will say that the teacher "takes bribes" when they see this. Who doesn't have friends from all walks of life? Isn't it human nature that I give students a few thousand dollars' fee waiver?

So, tell the truth about everything. If you ask for it, it's too much! Personal relationship is better, and it is understandable to be willing.

Thank you for inviting me.

You don't have to ask Definitely inappropriate.

It is unreasonable, unreasonable and illegal for the teacher's son to get married and buy a house, and the parents of the students raise money for the down payment.

The teacher's son gets married and buys a house, and the teacher raises money by himself. It is parents and elders who help his son, and the teacher's son has nothing to do with his parents. Why do teachers and sons need parents to make a down payment when they get married and buy a house?

If the teacher actively asks parents to raise money for their son to get married and buy a house, it is taking advantage of his position and the teacher's favorable position to ask for other people's property, or illegally collecting other people's property. If the amount is large, it constitutes the crime of accepting bribes. The specific punishment should be convicted and sentenced according to the amount and circumstances received.

If the parents of the students take the initiative to raise funds, the teacher himself does not know, actively stops it after knowing it, and voluntarily returns the fund-raising, which does not constitute a crime and will not be punished by penalty and administrative punishment.

In short, a gentleman loves money and takes it wisely. My beloved son's marriage is a happy event. However, it is illegal and criminal to take advantage of one's position to ask for other people's property to reduce one's personal burden, not to mention being an engineer's teacher of the human soul.

Everything has happened now, even such a thing can be thought of. As a senior teacher who has been teaching in the field of education for many years, we should consider its social impact and the negative effects caused by this incident.

Even if their positions give them certain rights, national public officials, including teachers, should not use these rights for personal gain, but should use the rights given by the state and the people to better serve the people, education and students.

This kind of behavior is not only inappropriate, but also detrimental to the image of teachers. If it is borrowed privately, that is another matter. It is obviously inappropriate to be able to raise money like parents to buy a house in a public community and pay the down payment.

It would be inappropriate if the family Committee organized everyone and everyone volunteered. This is not a good thing. Isn't this obviously pushing the teacher into the fire pit? Oh, buying your own house, getting married and traveling for your son have to be raised by the parents in the group. What's going on here? Even if everyone has that heart, the teacher dare not accept it.

For an inappropriate example, if a teacher urgently needs a sum of money to save his life, but can't get it out at the moment, this situation will be different. It's a good thing to raise money, and it's a righteous cause. No one can make irresponsible remarks.

I don't know if the author really encountered such confusion when asking this question, or whether it was a guess to test the public's reaction. In fact, in real life, I don't think this kind of thing would have happened if my parents were not slaves themselves.

Any class teacher, as long as the children study well, will feel gratified and will have the idea of letting parents pay their own living expenses. Of course, if there is such an idea, it is also the result of the unilateral wishes of some parents. For example, they want their children to enjoy the extra care and privileges of the class teacher and give gifts to the class teacher in private; What's more, engage in some public activities to please the head teacher in the class group and encourage other parents to show kindness and loyalty to the head teacher. Other parents can't refuse because of face, so they can only do it. In the long run, this encourages the temper of some class teachers, who think that parents are soft persimmons and easy to pinch. Whenever there is an economic need, they will hint through various words. Of course, I still believe that in a model school, there should not be such a class teacher who is manipulated by material desires.

Forgive me for being young and shortsighted. What does crowdfunding mean? Borrow? Do you want more?

If this story is false, how much resentment does the subject have towards the teacher to fabricate such a story? If it is true, the teacher's practice is not only inappropriate, but also crazy!

Let's analyze it according to the topic. The teacher's son can't afford the down payment for marriage, house purchase and wedding travel, and the teacher is not very successful. It is certain that the income of this profession is not high, but the expenses are not large. The son is not old enough to get married, and the down payment to his parents has not been saved enough. I really can't live. (Let's not say whether the down payment should be paid by parents. There is no money for wedding travel, and crowdfunding is also going. This son is old enough. It's not that one family doesn't enter one family.

Without money, it is not impossible to borrow money. Aren't parents afraid of unemployment? This is a naked bribe! Teachers are not necessarily top students, but this IQ is too worrying! Unscientific!

Well, I admit that I was stumped by this wonderful question. I began to doubt myself and life!

