What's it like to get pregnant just after getting married?

Hahaha, my husband and I talked for four years, and we got engaged last May before we dared to have a further intimate life. However, in fact, I don't feel safe. Fortunately, I was not pregnant during that time. My husband is not tall, I thought to myself, it is actually quite difficult to have children. Ha ha ha, it's good, but I'm not ready to have children anyway.

Married at the end of September, it is estimated that you will be pregnant within one week after marriage. Then I had a holiday. I was too busy to play during the holiday. When I came back from vacation to prepare for work, I found a sudden pain in my chest. Husband joked that he was not pregnant. I don't think so. I'm probably pregnant half the time. I have a fever all over. My husband bought me a pregnancy test. I checked the parallel bars. My husband and I find it incredible. Next thing I know, my life fell apart. I'm losing my figure and my job. My husband is also confused. We just got married and are not ready for a new baby.

I couldn't believe it, so I went to the hospital for a blood test, and the result was true. God, my legs were weak at that time, and my husband was sitting there alone in a daze. After a week of struggle, my husband insisted on having children. Of course, I want to overcome it myself. The baby is a gift, and I can't come if I want to. You'll be safe when you come. Look for it later. A baby has only one life. This is the crystallization of my husband and me. How can I refuse?

Next thing you know, I'm pregnant and vomiting. It's been seven months now. I vomited for six months. It's been better in the last month, but the baby's prenatal examination is very healthy. Very cooperative with the doctor's work My husband is busy preparing the baby's daily necessities every day. Continue to take exams and earn more money. Cooking and cleaning the house, he said that he just knew that he was pregnant with a baby, and suddenly he felt so stressed. Later, I watched someone else's baby online, and he thought it was so cute.

There are only three months left before unloading. I'm also looking forward to seeing the baby, and I'm afraid of the pain of giving birth. But I'd rather meet the baby. It's good to be healthy.

My husband and I were caught off guard when we got married, but because my husband and I fell in love and got pregnant soon, it was enough for an older woman like me and a child like him who couldn't find the other half in their parents' eyes to make both parents happy. It's also quite wonderful to say.

0 1. Meet.

I am a typical older woman. I'm 32 years old, and I'm still picky, thinking about playing all day. Until an industry conference, I met a harmless boy (Mr. Wang is three years younger than me, so he is a boy). Because of the long press conference, he said that his mobile phone was running out of power, and proposed to add a WeChat to let me send him photos and ppt. So, contact began.

In the days that followed, I always called him a child, only thinking that he was a little warm man. Because he is a colleague, I will talk to him about work when I have nothing to do. When I am bored at night, I will chat with my mobile phone for a while. We can get along well together. He is always on standby. As long as I want to talk, I can talk all the time at 1 am.

Such a nice guy, I naturally introduced him to someone very enthusiastically, and he also promised to think about it. I just don't want to see that girl.

I thought he didn't like this girl and offered to introduce another one. As a result, he asked me not to introduce her. I like you. I lost my mind on the spot and ran away.

I have always rejected the love between brother and sister. How to eat tender grass? But then I found out that he had talked with me for a long time, and he was used to his existence. He always feels empty. On second thought, there is nothing inappropriate except that he is younger than me.

So I agreed and we fell in love. From recognition to liking for 3 months.

02. get married

Not long after we fell in love, I found that we really hit it off, probably because we had a basis for chatting before. So three months later, we met each other's parents and planned the wedding. Everything is natural and unnatural.

As we are temporarily married and plan to be in the wedding season of 10, it is difficult to book a hotel. So I creatively propose that we hold a cruise wedding. Hold a wedding on Taihu Lake in Wuxi. He was fooled by my idea, but he agreed.

The next step is to prepare for the wedding and decorate the new house. I found several wedding companies, but there was no similar water wedding, so I played the role of wedding planning, planning the wedding, preparing materials, busy decorating and working, which was really tiring.

The ceremony at the wedding scene

The wedding was naturally held smoothly, warm and romantic, and we also brushed the presence of friends. But I was so tired that I broke down. On the wedding night, I fell asleep without taking two baths and slept until dawn.

After the wedding, I accompanied my relatives in Wuxi and we worked as a tour guide for two days.

Three days later, he sent his relatives away. Due to the need of work, he went to Xi on business. This is the fifth day after marriage.

03. Pregnancy

On the morning of the sixth day, I suddenly remembered that my period had not come for a long time. Take a test paper and measure it. Two shallow bars, damn it! Send him a message immediately, and he replied that it was impossible. Calm down and wait for me.

