When the wife is a full-time mother, the husband is unwilling to divorce anyway. What should he do as a wife?

Yan Lei and his wife Zhang Ping are classmates. They met in college. They have been in love for four years. Their relationship is very good and always sweet.

After graduating from college, both of them successfully found their favorite jobs in the same city. After their jobs were stable, they naturally got married.

When they first got married, the couple lived a very happy life. When there were few quarrels, Yan Lei gave all the financial power in the family to Zhang Ping, and asked Zhang Ping to keep their salary cards.

Zhang Ping is a very thrifty person. Although she used her own money to buy clothes, she told Yan Lei every expense, which made Yan Lei feel that she had married a good wife.

A year after they got married, Zhang Ping got pregnant. There were no problems in all the early examinations of the child, but the child was born prematurely. The doctor said that the child had difficulty breathing and was in poor health, so the child lived in the incubator for more than a month.

The cost of childbirth and the child's treatment will consume the family's little savings, which makes Yan Lei feel particularly stressed.

After the child's condition is stable, take the child home with Zhang. Because the child is in poor health, Zhang Ping also chose to resign and prepare to take care of the child wholeheartedly at home.

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After resigning, Zhang Ping put all her thoughts on her children, who are still young and sickly. Zhang Ping always felt indebted to her children, so she devoted herself to them and gradually ignored her husband.

Yan Lei is the only one in the family who earns money, and the economic situation is not good, so Zhang Ping gradually stops dressing herself up and buying new clothes, and spends all the money saved on her children.

Yan Lei looked at Zhang Ping getting sloppy, and his heart became more and more disgusted. He doesn't want to mention that Zhang Ping is his wife in front of his colleagues.

There is no longer only happiness and sweetness between two people, like when I was in college. Married life is becoming more and more boring, and there are more and more quarrels. Yan Lei no longer lets Zhang Ping manage finance.

Zhang Ping has no financial resources, so she can only keep asking Lei Yan for money, and Yan Lei is getting more and more impatient, thinking that Zhang Ping is a woman with enough food and warm clothes.

Later, when the child grew up, Zhang Ping was also going to do some small business with her friends, so she discussed with Yan Lei and prepared to take 5,000 yuan as capital to set up a joint venture with her friends.

Now Yan Lei is very annoyed. Yan Lei feels that she earned all the money in the family. Now Zhang Ping wants 5000 yuan, and she completely thinks of herself as an ATM.

So I said directly to Zhang Ping: "I earned all the money at home. You can't do business with my money. You continue to toss, let's divorce! "

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Zhang Ping felt uncomfortable, but she still endured tears and called home to borrow 5000 yuan. This is the first start-up fund. Yan Lei no longer cares about her, but only asks her not to lose her business and then find her own money.

Zhang Ping has a lot of brains and seized the opportunity. Her business is getting better and better, and she paid off her debts in less than two months. Because of making beauty cosmetics, Zhang Ping pays more and more attention to her image and dresses herself more and more beautifully.

Later, a year later, my mother-in-law was hospitalized because of a perforated stomach, and she needed nearly 100,000 surgical expenses at once. Yan Lei was so anxious that he only had more than 60,000 deposits in his hand that he invested some money. I can't take out so much at once now.

When Leiyan collapsed, Zhang Ping came over and comforted: "I have 20,000 to 30,000 yuan here, and I plan to buy it next week. Discuss with friends tomorrow and borrow some from my parents' house. Today, I will charge for the operation first and do an operation quickly! "

Yan Lei suddenly felt that he saw the light. He didn't expect his wife to take out the money in the shop to help him at the critical moment, but he was too petty.

Lei Yan felt regret when he remembered his original behavior. He especially hit himself in the face. Now his wife has forgotten the past. Yan Lei hugged his wife gratefully and kept apologizing to her.

After this incident, the relationship between Yan Lei and his wife is getting better and better. Zhang Ping also understands that husband and wife must work together in life, so Zhang Ping is also working harder and harder to do business.

Later, Zhang Ping often took her in-laws over and took them to travel together. Every time my in-laws are happy from ear to ear, they bluntly marry a good wife. Neighbors also praised Ms. Zhang, saying that Zhang Ping not only kept her home in good order, but also did a thriving business.

Every time Yan Lei heard his parents and neighbors mention his wife, he felt that his face was particularly dignified and their lives were getting happier and happier.

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In fact, stay-at-home mothers are not terrible. The scary thing is that stay-at-home mothers completely bind themselves to the family.

Just like Zijun in "My First Half Life", he only has children in his heart, and he is totally dependent on his husband financially, which leads to his final disconnection from society. When it comes to marriage, he is at a loss.

Full-time mothers should know how to grow and improve themselves, keep pace with their husbands, and not fall behind, so as to promote the happiness of marriage.

Two people in a marriage are one, and only by understanding each other, helping each other and working together can they go further.