The marriage of Deng Chao and Sun Li tells us a truth: a good partner can heal the pain of the original family.

Fu Seoul said: "A good partner can heal the pain of the original family." I agree with this view.

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A person cannot choose his family of origin, but he can choose his partner.

The pain of the original family already exists, it is experienced by oneself, and it is also growing up in this pain, such as Su Mingyu in "Everything is Good", such as Liz in "Hardway to Harvard", They all suffer from the misfortune of their original families.

But fortunately, everyone will grow and develop for the better. As you grow up day by day, and have the ability to support yourself, you will gradually disperse the pain caused by your original family. For example, work can be partially dispersed, but this is just an appearance.

What can really be cured is to meet a good partner. A good partner forms a home with you, and has your own real home. Your partner loves, cares, understands and tolerates you. , will make you feel the true love in the world, warm your heart, and give you a reliable shoulder.

As we all know, actor Sun Li’s native family is very unhappy. Sun Li’s parents divorced when she was young, her father married another woman, and Sun Li was raised by her mother. Sun Li, who depends on her mother, has been sensible since she was very young, and I hate my father, especially when I see my mother working so hard to support her in school and dancing.

Sun Li was once a non-marriage activist because the trauma her family of origin gave her made her fearful of marriage.

But the appearance of Deng Chao, his love, care and consideration for her melted her cold heart and made her begin to believe in love, believe that this man can be kind and worthy of trust.

So, Sun Li got married. At the wedding, Sun Li said in her speech: Deng Chao, you have to be good to us two!

Deng Chao has indeed done it over the years. Now, the two have children and a happy marriage.

Furthermore, under the influence of Deng Chao, Sun Li has a harmonious relationship with her father, and even takes special care of her half-sister.

There is a saying: Lucky people are healed by childhood throughout their lives, and unfortunate people are healed by childhood throughout their lives.

Deng Chao and Sun Li have become a model couple in the entertainment industry. Sun Li loves health care very much, so Deng Chao buys her health socks, and he also takes the initiative to buy earrings for Sun Li. They often interact with each other. Deng Chao said that his status in the family is lowest.

Actually, this is all a manifestation of his love for Sun Li.

Their family of four travels together every year and celebrates their children’s birthdays every year, with a sense of ceremony. Not only that, they also often surprise each other in their lives. They play games as a family, pile up Du Deng Chao with leaves, etc., which are full of fun and laughter.

But if you meet a good partner, your childhood wounds will slowly heal. A good partner can put you in your shoes, give you warmth, love and love.

There is nothing in this world that is more healing than love.

It can even be said that marriage is the second reincarnation of your life. If you find the right person, you will be the princess or the queen. If you find the wrong person, you will be the maid or nanny.

So, the question still comes down to what kind of partner you are looking for. I hope that each of us can find a good partner and have a happy marriage and a beautiful life. They can fill their lives and hearts with love.

Of course, only when a person learns to truly love himself can he love others better. If you don’t meet someone who loves you especially and takes you seriously, I hope you can be yourself. universe, and live every day happily.