Mom bravely travels alone, enjoys the love of a queen and is happier

Author＼Difeny

Most travels start after marriage, which is a kind of luck and happiness. After becoming a ***, you have more partners and more responsibilities in your life. Most women in Taiwanese society have this kind of social value thinking. They go home to cook, take care of the house, and take care of the family (I (think it is a family matter) is the first consideration.

After becoming a mother, with unpaid jobs such as breastfeeding or taking care of infants and young children, as well as the social and moral framework, it seems that you have no more freedom ~ right?

This article is for working women, married women, and mothers who are all in the same marriage. Give yourself a little freedom and a little breathing space. You are already great enough, and the rest is , it’s time to bravely go out, whether it’s a trip abroad or a long trip to Taiwan, 2 days is fine, 10 days is also great. After you come back, you will find that your energy has become stronger!

I remember the early morning when I set off for Tokyo, Knna was probably Zhang Er Kong and couldn’t figure out what happened to me? That day was knna's birthday, and the gift I gave him was to take care of him for two days and one night. I needed a break. It was a really big gift.

Just to travel alone, take a walk, listen to the voice in your heart, and reflect on whether you have better investments and expectations for your family and yourself. Or just become that labor at home?

Many wives and mothers are afraid to travel alone, and they are not willing to travel alone. In fact, it is not difficult to guess the reason. In addition to lack of courage, they are also afraid of losing their place in the family, or worried that they will no longer be able to travel alone. Is it an important role in the family?

I think that only by traveling can you highlight your importance at home. Because I am always the important caregiver in my family, I need to take a vacation. In addition to taking a breather, I also need to let my family know how wonderful you are! Next, not only can you take a breather from traveling, you can also discover another self, discover the beautiful scenery along the way, and appreciate your own beauty alone.

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Although it is your first *** mother to travel, on the first day you You will be very unable to let go of your husband and children, or even miss you very much or feel embarrassed, as if you have left all the responsibilities to your significant other. However, you will increasingly find that without your care, your children will miss you very much, and they will also miss you very much. You can continue to find a way to live, and when you go home, you will be loved like a queen!

Of course, such a trip must be conditional. Support for taking care of the family must be found. The concept of the benefits of traveling with the other half has been cultivated for a long time.

I guess I have buried clues like this for several years. Knna respects my ideas very much. Even though he is a homebody who doesn’t go out unless he can, he is still willing to respect someone who spends all day long. For his wife who was running around and playing around outside, he said: In marriage, one should respect each other’s ideas.

Of course this is my luck and happiness, but I also try to let knna always accompany me abroad. Then, I will slowly take my family to travel abroad, so that they can slowly feel the beauty of traveling. . Then, due to some opportunities and work, I also started to try my own travel.

My children love traveling because of me, and because of my solo travel, they begin to learn to respect the opinions of everyone in the family.

Cultivating your ability to travel is an investment in yourself:

Traveling alone is a particularly important self-investment for *** mothers, if you stay at home full-time Mom, I need this kind of travel nutrition even more.

In addition to giving yourself a vacation, you also need to improve your vision and abilities during travel, so that you no longer limit your vision to home and children, leaving only comparisons on the Internet. , compared to family, money, and children, the world is big, and there are so many beautiful things that deserve to be appreciated and praised. We may be able to spend more time investing in ourselves.

Because when you travel, you will learn more about language and culture, and you will also learn to be tolerant, tolerant of others and considerate of your family.

For our own family, traveling alone is a kind of broadening of horizons:

After marriage, it is too easy for us to be buried in the family, leaving only firewood, rice, oil and salt every day. It takes up a whole day of energy to feed the young and old, let alone read a book when you have time. When you have time, you should just watch TV and rest!

Then, in addition to resting during the trip, it is also a time to recharge and broaden your horizons. At this time, you will look at the world and yourself attentively. At this time, you will not just yell at children or yell at children every day. I am angry with my husband.

As for where to go? How to get there? Do you dare? Such questions will not be a problem if you decide to set off. You can go wherever you want, both at home and abroad. Go to Kenting, Hualien, and Hualien for 2 days and 1 night. Or like me, I spent 2 days and 1 night in Kyoto and Tokyo and I was happy.

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There is no standard format for travel, and there is no set procedure. In the city where you live, find a hotel to stay by yourself for one night, be a lady, and get up early the next day to eat by yourself. A hearty breakfast and a great trip.

In marriages and families, Chinese society places emphasis on the maternal line as the main caregiver. Communication between parents and teachers is usually directed to the mother. If there is a problem in child care, the mother is usually approached. It seems that you have become the connector of the child. I'm not sure you're tired? Or enjoy it, but if you have the opportunity, maybe try traveling alone, which will definitely enrich your life and your family.

I remember that when I was in Switzerland, I met an old lady who was traveling alone. She was telling herself to me in German mixed with English (because I didn’t understand German, so I just Can guess English), she is over 80 years old, still traveling alone, her partner has passed away.

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The old lady also said that since the year she got married at the age of 24, she made an appointment with her husband every year There was a family trip and a trip of her own. This habit lasted for more than 50 years until the old man passed away. Because of the habit of traveling alone, she became more independent. In the years after the old man left, she also became more independent because of the habit of traveling alone. Get out of grief.

Are you ready to travel alone?

Or before starting a solo trip with the same *** or mother, you can also form a small group of 2 or 3 people with the same *** or mother, and find a place to relax by yourself. Take a break without the kids or husband.

Come on!