I have been with my girlfriend for five months, and she always finds various reasons to refuse to ask her out for a trip. Why?

I have been in this situation. There are two possibilities. One reason may be that your girlfriend really doesn't have time, maybe at school or at work. Don't show impatience with your girlfriend at this time. You know, your girlfriend has her own things to do. Ask her out when she is not busy, so don't be impatient. As the saying goes, you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient.

The second reason is that she doesn't want to travel with you at all. Even if we get along for five months, it doesn't mean anything All you can prove is that it will take a long time. As for whether she loves you or not, you have no idea. In fact, it can be seen from this that her mind is no longer on you.

Maybe she has someone else in mind, or maybe she takes you as a substitute. In fact, in the past few months, you should be able to feel whether your girlfriend is sincere to you. Every time you ask her out to play, she always finds various reasons to refuse. Have you considered this question? It's understandable if she's just busy. If she keeps saying that she is busy, that's an excuse. The purpose is not to go out with you.

You can find her again. If she still doesn't go out, you can talk to her and ask her what she really thinks. If she falters, then you can tell the reason why she won't come out. If she is still busy as an excuse, you can ask her to give you a time. If she can't give it to you this time, it means she doesn't have you in her heart.

At this time, you should see her true face clearly and advise you to stop loss in time, and don't waste time on her. You can do better. This person is definitely not her. Sometimes two people who really love each other wish to see each other every day. Even if they have work to do, they can clearly tell each other that they will go out with you when they have time, instead of making excuses every time. There is no reasonable explanation yet.