"Metamorphosis" 16-year-old giant baby: Spending more than 10,000 yuan a day and having to be fed to eat. Now it's like this?

Pampering is not love, it is just fearless paranoia. It can turn an originally sound mind into a deformity. Doting on so-called pets is just fulfilling a certain pathology. Love is such a beautiful word. It contains ardent expectations, full of enthusiasm and infinite care. If love is expressed in the wrong way, love turns into poison. Wrong love is hurt. Just like animals in a zoo, once they are fed by humans, they will become dependent over time and eventually lose the ability to find food. What is waiting for an animal with no ability to hunt in nature? It can only be devoured by hunger in comfort and dependence, with infinite desire and greed, slowly sliding towards the end of death. So, if you love her, please let go.

There was once such a popular program on Hunan Satellite TV - "Metamorphosis", in which children from the city exchanged families with children from the countryside and lived a life that they had never had before. Liu Siqi, a rich girl, also came into people's view because of this program, which caused a hot topic about parental doting. Doting is a crime

Liu Siqi’s parents are self-made and have a good family background. She is the only girl in the family for several generations, so the parents do not want their children to experience the suffering they have suffered again, and their love for Liu Siqi is even more important. Pampered to no end. A 16-year-old girl needs to be fed every day, her mother needs to wear clothes every day, and even a pair of socks in cold weather needs to be provided by her family. Her family said she didn't know how to take care of herself, so they had to do everything for her so they could rest assured.

Because of this, Liu Siqi only has herself in her eyes. She feels that the world should revolve around her. She is a princess and can have whatever she wants. In order to satisfy her desires, she spent tens of thousands of dollars in pocket money every month in various high-end luxury stores. She squandered tens of thousands of her parents' hard-earned money in just a few days. Arguments with his younger brother were commonplace. He would throw tables and throw things at every turn. He was irritable and irritable. He was already a completely troubled boy.

My parents didn’t want to see her like this, and they couldn’t educate her well, so they contacted the program and signed up for Liu Siqi. She thought that the place she was going to was a good place to travel, and she didn't care about the transformation, so she embarked on the journey of transformation. Beginning to Transform

The place Liu Siqi came to was a remote rural area in Guizhou. The poor roads and remote location were completely different from the environment she lived in before. Moreover, the well-prepared program team has already asked the children who come here to hand over mobile phones and snacks, even Liu Siqi's most cherished cosmetics.

This made Liu Siqi very irritable. The quarrel between her and the program team was very chaotic, but there was no way, she could not fight against the program team alone. When she first came here, Liu Siqi was unwilling to even enter. After a long period of persuasion from the program team, she reluctantly entered. She didn't touch a bite of the exchange family's meals, because these things were like a dog in Liu Siqi's opinion. How can people eat something that is inedible?

In such a rural area with limited conditions, people bathe very simply. There are no showers or bathtubs. Liu Siqi felt that she could not accept such a bathing environment and refused to take a bath. She once wanted to leave and escape from this place where she could not live, but how could the well-prepared program team let her leave so easily.

There was no way to defeat the show crew. After several hungry meals, Liu Siqi still picked up her rice bowl and ate the food there. She couldn't bear the smell, so she put aside her "princess status" and took a shower. These things that were once inaccessible and incomprehensible are actually not so difficult to accept.

In this way, Liu Siqi slowly compromised step by step, and gradually realized something from their difficult life. She began to accept the life of no one to take care of her. Although it was a little late, she was also trying to do her own thing. Do, even help others with work, picking tea leaves. These were new experiences that she had never had before in her life, and they were full of fun. When her parents came to pick her up, they were shocked to see the spoiled young lady working on her own. Amazing changes from the inside out

Perhaps it was the poor life there that made Liu Siqi realize that not everyone is born with a silver spoon in their mouth, and there are still many people in the world who are suffering. In order to let the next generation have a better life. In just one month of rural life, she saw that the tens of thousands of dollars she spent casually in a month were equivalent to other people's living expenses for a year or even several years.

After returning home, she slowly put away her temper and learned to get along well with her family. Even her brother said that his sister had become unrecognizable to him. She changed her temper as a young lady, stopped saying bad words to her family, and started studying hard. After graduating from high school, Liu Siqi proposed to her family that she wanted to study abroad and study the fashion design major that she was interested in. This is also an interest that she found with great difficulty, and of course her parents fully support it.

Liu Siqi has always performed well abroad. After returning from studying abroad, Liu Siqi signed a contract with a domestic clothing company and became a fashion designer. Have your own business. The arrogant female giant baby she once was is gone forever, and now Liu Siqi is a moderately successful person.

Looking at the education methods of Liu Siqi’s parents, we can say that they are inappropriate. The chick dies from the kindness of helping it peel its shell, and the butterfly dies from the kindness of helping it bite insects.

The process of the chick struggling in the shell is to exercise its fragile body in order to break out of the shell and be able to face the violent storms of the world solidly. Sometimes persecution is always cloaked in the shell of love, confusing the recipient and making the giver feel at ease when helping.

As soon as the giraffe lands, its mother will kick it roughly with her legs until it stands up tremblingly. Between the family love that is thicker than water and the rapid adaptation to the world of the weak and the strong, the giraffe’s mother will Choosing the latter is rational love. It is necessary to be covered with blood on the way to growth. When you reach the end, that is the best reward.

So, stop those hands that are ready to stretch out, those hands may be pushing your child into the abyss. The boat you build for him must start by cutting wood. Swallow the words of guidance in your mouth and let him understand the truth of true knowledge through practice.

Indulging in pleasure will produce bitter fruits, while hard work and simplicity will produce talented people. Only by experiencing some things can we learn from them and grow. Turn around and take a look at today's parents. Most parents have more or less problems. After scolding their children for their ineffectiveness, parents still cannot comment and let it go; they are obedient and obedient to their beloved children.

The establishment of parental dignity and the cultivation of children's personality all depend on their daily words and deeds. When saying no to children, they must be like a wall, not like a door. If you love him, please let him go.