I'm so impatient, how can I calm down? That night, I delivered medicine to my door through a take-away platform, ordered three kinds of pregnancy test sticks, medium, high and low, and waited for morning urine the next morning.

On the morning of the seventh day, the first thing I woke up was to go to the bathroom for a test. Three pregnancy test sticks go down and two sticks are brushed together. Well, it really worked this time!

Call him. He's still in Xi. He is still awake in the hotel. After answering the phone and listening to me, I shouted directly, "I haven't been a groom for two days and I'm going to be a father." What is my life! "

After hanging up the phone, I took a look at what I had not had time to pack in my new home. My eyes are full of red happy words, and my heart can't be calm for a long time. Yes, what kind of life am I? I haven't gone on my honeymoon yet, and I haven't had enough fun!

04. Go to jail

It is said that a pregnant woman will be the queen of 10 months, but it's a pity that my next years will be as depressing as imprisonment.

Maybe it's because I'm older, or maybe it's because my husband is too cautious. He made a table of all the inedible and cautious foods mentioned in several online apps, with a total of six pages. Then I called my in-laws home for a meeting and announced that I was pregnant, as well as the precautions and dietary requirements during pregnancy.

Since then, my mantra has become "Why should I get married? Why am I pregnant? "

Fortunately, my husband cares about me and understands me all the way. Now that I think about it, I think everything is the best decision. Thank fate and thank each other.

Mr. Wang is going through ten stages of pain.

The Spring Festival Gala is worth a thousand dollars, and the newlyweds enter the bridal chamber on their wedding night, but most newlyweds don't like it when they get married, so they use safety tools when applauding for love, so many babies start sprinting on this night. Every little brother wants to meet his egg sister, then merge into one, and then live in the presidential suite of Notre Dame in June 5438+00.

Ma Bao 2: When I found out, the fetus was two weeks old. My breasts hurt a little before, so I didn't care much. But I became a little suspicious after I started vomiting during pregnancy, and then I used a pregnancy test stick, and then I got pregnant unexpectedly. I never wore a bikini after thinking about getting pregnant. How did this summer pass? I was pregnant like a devil in October. This woman is in a depressed mood.

Baby 3: resolutely stay. Because many newlyweds are completely unable to support themselves because they have nothing, we should also understand that if they are born, there is nothing to want. After a woman is pregnant, it is a big expense from the early stage of pregnancy to delivery and finally discharge. And if she gave birth prematurely in the incubator, it would cost 1000+ a day, so it is not a wise choice to let the child go. In the adult world, there is no word easy, but helplessness is everywhere.

Ma Bao 4: Although I'm not ready to have children, it's arranged by God in advance. We should thank God. Even if we lose the world of two people after marriage in advance, nothing is important compared with children. Children are born at night even if they are bitter. That's a piece of meat on me.

Painless abortion is harmful to women. If you don't want this child, you can only have painless abortion, but the current abortion operation is very harmful to the health of pregnant women, and my pregnant mother may only have one child in her life, so painless abortion may lead to infertility.

Painless abortion is particularly important for female endocrine disorders, because if it is taken out suddenly, the child's departure will affect the human system.

I think if the child is pregnant unexpectedly, then we should accept the child from the bottom of our hearts, and give them the best even if life is hard and tired. This is the perfect interpretation of "weak women and strong mothers".

I think this is actually a common phenomenon now. Compared with getting pregnant before marriage, getting married and having children, this is an acceptable result for everyone. After all, it is more common to get married with children in rural areas.

What's it like to get pregnant just after marriage? The main problem is probably that you don't plan to have children immediately after marriage. You remind me of a friend who got married last March. A month after marriage, she found herself pregnant and called me to tell me that she was not ready to have children. She said she hadn't had enough fun and couldn't imagine what it would be like to have a child in her life. What impressed her most was that she collapsed at the thought that she could not sleep all night.

The mood of getting pregnant just after marriage comes from the following reasons: the inadaptability brought about by the change of identity.

From being a son to being a wife, although the process of marriage is happy, the change of lifestyle after marriage is still uncomfortable. I didn't intend to have children right away, but now I know I'm pregnant, and my mood is very complicated.

Disrupt the original plan

If you have your own special plans, sudden pregnancy may add a lot of difficulties. For example, some people may start a business or take various promotion exams in the near future, and they may face many choices.

I haven't had enough time alone yet.

If it is a long-distance relationship, I may want to have another child in a few years. The sudden arrival of a child may make people uncomfortable.

The classmate I mentioned earlier, who got married late, once attended the wedding of other students and gave the children a full moon wine. Her friends often take their children shopping with her. Seeing that your friend is unable to take care of the children, I can't accept the task of taking care of the children psychologically. That's why I felt so complicated when I knew I was pregnant.

