Du Jun: I helped Zhang Jiayi become famous. I don't regret divorcing him and I don't envy Wang Haiyan.

In 2009, Dwelling House was born and quickly swept the country.

Zhang Jiayi, Christina and the article undoubtedly became the most dazzling stars of that era.

In that era when mobile phones and computers were underdeveloped, television became an important tool for people to understand the outside world.

Zhang Jiayi's precocious uncle face has officially entered the family of thousands of people.

When we talk about Zhang Jiayi, we will more or less think of some of his representative works.

The national image, one servant and two masters, Ning Min Town and Bailuyuan are all mature uncle images.

However, it is conceivable that he was once pointed at his nose by his wife, Du Jun, and scolded him for "eating soft rice".

His wife's official certification not only caused an uproar at that time, but also made Zhang Jiayi be labeled as a "soft rice man".

Today, the two have already chosen to divorce and start their own careers.

In the face of Zhang Jiayi's thriving career, Du Jun generously expressed no regrets.

Today, let's walk into the past of handsome uncles Zhang Jiayi and Du Jun.

0 1

In 1970s, Du Jun was born in remote Xinjiang.

My father is a well-known editor and my mother is also a scholarly family. Her family is in good condition.

There have been beautiful women in Xinjiang since ancient times, and Du Jun is obviously one of them.

He grew up like a doll and was loved by his neighbors.

Zhang Jiayi, by contrast, was a clown since he was a child.

Because both parents are employees of the Coal Research Institute, Zhang Jiayi has been living in the on-the-job technical institute.

I catch birds in the trees and fish in the river with a group of friends every day, and my childhood life is rich and happy.

But who would have thought that it was such a pair of other people who could spark love.

They not only have opposite personalities, but also have completely different life experiences.

Zhang Jiayi, 17 years old, has exquisite tendons and powerful wrestling performances.

Successfully opened the art door of Nortel.

This makes people wonder why a simple wrestling performance can be successful in the colorful Nortel selection scene.

According to the teacher's choice at that time, the child was still simple and had no evil thoughts.

Second, he is good-looking and has a good martial arts foundation, which can be regarded as a seedling of martial arts performance.

Well, I'm afraid the teacher didn't expect that Zhang Jiayi would end up doing nothing in the urban dog blood drama.

Finally admitted to Nortel. I thought I could start a beautiful college life easily, but I am facing new challenges.

At first, although Zhang Jiayi was a fearless northwest man,

But as long as you play opposite a girl, you blush like a monkey's ass and don't know how to speak.

If you shoot with a boy, he will always be the most active and the first team to finish.

But once you meet a girl, it will be properly abolished. Now Zhang Jiayi is a pure "steel straight man".

Don't think it looks funny, but it's actually a taboo for actors.

After all, there will be a lot of interaction and contact between actors and actresses, and there will even be some intimate exchanges of "emotional drama".

In order to break the shackles of Zhang Jiayi, several performance teachers also took great pains.

Specially set up a "bad guy" for them. As long as there is a cooperative performance, Zhang Jiayi will be a gangster.

With artificial addition, Zhang Jiayi gradually overcame the habit of "being afraid of women" and was able to integrate into the school environment normally.

Du Jun, on the other hand, grew up on the route of "elite female top students".

After graduating from high school, he was admitted to an art school.

Tall figure and elegant temperament make it a veritable "school flower".

In addition, under the influence of family atmosphere, Du Jun developed the habit of reading at an early age.

Spending a lot of time in the library every day is a proper intellectual beauty.

With the help of her father, she will often play these small roles and gradually develop a sense of drama.

It can be said that compared with Zhang Jiayi, a silly boy, Du Jun must be an arrogant woman of this era.

Just like in fairy tales, poor boys and rich women are always the best CP.

02

Different life also creates different careers.

Zhang Jiayi didn't officially contact the crew until his junior year, and won the bit part of the "magic watch" of the small crew.

Since then, Zhang Jiayi has also been a walk-on, playing such unknown small roles as cannon fodder A and passerby B. ..

Finally, I met the role of a country teacher, with both appearance and lines.

For this role, Zhang Jiayi lost weight, shaved his head and practiced body building by reciting lines all night.

However, three days before the official shooting, I received a notice of temporary substitution.

This is the real scene of the entertainment circle, and it seems to be an eternal truth that there is no human rights as a walk-on.

After graduating from college, Zhang Jiayi was assigned back to his hometown-Xi Film Studio.

