When adults reach the age of 30, they want to be free, starting with giving up these three things.

When I was a child, I saw the freedom of adult life and was particularly eager to grow up. Now when I grow up, I find that the imaginary free life has not become a reality. Yes, at a certain age, I already know what I like and hate. If I like it, I will enjoy it. If I hate it, I will do nothing.

Even now, people who are financially independent, comfortable and loving are still trapped and often forced to compromise, which is the sorrow of adults. Especially at the age of 30, freedom has little to do with age and money, but more of a choice.

When adults reach the age of 30, they want to be free, starting with giving up these three things.

Some people always slap their faces in order to impress others. When a person cares too much about face, face will become a shackle that binds you and makes you subject to him.

My friend Yan Yan's recent circle of friends was only visible for three days, which surprised everyone around him. Because every time she sends a circle of friends, the scenery is beautiful, the food is exquisite, and the photos of people are eye-catching and impressive, so people around her like to watch them, and they can find some happiness and even happiness in their lives.

It's only been three days since I saw it, so I can't help talking privately.

She said what you saw was just an illusion. You have been pretending to be exquisite all these years, and you are already a little tired. When going out to eat, all kinds of dishes should be served from different angles, and all kinds of suitable filters should be found. After eating, it will take longer than eating.

Traveling abroad is more tiring. In order to take satisfactory photos, I took some scenery in a hurry, so I didn't have time to continue enjoying it. I "wasted" my time on P-charts, and I couldn't extricate myself. In the end, I gained praises and messages from countless knowledge friends.

But this is not happy, she said: "vanity is satisfied, but then there is only emptiness, and I feel that my life is a little tired and meaningless." I've been tired from work recently and my health has collapsed. I went back to my hometown to rest for a few months. I thought it was extremely boring, but I didn't expect it to be the most comfortable, relaxing and comfortable time.

Yes, when a person puts face first, he will be influenced by the so-called values. Everything he does is for external display, but he ignores his own feelings.

The real freedom of adults begins with putting down face and living high.

My aunt's child has just finished an internship. Once they ate together and chatted with her, complaining about some things and people around them. For example, her colleagues like to ask some personal questions while eating, ask her to help print some materials, or ask her to buy rice, afternoon tea and so on. , but they are not easy to refuse. Although her colleagues are annoyed, compared with others, she will help her at work and wait patiently.

Only when I got here did I know that my cousin didn't know how to stay away from bad people, but she had to put up with each other's "annoyance" when she needed help. Because she hasn't really learned how to grow up, she can only rely on others when she meets things. As we all know, some things can be done by searching online.

When you get used to dependence, you naturally lose the freedom to make friends. When you grow up, you will gradually understand that the strongest backer in life will only be yourself.

The real freedom of adults begins with giving up dependence and moving towards independence.

Some people obviously like quiet, but with group activities, they never dare to be absent; Some people obviously don't like watching TV, but in order to have something to talk with their colleagues, they began to learn to follow the drama; Some people obviously don't agree with other people's views, but in order to have one more friend, they can only agree with their conscience.

In order to have more so-called friends and get along with others, I wronged myself and sacrificed too much. Really tired.

The real freedom of adults begins with giving up "gregarious" live high.

There is no absolute freedom in the world. A free life lies in the choice of adults, doing what they like and rejecting what they don't like. Maybe this is the real freedom of adults.