In the face of asexual marriage, what is a woman's best retreat?

Marriage is the ultimate destination of love. Many people who love each other long for marriage and hope to be the closest people in each other's lives.

However, after entering the marriage, I found that the life of two people is full of more challenges.

There are too many practical problems to face in marriage. If two people don't communicate well, they will fall into a tired period after endless quarrels, and at the end of the tired period, it is a complete break.

Marriage brings not only happiness, but also pain and regret. Everyone is eager for marriage, but they are very afraid of it.

What I yearn for is that after marriage, I can wake up with my lover's arm on my pillow every day and live a poetic life together.

I am afraid that there are too many practical problems to face after marriage, but in fact, these problems have a clue as early as when I am in love.

What happens when an immortal love meets a asexual marriage? How should women face asexual marriage? I believe this is the most realistic problem that many women encounter in marriage.

chapter two

When they become the closest lovers, some intimate actions that only belong to lovers are extremely effective means of communication.

However, many women find that their husbands are always avoiding, unwilling to hug, unwilling to kiss, and even unwilling to do those happy things that only belong to husband and wife.

So, in the face of such asexual marriage, what is the best way for women to retreat? I believe every woman has a different answer, but I think Ada's story can provide some reference.

Ada is a warm and cheerful woman. She is always pursuing novelty. She likes to travel around and discover different sides of the world.

In many things, she will not wronged herself. For example, if you like someone, she will pursue it boldly, instead of loving herself silently. For example, when she is treated unfairly in the company, she will not choose to bear it, but leave after a complete outbreak.

Ada, who dares to love and hate, actually has her own understanding of life and feelings. She won't wronged herself, won't accommodate others, and won't force herself to be with people she doesn't like.

On a trip, she met such an outstanding gaoyu. At that moment, Ada felt that she had found the person she longed for most.

Ada was very satisfied with gaoyu's thoughtfulness and respect, so she offered to be nice. After getting along for a period of time, the two established a love relationship.

During the communication, Ada found that when gaoyu was with her, all the behaviors were based on feelings and politeness, and there was no overstepping.

At that time, Ada was moved by the behavior of a gentleman like gaoyu, and she also vowed to give her best self to gaoyu at the happiest moment.

After dating for more than a year, the two entered the marriage hall.

Thought, after marriage, the relationship between the two people will be more intimate, but Ada found that Gao Yu was really interested in sex.

No matter how she hinted, Gao Yu was indifferent. Ada felt very discouraged. She and gaoyu are husband and wife. What is husband and wife? Husband and wife should be the two closest people in the world, but Ada doesn't know whether she has her place in Gao Yu's heart at this time.

However, in normal life, gaoyu is really meticulous and considerate to Liu Yan, which makes her fall into a deep contradiction.

In the face of asexual marriage, Ada doesn't know what her best way out is. After the divorce, she was reluctant to leave gaoyu. She felt that she could not accept such a marriage.

She also tried to communicate with Liu Yu, but she didn't know why. Every time she mentioned it, Liu Yu began to run away.

Ada's forbearance and gaoyu's avoidance put this marriage in jeopardy.

When Ada struggled alone, a move by Gao Yu gave her the answer.

That day, Liu Yan was riding a bike home, and a car behind her hung her on the ground. At that time, the only person she thought of was Gao Yu.

She called him, and Gao Yu will be here soon. It usually takes half an hour to drive from home to that place. Ada doesn't know how Gao Yu got there in ten minutes.

In fact, Ada was not badly hurt, but he was badly hurt. But the moment Gao Yu saw him, it was like the sky was falling. Ada even saw the tears in his eyes.

The man who seldom talks about love, the indomitable spirit man, shed tears in the busy street because she was slightly injured.

At that moment, all the uncertainties in Ada's mind suddenly came to an answer.

She chose to continue this marriage because she knew that gaoyu really loved her.

In the days to come, she tried to do something meaningful with Gao Yu to enrich their lives.

She thinks that the best way to retreat is to regard love as the whole topic of life and let love bring two people closer.

chapter three

Time emotion class:

Ada made her choice, and love overcame everything in her heart. But you should know that Ada's choice is not the only answer.

In the face of asexual marriage, a woman's best retreat is to love that person deeply and turn love into life. If you don't love so much, leaving is a good choice.

At this moment, in the face of asexual marriage, are you also confused and at a loss about the future, whether to persist or let go, leaving you at a loss?

In fact, you can have a good talk with your lover, find out the key problems, and then completely solve the contradictions. Don't avoid talking about it, and don't wronged yourself. Sex is very important in marriage. If you don't solve this contradiction, you will live in pain every day.

If in your heart, love can overcome everything, then you can choose to continue, but you should also be prepared for the future when love is gone and what to use to maintain your marriage.

On the other hand, if after a long period of communication, there is no way to solve the problem and love does not pay attention to supporting such a marriage, then separation may be a good choice.