Mei Wen loved to speak well all his life.

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Mei Wen loved to speak well all his life.

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I got up early to go to work, and there was a middle-aged couple behind me. I kept hearing them chatting, which was very interesting.

Man: "How about eating steamed buns later?"

Woman: "Good."

Man: "Meat or vegetarian?"

Woman: "Meat, meat is delicious."

Man: "Then we'll have two servings of meat. Do you want to be vegetarian? "

Woman: "I want to eat some, too." Do you want it? "

Man: "I want to, too. I'll sit down first, and you can buy steamed bread. "

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It is these trivial things that can't be trivial, but the two talked with relish, talked about it, and took no time. Northeasters rarely have such a gentle tone. The land here is vast and sparsely populated. People are used to rough atmosphere. A little emphasis on tone is like quarreling. Talking too much will inevitably disturb the people.

I can't help looking back. They are really two ordinary people who can't be found in the crowd. They look ordinary and dress ordinary, but their faces are calm and smiling. The two men didn't hold hands, but their heads and necks leaned together, hiding the lingering feeling of middle-aged people.

Maybe I'm a little arbitrary. Judging from the way they talk, I think they must be a loving couple. Although I only saw the simplest paragraph about their lives, the meaning and symbols contained in this paragraph can not be ignored. I have a cousin. The old couple are over eighty years old. That's how they talk. She thinks everything he says is good and reasonable. He supports everything she wants to do, and she will discuss it even if she has different opinions. Listening to them, there is a warm sense of relaxation. Unlike my dad talking to my mom, as a bystander, I have to sweat for them, because you never know when they will quarrel. They are never opportunistic. You go east, I go west, this is a small situation. It's normal to dig up old scores and blame each other. It's not that this kind of marriage can't last long, but it can't be said that the quality is high.

Some people may think that what they say is trivial and there is nothing to talk about. But if you talk in a different attitude, even such a small thing may go wrong.

Like this:

Man: "Can we eat steamed buns later?"

Woman: "You only know how to eat steamed stuffed buns. Can't you change the pattern? "

Man: "Then every time I say what you want to eat, you still disagree."

Woman: "You are my husband. I don't even know what I like to eat. What can I say? "

Man: "Do you know what I like to eat? Why do I have to rely on you every time? "

The above conversation is not fiction, but a real life scene of a relative and his wife. I complained to him that it is often difficult for them to reach an understanding, even the simplest meal. The "steamed buns" here can be changed into jiaozi, steamed bread and noodles at will, which is not important. Anyway, she wants to hear everything. She hasn't made it clear yet, so let him guess for himself. If you guess wrong, you won't be happy. You ask her to say that she hasn't said anything yet. In short, it is a headache and hurts feelings.

I'm still at the steamed stuffed bun shop. I've heard this conversation:

Woman: "Eat steamed buns?"

Man: "What are you going to eat in the steamed bun shop?"

Woman: "Is it okay to eat meat?"

Man: "I don't know how to eat less meat in hot weather." Not fresh, no common sense. "

Woman: "Then be a vegetarian."

Man: "Stop inking, hurry up, it's almost late, and there is no time concept."

You see, every sentence is followed by questions, accusations and criticisms. Finally, the two men finished their meal with a long face. Their negative energy is so strong that I even tiptoed past them and slipped away, for fear of detonating this extremely depressed gas field.

Any small detail can turn into great harm, as long as two people are impatient with each other.

Any small detail can also reveal great love, because only when the whole life is saturated with feelings can we have peace of mind at all times.

The husband and wife have lived together for many years, and what is love is unclear. How to be a person you like? Every household has its own form of expression and cannot be generalized. But happiness and happiness can be perceived. Whether it is warm or cold, we need to experience it carefully from every day, every conversation and every little thing. Looking back many years later, all we can remember are those fragments, which constitute a complete life story.

Liu Zhenyun said: To put it bluntly, life in this world means dealing with seven or eight people. If you settle these seven or eight people, your life will be better.

So is the relationship between husband and wife. There is no need to talk about love all the time. As long as all the details are settled, such as what to eat for three meals a day, watching movies or videos during holidays, taking a walk early or taking a walk at night, everyone can be a husband and wife and naturally become a loving couple.

One year I traveled to Dalian and stood in line at a scenic spot. Everyone is very tired. A middle-aged woman leans her head on her husband, whose hand gently protects her, but her face is indifferent, unlike another loving couple in front of her, holding her, from expression to body language.

But I prefer the former state, where feelings have gone through a stage of intense burning, but they have not turned into a pool of ashes, only the temperature is hidden under the plain surface. When I am sad and tired, I want to hold you. I am always by your side when you need me. All the details of life are not out of the need to express emotions, but become an instinct.

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