But now he turns out to be a mother full of maternal love, taking all kinds of photos for her baby and sharing some daily life with her.

In fact, only by entering the role can you fully feel the role, so if you are pregnant and have no idea of having a baby, it will be a little uncomfortable. But when a child comes into this world, the happiness he can bring you is insignificant compared with the anxiety you are worried about now.

It always takes a while to overdo it and make a good choice. When the child came, we accepted it gladly.

Xiaoxue went to work in other places before, and her parents were old and didn't want her to marry too far, so she called Xiaoxue back for a blind date. The third man thought it was no good and his parents were satisfied, so he registered it as a gift. After the gift was registered, Xiaoxue went to live in the man's house.

When the days were good, the two arranged a banquet after 20 days of registration, but when they arrived at the banquet, Xiaoxue vomited and later found out that she was pregnant.

Some people may wonder how they got pregnant after only 20 days together, mainly because Xiaoxue was in ovulation when she signed up, so some women won the prize at the first time, just because they were in the same room with men during ovulation.

In other words, if we don't use contraception after marriage, it is normal to have more pregnancies.

In Ma Jing's hometown in the countryside, most women get pregnant when they get married. Many people get pregnant within half a year of marriage.

There are three reasons: 1. It is natural to get married and have children in the countryside.

So few people don't want to have children after marriage, so there is no contraception.

The air in the country is good and the food is good.

This is more conducive to pregnancy.

3. Rural girls are generally simple.

In rural areas, girls don't go to school or go out to work, so they help with farm work at home. If there is no farm work, they will watch TV at home and go out to play with the people in the village. Life is relatively simple.

Lead an honest and clean life, so women's gynecological diseases are generally less, and it is easier to get pregnant as long as they don't use contraception.

The marriage rate in rural areas is quite high, and most of them get married during the baby boom.

Rural people over the age of 25 who are not married will be anxious, so getting married is the best age to have children and the most fertile time, so it is easy to win!

What's it like to get pregnant just after getting married?

Let's talk about the feelings of newlyweds and parents. 1, the feelings of newlyweds must be caught off guard. It was a "surprise" and a "surprise" that they got pregnant not long after they got married and didn't have time to prepare. I haven't felt well during the honeymoon, and I haven't had enough fun. I'm ready to start preparing to be a parent.

Most newlyweds are reluctant to have children as soon as they get married. If they want to have children, they must have children in a planned way, instead of being caught pregnant by surprise. Many couples are excellent in all aspects for the health of their children. During pregnancy, they begin to do a lot of preparations, from daily exercise to what they should eat at each meal. Anyway, as long as it is good for children, they will try.

The feelings of both parents must be happy. Being pregnant just after getting married is a double happiness for both families. Both parents will not care too much about the little things in the hearts of newlyweds. It can be said that it is a top priority to give children grandchildren as soon as possible after marriage.

Many parents urge their sons and daughters-in-law to have children as soon as possible after marriage, asking about the situation every day and asking if they are pregnant. Many daughters-in-law will be annoyed by their parents-in-law. I got pregnant just after I got married, which saved my in-laws a lot and made them very happy. They can have grandchildren.

In short, it is a good thing to get pregnant just after marriage, and it is also good to have a baby and have a baby.

After two years of love, I naturally got married. I didn't even think about having children. I think I'm getting old, so let it go. As a result, I got pregnant a month later. I feel that I have embarked on a new journey before I have time to enjoy myself. I always feel sick after eating every day, which is very uncomfortable. After the child was born, he began to take care of the child and never left. With children, there are many contradictions, frequent quarrels and trivial life. Later, I took care of the children at work. My children help me with my homework every day after school. When high school couldn't help, I was worried about his future. No day is easy. I advise newly married women not to have children right away. Marriage needs running-in, and the two should adapt slowly and give themselves a transitional stage. Otherwise, after having children, it will be difficult to choose if there are problems in marriage, and you can only be wronged for your children.

Getting pregnant just after marriage is really a unique feeling. Don't trust me.

We got along well since childhood, and we both had a good relationship since childhood. Once we were drinking together, he told me about getting married. He told me earnestly: you must always remember every lingering with your girlfriend, or you will regret it later.

After hearing what he said, I think there must be a story, so let him tell me about his marriage. He happily told me such an interesting story:

I got married early. I'm only 22 years old. Do you know how excited I am to finally get married? I seldom lived with my girlfriend before, so I felt uncomfortable.

Finally, I can get married and live together properly, but incredible things will happen to me soon.

