If you want to wander, it’s because you have no fixed place to live.

I believe that everyone who wants to go out and wander is a poor person without a heart; people with roots only want to go out and travel, not wander.

I have a friend who tells me to resign every day and let me go out and wander. She said, don't let marriage consume my dreams. But I want to say that my dream is not to be homeless, but she doesn’t understand. She just thinks that wandering is the best place to belong.

My husband is an interesting man. When I told him about this, he jumped up from the bed excitedly and said a lot of things that I couldn’t believe. He said, "My family Benben doesn’t need to wander, she already has a love, I love her so much, she might as well stay in my pocket wherever she goes, but she can go out to play wherever she wants, and she can resign immediately if she doesn’t want to work. If you want to play, you can start right away, but I believe your friend doesn’t have the capital and only thinks about wandering people, so they don’t deserve the beautiful scenery.” This is the most beautiful thing he has ever said, because I was angry at the time and listened. But it's very comfortable, and it feels like being sold, and helping people count money. It's very enjoyable.

Later, we continued her topic. I said that she wanted to travel around every day when she woke up, and never considered financial issues. If you talked about her, she would think that you are a completely materialistic woman. I believe that work is the most unforgivable invention of all mankind. As noble animals as humans, we should not stop working and waste our good time. People who stay at work and struggle are all people without ideals... I can't go on. , because I always feel that she is forcing her so-called dream on the whole world...I can't accept it! I see her on WeChat Moments every day. As soon as she sees people writing travel notes, she immediately reposts on WeChat Moments to express her desire to run away. She always feels envious and envious of wanting to see the whole world.

To be honest, I don’t want to travel at all now, let alone wander. For me, traveling also depends on my mood. I won’t force myself to travel every day. No matter how beautiful the scenery is, it’s just a colorless pencil drawing if you don’t want to see it willingly.

I still remember that when I just graduated, she said to me, "Don't get married so early. Once you get married, you will be bound." I am the kind of person who is not familiar with the world. When she said this, I turned around and confessed myself. However, this is definitely the best decision in my life. After all, it created a pair of happy lovers.

Before I met my husband, I would defend to the death my “great dream of refusing to get married before the age of 25” and vowed, “Look at so and so, who gave birth to a baby as soon as they got married. I couldn’t go either. I became a complete housewife and had to worry about food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day. I don’t want to be like this!” It wasn’t until I met him that I realized that other people’s lives belong to others, and I am that one. A person who can live the life he wants because I never succumb to any form of restraint! All of this was created by him, which made me never look back on the road to marriage, and I was obsessed with happiness.

You said that most people spend their whole lives working and lose the ability to pursue their dreams as soon as they come out. But I never work just to make money. I just play too boringly. If I don’t work, I can’t live a regular life and I can’t eat well. I had no choice but to get hungry when I was working, and I realized that I had to get up when the alarm clock rang. I realized how important it is to keep time. I realized that he worked so hard every day, and I had to work hard to make money to support him. ...

My mouth always spits out sweet words of unknown taste, because he is too indulgent to me, which makes me full of knowledge and often swears, because normal words are simply not enough. I can express my excitement!

And you are angry that work has wasted a lot of your time, but you still work late into the night unwillingly. You are world-weary, but you are eager for money. This is the most spineless thing about you. place.

You like to move around, change environments, travel, and wander. That is because you have no fixed place to live, so you wander. Treating them as lofty dreams can make you temporarily forget the reality you have to face, and forget how deep down you hate the world and are obsessed with the beautiful things in the world.

Do you know why my dream of traveling all over the country suddenly disappeared? It is not that it is consumed by marriage, but that he always meets my requirements without any bottom line. Wherever I want to go, he once said something to me. It was when I just graduated. He said to me, "Stupid." Stupid, you don't have to work, you are still young, go out to play, travel, see the scenery you want to see, and come back when you are tired of seeing it. I don't want you to be like me and reach the age of three. I realized how regretful it was not to go out to play when I was young.

Human beings are really strange things. When you are young, you have the physical strength, but you don’t have the financial conditions to get around; when you have money and your career is successful, you don’t have time to go out; you finally have money, and you have time, but you don’t. That physical strength is used to play, why can't it be transferred? "It is precisely because he knows that there are many imperfections in life, and he hopes to do his best to make my life as perfect as possible; so in the first two years after I came out, I worked half the year and played half the year, and I didn't go to many places. Far away, I went to the seaside where I wanted to go, saw ancient watchtowers, and the underwater world... In fact, I think the sea is the same sea, but the mood is different; the mountains are all the same, but they are the same. It's just a stroll; every ancient alley has the flavor of an ancient alley. Sometimes when you go to more places, you'll find that wherever you go, it's just your mood that's causing trouble.

It's because he satisfied me. I want to run away at any time, so I want to stay with him. In fact, the more people want to liberate themselves through wandering, the more they are bound by their own hearts. People who can go anywhere will never want to run away, because that is. There is no need to waste the beautiful gesture of "yearning" for things that are within reach.

You like to wander because you have no roots anywhere, because you have no reason to stop anywhere, and you cannot taste it." This feeling of "nostalgia" has nothing to do with your dreams. In fact, a person who has no sense of belonging is a poor person. In the end, you may not know where you should go and what you want. Even if you travel all over the world, you are just Passers-by from all over the world.

I really like a wisecrack my husband said: "Stupid, you already have me, I won't let you go, I will hold you with a thread, if you want to fly. When you are with me, I will put the thread very long; when you want to fly away (the original words are: when you want to come back), I will take the thread back." Without any words of love, I feel It's the most romantic. In order not to make him proud, I said, "Aren't you afraid that someone will come up to you and cut your thread?" "He said in a daze, "It's okay, I have thousands of lines, you can't escape my grasp."

I never thought about running away, I always said I would. If you run away from home, you will try your best to get into his arms. If you want to wander, it must be because you have no fixed place, so you can only keep running away, looking for a place to take root.