"Where is Dad going?" 12 girls were collectively exposed for 8 years. Why are they getting different?

Toto, Sendi, Wang Shiling, Belle, Summer, Wu Xinyi ... ...

Because "Where's Dad?" These children were raised by us.

The program has been on the air for eight years. When you see their comparison between the past and the present, aren't you also amazed at the sentence "eighteen changes in women's universities"?

In fact, time changes not only their appearance, but also the most important thing that affects a child's growth.

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"Crying Baby" Sandy:

I really can.

The first season of Where's Dad Going began with Sandy's crying.

This 5-year-old girl shed tears for a whole period because she came to a strange environment.

As a father, Tian Liang, after repeatedly discouraging fruitless, said again spirit again funny:

"Are you here to perform crying?"

But when Sen put away her tears, everyone soon saw her talent as a "champion daughter".

Once you open your legs, you are "a woman like the wind."

The other children are too tired to walk. She is still striding with a basket full.

When you start working, you are always full of energy.

Tian Liang gradually discovered the bright spot in her daughter. From her impatience at the beginning, she gradually became a "kind father".

Tell me about the little details in 1 program:

Once I went to the desert, Sendie tried to slide down a steep sand dune.

And repeatedly assured his father: "I really can."

Although Tian Liang was worried, she didn't stop at last. Instead, when her daughter slipped, she quietly grabbed the skateboard and followed her to "eat sand" until she chose to let go in a gentle place.

Afterwards, Tian Liang said, "I'm not at ease, but I think I should let her try what she wants to do."

As parents, we can't suppress our children's nature because of our own worries. We can only stay with her when she goes up and down the mountain to protect her safety.

So, when we saw Sendi again on the hot search, 12 years old, she was already in the box with Australian Grand Slam champion Hewitt.

The bodybuilding posture has made countless netizens envious.

Besides tennis, she can also be seen in football fields, swimming pools and track and field.

No matter how hard and tired, the little girl never gave up once, and Tian Liang always silently supported her behind her back.

Even when she was injured and fractured, her mother Ye Yixi joked with netizens: Nothing, she said she was physically disabled and determined!

Some people say that this is the accomplishment of a "top daughter".

But in my opinion:

It is a parent's accomplishment to allow children to do what they like and encourage her to do well.

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"Little adult" Huang Duoduo:

Rebellion is a kind of nature

The name Huang Duoduo has long been = "national daughter".

The "grown-up" atmosphere shown in Where is Dad? Everything about her is examined by everyone under a magnifying glass.

When I participated in the program, Duoduo was 8 years old. In front of a group of friends aged four or five, she naturally assumed the responsibility of being a big sister.

But in some people's mouths, it becomes "preoccupied and showing off everywhere."

1 1 year-old, a netizen found a small ring on his ring finger, which caused criticism.

12 years old, wearing heavy makeup to participate in the school drama, was approved for precocity.

13 years old, pierced his ears, dyed his hair ... said he was rebellious.

Recently, there have even been rumors that something bad happened to her in the school library and she was expelled.

In the end, the school urgently dismissed the rumor, and the Huang Lei family called the police to stop the leisurely crowd.

Faced with so many rights and wrongs, Huang Lei and Sun Li, as parents, always stand firmly behind their daughters.

Sun Li said: "It is girls' nature to love beauty, and we respect them. If you stop her now, she will be more rebellious in the future. "

Huang Lei also said more than once:

In this environment, a lot of growth is beyond many people's imagination:

In the third grade, she began to try to arrange the drama Cinderella with her friends and learn to write plays in English.

/kloc-When he was 0/0 years old, he dubbed English animated films such as The Little Prince, The Dream of Dreams, Ice Age 2, etc.

In 20 19, he won five first prizes in piano solo, piano quartet and violin solo in the Singapore International Westernization Music Competition (China Trial).

This year, it appeared on the stage of Lai Shengchuan's drama The Book in the Water.

We don't deny that many family backgrounds played a great role in her growth.

However, it seems somewhat inaccurate to summarize her growth path with the phrase "some people were born in Rome".

We intentionally or unintentionally ignore an important factor in children's growth-respect.

Let the child truly become a person with independent personality and let him feel respected. This is the highest realm of family education and life.

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"Little Princess" Wang Shiling:

I am not a big star.