First of all, the truth of this matter remains to be verified. In recent years, education departments all over the country have vigorously cracked down on the phenomenon of teachers bribing and accepting red envelopes. There should not be many people who dare to commit such a blatant crime against the wind. If such a thing really happens, it is certainly inappropriate. Isn't this a disguised bribe to accept property? As a teacher, you should set an example to educate your students. What can a teacher without ethics do to educate people? Secondly, teachers' salaries are increasing year by year, and teachers' income is at least moderate. Some teachers with professional titles have been teaching for a long time, and their income is quite rich. Usually have the money to buy a house. There is no need to use this "despicable" means to restrain their property and ruin their career.

If this kind of behavior is spontaneous by parents, the teacher should stop it and return all the money when he knows it; If this is required by the teacher, it should be reported to the relevant departments. The existence of such people will affect the development and reputation of this teaching team.

If this matter is raised by the teacher, you can collect real evidence, collect evidence and report it directly, and never tolerate it.

However, it is really unexpected that teachers dare to make such a request in the limelight when the state has always prohibited teachers from paying for tutoring.

So we have to doubt the authenticity of the subject. It is suggested that such problems be described in detail in the future, with real evidence attached. Otherwise, it is not conducive to building a harmonious society to let everyone waste their breath and time here for things that don't exist.

I hope our discussion is more meaningful and valuable. I don't mean to offend this topic.

In a word, parents and teachers have egg pain.

In today's schools, it is often impossible to achieve a complete balance. There are always front rows and back rows in the classroom. No matter whether there are people sitting in the front row or the back row, there are restrictions on the number of participants in many school activities, so only a few people can participate, and most students can only wave flags and shout at the back.

Faced with such a situation, it is understandable that students are taken care of by teachers because of their outstanding performance, but more often, it is the parents of students who play tricks behind their backs, resulting in such an imbalance. Such parents must be particularly active among parents. Whether it is good or bad, he will rush forward and listen to lies, not to mention the fact that there is such a situation in the problem. In order to kiss the teacher's ass, he called on the parents of the whole class to raise money to buy a house and make up for the wedding travel expenses.

Therefore, whenever a parent takes the initiative to provoke this topic and calls on everyone to do it, it must be for his good to the teacher. Even if other parents pay the money, the discount is limited. You should stay away from such parents, definitely scheming bitches.

Nowadays, many teachers will also put forward some things needed for school activities, some things used to decorate classrooms at home, but most of the time they are unimportant things or things used at home. This requirement may be more common in kindergartens and less common in primary and secondary schools.

However, if teachers explicitly ask students to give gifts or ask for some high-value items, then there must be something wrong with teachers' morality. A teacher like the one mentioned in the question must report it. If he is not in the classroom, how can we educate the students?

Personally, I think it is very inappropriate. According to my own life experience, let me talk about my point of view.

First, the marriage of a teacher's son is a personal act, which has nothing to do with academic qualifications. You shouldn't mix your family affairs with your work. At present, the state severely punishes unhealthy practices. If this is the teacher's suggestion, parents should refuse it.

A teacher's job is to teach and educate people. If they think they should get more rewards for doing their job well, then I don't think children will learn better knowledge with such teachers.

Secondly, if this is a suggestion made by some parents, it depends on their intentions. Some people are willing to curry favor with teachers, and they are not short of money. Other parents have no reason to stop personal behavior. Just be yourself and don't have to follow.

If parents really want to sponsor teachers, you can think like this: Are you rich or working-class? Others may give tens of thousands, and they can only give hundreds or thousands. It's best not to give it to them. Teachers who only value material things will also take care of their children according to which parent pays more. You know, some people just watch others eat food. It's amazing.

Thirdly, if children know that their parents give gifts to their teachers, it will have a far-reaching impact on their future outlook on life and values. He may think to himself that he only needs to send a gift to the teacher, and he doesn't need to study hard.

However, what about children entering the society? No matter what mistakes he made, he thought he could solve them with money. I think this will lead to a great disaster.

In short, education is no small matter, and the wind of education should be healthy and upward, and promote the positive energy of society. Only when everyone dares to say no to bad phenomena can our children have a better future.

The above only represents personal views, welcome to add.

The person who asked this question has a brain problem! Specializing in the black teacher industry! Not worth answering!