Shen Jie's dad, another Su Daqiang-style "father"

After Shen Jie's father was taken to the nursing home by Gu Jia, when he learned that his son was bankrupt and went to prison, he immediately chose to faint, pretend to be ill, and regard Gu Dad as his son. When he saw the environment in the nursing home, he complained about the poor environment, which was not a five-star standard. He turned around and saw instant noodles, and said, "I will eat this first, and I will eat it then ...". Enjoy life as much as possible.

Then he swam on the table at night, and the clever father Gu Jia knew that the old man was deliberately pretending to be ill and took a nap at night, and took the opportunity to catch Shen Jie's father who tried to escape. Shen Jie's father knew that the incident was exposed and went back to the nursing home.

The old man began to regret that he had squandered his son's hard-earned money, traveled around with the money given by his children, and tasted all kinds of delicacies. He was so rich in his old age that he became a red man in his circle of friends.

Then he complained about his daughter-in-law's heartlessness. Facing Gu Jia's father's questioning, he said that he didn't escape, but the reality was that he was escaping from the problem himself, and the result of escaping was getting worse and worse.

I don't help my child solve the problem at the first time, but I avoid it. I can hide if I can. I saw the ugliest look of a parent.

shouldn't parents help their children tide over the difficulties and deal with the mess? And this father only knows pleasure and escape, and he has failed to take on the responsibility that a father should have.

What Gu Jia's father said to him explains the definition of parents, and it is also worth pondering by parents.

Maybe many parents are just ordinary people. They can't give their children a rich life or help in their careers. The only thing they can do is not to add burden to their children, but to pay silently without expecting anything in return.

Gu Jia's father has always been "sensible". When Gu Jia was worried that he was left unattended at home and asked him to live with his family of three, Gu Jia's father decisively refused and found himself a nursing home. In order not to disturb Gu Jia's family life, the old man chose to go to the nursing home instead of dragging his children down. Finally, he and Gu Jia chose a nursing home that they both recognized after consultation.

The same is true for the pancake vendor in the play. The mother will save the eggshells that make scallion cakes, and gather the egg whites in the eggshells together for her son to eat, but she is reluctant to take a bite. The father who delivers the courier will send the children a picture book made by herself on the way to work, which is the most extraordinary love that ordinary parents give their children.

They huddled in a bed at night, and mosquitoes flew in at midnight. The couple quietly drove away the mosquitoes and did not dare to wake their son in bed. These details just reflect the truest and simplest love of parents.

Even when parents are old, they would rather take care of themselves than cause trouble to their children. Parents' love is selfless, but there are also some selfish parents who not only cause trouble to their children, but also do various things.

It's not uncommon for Shen Jie's father to entertain his children. Some old people have to take care of their children when they know they have money. When you are sick, you clamor to see a doctor, regardless of whether your children are busy at work or not. If you have money, spend it yourself, enjoy it yourself, and leave no money to your children.

Su Daqiang in Everything's Fine is a vivid case. He can't live in a good old house, but he has to live in his youngest son Su Mingcheng. The couple are busy at work and order the most expensive takeaway for him. He not only criticizes the bad food outside, but also calls Su Mingzhe to complain that Ming Mingcheng doesn't cook.

Ming Cheng wanted him to take a bath and feel comfortable. He understood that he disliked him, repeatedly clamored to leave, complained to Su Mingzhe from time to time, and even willfully asked Su Mingzhe to come back and get him a passport and take him to live in the United States, without thinking about his eldest son's family, room and job.

The younger son divorced his wife. What he thought was that the family could not live any longer. He asked his eldest daughter-in-law to help him look after the house and didn't care about his son's divorce at all. Regardless of the financial situation of the eldest son, I want to buy a big house, and the final budget exceeds 2 thousand, and my daughter Su Mingyu has to add it.

Su Daqiang's deeds make people hate his teeth itch, and he is a natural son and daughter. Fortunately, he has these filial sons and daughters, otherwise the consequences can be imagined.

This kind of disguised "working" old man really exists in real life, and it is right to enjoy his old age, but it is wrong to entertain his children.

Someone in Zhihu also asked: Do "Su Daqiang" parents really exist? In fact, it really exists, and there are not a few, selfish demands, never considering how their children are. And these parents are all around us. I often hear friends around me talk about the old people at home. In the face of their "giant baby" behavior, I can only sigh secretly and dare not take any action against them.

We hope that our parents are Gu Jia's father, who is reasonable and sensible. He understands the hardships of children and their bitterness. Old age can be colorful and quality-oriented, provided that we can't change our parents without interfering with our children, so we can only change that we don't worry about our children as they do in old age.

As Gu Jia's father said, "We should be good lifeboats, and we are the last people to send them to the shore."