On our wedding night, we struggled several times. I didn't expect my wife to keep throwing up when I got up the next day. I asked her what was wrong, and she said she felt a little sick.

So I took her to the hospital for examination. I don't know if I haven't checked. I was shocked when I checked. The doctor told me that my wife was pregnant for more than three months, so let's go back and prepare for the arrival of the baby.

When I left the hospital, I couldn't figure it out. This baby can't be mine. It shouldn't be so soon. I don't remember what happened to us three months ago.

This worry has been stuck in my heart, but I dare not tell my wife. I can only hold it all the time.

Even more irritating, I thought I could legally toss and turn just after I got married. I didn't expect to win the prize just one day after I got married, but I couldn't play anymore, and I was even more lost.

I was depressed all day until one day I got as drunk as a fiddler. I went home and took my wife and asked if the baby in my belly was mine. My wife was so angry that she sat on the sofa without saying a word.

Finally, she said that if it wasn't mine, she would disappear immediately and told me about the day she was pregnant.

She said that I was drunk that day and she went to pick me up. As a result, I had to go to her house to sleep with her. In a daze, I had an indescribable picture.

But I can't remember what she said at all. I still don't believe her.

I didn't feel completely relieved until the baby was really born and confirmed to be mine by paternity test.

But my wife is arrogant again. He said he wouldn't share a room with me for three months to punish me. Do you think it is easy for me to get married? I spent more than a year doubting and constantly controlling my desires.

You see, it's hard to get out and fall into another kind of sadness. .....

Conclusion Therefore, getting pregnant just after marriage is simply a kind of destruction and a blow to both body and mind. In order to better enjoy the happy life of marriage, don't get pregnant just after marriage!

This is my situation. I just married my husband for a week, but my old friend who is always punctual didn't come. I patted my head and it was over. I must have won the lottery.

Just before we got married, I went back to his hometown with him, and then thought that the two of us were getting married anyway, so my mother-in-law arranged for us to live together. It was then that I forgot to take measures. I've always been lucky. I don't think I'll get pregnant. I am cold, or I am behind the uterus. During the physical examination, the doctor said that I should eat fat after marriage, otherwise it is not easy to get pregnant!

The result was good, and it hit the target at once. I looked at the two columns on the early pregnancy test paper and was really speechless.

I wanted to discuss it with my husband, but I didn't expect him to have a big mouth. Soon, both my husband's family and hers knew about my pregnancy. My mother-in-law called several times a day and told me to be careful, not to do any work, to quit my best job and to raise my baby with peace of mind.

My mother called me, too, and I said I didn't plan to have this baby. My mother scolded me when she came up, saying that the first child was the most important. What if I become secondary infertility after abortion? Besides, when the baby comes, it's fate with you. It is also a kind of life. Now that you are married, you should have a child. It's better to be born early than late!

I pointed to my husband's nose and said angrily, you really can't put two bottles of perfume in your stomach. I'm not even ready to be a mother. I don't want to have children so early. Why did you inform the two old people?

My husband is just smirking and not angry. It's okay, honey. I'm ready to be a father. Now that I'm pregnant, I'll give birth. I wish you were born. I'll take care of the children in the future.

I said, how about traveling abroad during the eleventh holiday? And the time to visit relatives at the end of the year is the third trimester of pregnancy. How can I get there? Besides, I had a few beers on my wedding day. What if it affects the fetus?

Husband said, you don't have to worry. As far as I am concerned, our baby is definitely the best seed player. Don't worry, the baby is absolutely smart and lovely. Think about it, next year we can have a family of three, so excited!

In this way, everyone around me, including my own mother, did not agree with me to abort the child. My mother-in-law also specially brought back native products from her hometown, such as walnuts, jujubes and nanguo pears, and stared at me every day to eat more and sleep more. I can only accept my fate as soon as I see it.

Alas, I still feel sorry to think that my long-awaited two-person world is ruined like this. Later, my son was born. Because he was young, the production was particularly smooth and he recovered quickly.

Getting pregnant just after marriage is really a maddening thing, but since the child is here, we should cherish it. If you really don't want to have children, you must take measures in advance. After all, abortion is a big accident that kills people.

A: Children are life, and the first child lives long!

1, our ancestors called being pregnant just after marriage "bed-sitting happiness", and good luck continued from then on. ...

According to scientific research, 99.9% centenarians are the oldest (the first child).

Three centenarians in my family are "the eldest".

4. From the health point of view, the first-born abortion has the greatest impact on the ovary and uterus, because the "delivery door" is to escort the baby's "palace" (uterus).

If the "delivery door" is not opened, the uterus and ovaries will be damaged, so the harm to future fertility will be extraordinary.