Many people say that it is best not to travel with acquaintances. What is the reason?

No matter whether it's a self-help tour or a team tour, it's best not to travel with relatives and friends in the same industry. It's really a broad insight. The reason is that tourism itself is a simple association of "people-tourist attractions", and if it is in the same industry with relatives and friends, it will become a complicated transmission chain of "people-people-tourist attractions". In most cases, traveling with relatives and friends will not only reduce the quality of tourism, but also hurt the relationship between relatives and friends.

Generally speaking, there are the following aspects:

First, people's nature that is most easily exposed when traveling.

A pair of boys and girls, whether they are suitable for being lovers or not, will certainly bear fruit if they travel together. A couple is suitable for not getting married, and a trip with a partner can tell; Whether a couple really love each other can be seen from their companion travel. This is basically a well-known "true knowledge". Why is a trip enough to test a person?

This is because tourism is a short-term concentration of daily life when traveling to and staying in unfamiliar areas. In the middle, there are not only leisure to play, eating and drinking, all kinds of purchases, but also the mentality and emotions that are naturally revealed and released. On the one hand, when people are in an unfamiliar natural environment, instinctive reaction will cause obvious desire to guard against consciousness. For example, if you travel safely, if your diet is clean, you will eat badly, if you buy things at tourist attractions, if your wallet and other money will be stolen, and at the same time, everyone will cause too high regulations and psychological hopes to relatives and friends in the same industry during the trip; On the other hand, people will release pressure and release themselves in the whole process of holiday travel, especially in the tourist attractions; What's more, tourism is a whole process that consumes a lot of energy, and it is very easy for people to develop negative emotions when they are tired. With the accumulation of these three factors, the essence of human beings will be completely revealed in the whole process of tourism.

Therefore, people who usually look very familiar-even couples and couples-will show a very strange side in their travels. And this side is usually self-serving and even selfish. Therefore, in most cases, when relatives and friends travel together, they will expose and discover each other's nature. If we can't be tolerant of each other, if we haggle over each other, nine times out of ten there will be contradictions when relatives and friends travel together.

second, relatives and friends in the same industry often seriously distract the vitality of tourism.

Holiday travel, except for short-distance day trips or taking eating and drinking as the leading factor, is not only the whole process of going out, but also the whole process of experiencing and discovering yourself. No matter what level of people, there will be bustling noise in tourism, but they must also be calm in their hearts. The key to tourism is the single-line connection between people and tourist attractions. However, if relatives and friends are promoted, it will become a "T"-shaped connection. If you are relatives and friends who have gone through several trips together, traveling together will certainly enhance a lot of happiness. On the contrary, a lot of time and energy need to be spent on solving key problems with relatives and friends. Usually, you are tired of taking care of the other party, and the other party still thinks that you have not taken care of him at a key point. For example, take pictures. Two relatives and friends, one likes tourist attractions A and the other likes tourist attractions B. We both need to help the other side take many photos of the other side at the tourist attractions that we hate. Including such key points as getting on the bus, eating and peeing, we all need to wait and take care of each other.

Third, it is easy for relatives and friends in the same industry to cause the problem of money if they don't cut their hair.

economic relations are much easier to solve among passers-by. But among relatives and friends, they will care about all kinds of problems such as face. And many expenses in the middle of the tour are very fragmentary. Even if two financial accountants who know each other go to travel together, they can't tell the accounts caused by the whole process of travel. Even the AA system, to put it bluntly, doesn't have so much energy to keep in mind and make it clear.