Compared with Duoduo, there have been many controversies surrounding Wang Shiling since he participated in Where is Dad Going?

No matter where she and her mother Li Xiang appear, topics such as wealth, figure, idolization and commercialization are indispensable.

But when we take off the "local tyrant" filter and go to see this little girl, you will find that she has a very warm quality.

In "Where is Dad Going?", there was an episode in which a program group asked five children to go to the villagers' house to collect vegetables.

After the task was completed, the children said thank you and went out.

Four-year-old Wang Shiling took grandpa's hand and kept saying, Grandpa, be good at home.

On another occasion, while other children were still hesitating to be humble, Wang Shiling had given the leash in her hand to Miss Sister.

Li Xiang once said a word in the program.

On weekends, she sleeps late.

In order not to disturb mom and dad's rest, Wang Shiling quietly got up early and prepared breakfast for herself.

In the eyes of other children, Wang Shiling is a "big star", but she just wants to be a warm-hearted "little princess".

Such a smart and sensible child is more than money.

Writer Han Songluo once said of Li Xiang:

Indeed, Li wanted to see every progress of the child and gave her encouragement in time.

I don't hesitate to praise my daughter on any occasion.

As she said in an exclusive interview with chongqing morning post:

"A child who does not lack love will be willing to give her love to others. She is like a little sun, keeping everyone warm. "

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"Good girl" Wu Xinyi:

Dad, tell me to be brave.

If "Where's Dad Going" is going to choose a "slave girl", it must be Chun Wu.

Because no parent can print "Ten Rules of Chasing My Daughter" on sportswear as blatantly as he does.

1, with work and responsibility.

2. Understand that I may not like you

I will supervise you anytime and anywhere.

If you dare to hurt my daughter, I will pay you double.

5. Stand by for 24 hours a day

6. Your money is her money

If you dare to lie to her, I will find out.

She is my little princess, not your trophy.

9. I'm ready to go to jail (I'll beat you if you treat her badly)

10, exercise, stay healthy and strong, and protect her for life.

But doting doesn't mean doting.

Wu Xinyi is picky about food, and Chun Wu tells her daughter while eating steamed bread:

"There are still many people in this world who have nothing to eat. We can't waste food. "

There was a lot of physical labor in the program, and the little girl soon got tired, but Chun Wu always patiently took her to complete all tasks.

And through their own efforts, money education for their daughters.

When recording the first program, Chun Wu burst into tears when she saw her daughter say "Dad, tell me to be brave" in tears.

Not because he can't bear to part with his daughter, but because he watched her grow up.

In the case of Chun Wu, we can see the amazing change of this little girl who is a little clingy.

I hurt my hand in the program, so I can continue to go into battle lightly.

Later, I learned to dance. "I practice five or six days a week, only excited and not tired."

This is the power of example.

Just like Chun Wu's classic question and answer in Lu Yu You Yue:

"I want to be a role model for my daughter. I can't embarrass my daughter. I hope that my daughter will be proud of her parents. "

A parent always sets an example, and his children will have a good future.

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"Where is Dad going?" It has been eight years, and these girls who grew up in the spotlight are all moving along their own life tracks.

Lu Yi's daughter Belle has already changed from a "little Tang Priest" with "a hundred thousand whys" to a little lady who loves music.

Once a lovely summer, I became a sports teenager who liked sailing.

Cao Ge's sister Grace, who was in a daze, also became natural and graceful.

There is an old saying in China that "the poor raise children and the rich raise daughters".

These girls, from the inside out, can be regarded as a model of "rich support"

It is difficult for ordinary families to compare with these "second-generation stars" materially, but from their growth trajectory, we can see three weathervanes that have a profound impact on life:

First, the poor raise the rich. The difference is not only money, but also vision and mentality.

A good education doesn't depend on real money to go to some interest classes, just to travel abroad several times.

Thinking mode, educational concept and moral cultivation have far-reaching influence on your children than RMB, quietly completing the intergenerational transmission of life.

Second, the so-called growth depends partly on parents' guidance and partly on self-shaping.

We admit that a good starting point can make children take fewer detours.

However, if you lie in the arms of your parents and get something for nothing, you will always be a giant baby.

Third, parents' self-management and efforts are the best benchmark for children's growth.

What is the best education?

That is, you love learning more than children, live harder than children, and demand self-growth more than children.

Parents are always one step ahead of their children and make them better.

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