Who should pay for the travel of boyfriend and girlfriend?

I think if boys and girls go out to play together, then the cost will definitely be shared equally. Never think about who has money or who is willing to pay more, and then let only one person bear it. You should know that you are lovers now, not husband and wife. If it's a husband and wife, it's okay for everyone to pay, but now it's just a couple, so it's better to split some accounts. Don't spend each other's money casually.

In fact, many people in China think that since men and women go out together or travel together, the expenses must be borne by the man. But I thought, why? Aren't we all talking about gender equality? Why do all boys have to bear it when it comes to giving? The cost is caused by two people, and it should definitely be shared equally. In fact, it is not just a trip, but also an ordinary life. I don't think we can make him pay.

Some people may say. You must be a boy when you say that. That's why you talk to men like that. But what I want to say is that I am actually a girl, but I think a girl should be independent. He can't depend on a man for everything. He can't bear all my expenses because I am in love with this man. Why? If so, it will actually make people look down on you and make people think that you are only with this person for his money.

Therefore, I think that when falling in love, couples together, no matter what kind of expenses they do, should strive to pay each other. I don't mean to make it clear how much everyone has to pay for each meal, but for example, if I go out today and you pay tomorrow, everyone will be fine. After all, I'm not married yet, and I may break up one day. It's not good to spend other people's money like this, so I'd better spend my own money casually.