As a newcomer, Zhang Jiayi has never had a chance to take part in the performance.

Every day is to clean the table, organize documents and watch vegetables. Day after day, it's boring.

Finally, I met two opportunities, the northern Taoist and the old house.

Even if he fights for nothing, he will end up on the street.

Don't say it's helpful to your career, just add black material to your future acting career.

During those years in Xi 'an Studio, Zhang Jiayi played a small role most of the time.

Faced with these "hard-won" characters, Zhang Jiayi basically devoted himself to the creation of the characters.

Without body double, all the action scenes are on our own.

As a result, I got ankylosing spondylitis without a name, leaving a root cause that I can't remove for life.

Besides, Du Jun, with his excellent face value and his parents' relationship,

After graduating from college, I officially set foot in the entertainment circle.

When Zhang Jiayi was still sitting at the door of the studio, drinking wine, telling the injustice of the world.

Du Jun made his mark in the film and television circle, and appeared in such hot dramas as Children of Macau and Sound of Nature.

Some people in the DPRK are good officials, so they can't go to town without money in their pockets.

It can be said that Du Jun, who just graduated, has successfully crushed most of the latecomers.

In fact, Du Jun also knows that his success came too fast.

She was not immersed in the pleasure of becoming famous early, but kept learning from the old-timers in the crew.

Try to turn the knowledge in books into your own wealth and absorb the knowledge around you like a sponge.

This studious attitude has also changed the impression of people around him on "bringing capital into the group".

Hou Yong, an old dramatist, once commented that he was "brave after knowing shame, polite without making noise, and a true scholar".

It can be said that their origins directly determine their different fates.

03

"I've been through everything on earth, and I've never panicked. Only when I saw you walking through the mountains and rivers did I feel my heart moving. "

Zhang Jiayi felt that he was unlucky, so he resolutely quit his job in Xi and chose to go to Beijing to make a living.

But like most northern drifters, Zhang Yijia without relatives and reasons is like a rootless duckweed.

I can't find a place to live in the vast Beijing.

At that time, it was the darkest time in Zhang Jiayi.

No money, so I have to live in the basement, with rats and darkness.

There is no sunshine in the room for half a month all the year round, and ankylosing spondylitis in Zhang Jiayi is getting more and more serious.

Later, Zhang Jiayi met a screenwriter.

The other party thinks that his acting is pragmatic and his personality is outgoing and generous, which is very consistent with the "First Hero" in his own play.

He recommended it to the crew of Doctor Pamir, and this kind screenwriter is Zhang Jiayi's future father-in-law and Du Jun's father.

Coincidentally, Du Jun was also recommended by her father to the cast of Dr. Pamir as the No.1 female.

They often fight against each other, are similar in age and have similar interests, which makes the two young people gradually become good friends.

Of course, at this time, the two had no feelings other than friendship until an accident.

As we all know, men in the northwest are more or less socially arrogant, including Zhang Jiayi.

He often chats with his colleagues outside the play, and both acquaintances and strangers can be encouraged by his cheerful personality.

On one occasion, Zhang Jiayi chatted with the crew as usual.

Chatting, he mentioned the kindness of Du Jun's father when he met him.

Zhang Jiayi said, "Without his recommendation, I still live in a small rental house, and I don't know what the future will be like.".

These words, Du Jun also hear clearly, the in the mind suddenly for the northwest man much a few minutes.

Colleagues on the side, however, ran away and said, "You know that the daughter of editor-in-chief Du is here, and you will praise others?" .

It was also at this time that Zhang Jiayi knew that Du Jun was the daughter of his benefactor.

Since then, Zhang Jiayi has been concerned about Du Jun.

I'm going to return all the kindness that editor Du has done to his daughter.

He is experienced in acting, whether filming or privately, he will teach Du Jun's experience to a greater or lesser extent.

When local products are sent from my hometown, Zhang Jiayi will send them to Du Jun first.

This makes Du Jun, who is in adolescence, feel more than friendship.

As the saying goes, "men chase women over obstacles, and women chase men over obstacles."

Du Jun's pursuit made Zhang Jiayi very tempted.

On the one hand, he really likes this kind young girl.

On the other hand, he also wants to find a backer who has no relatives and no reason in the entertainment circle, and Du Jun's father, who has been a screenwriter for many years, is a good candidate.

Such a willingness to fight and a willingness to get, the two quickly determined the relationship.

At the end of 200 1, after the official release of Dr. Pamir, Zhang Jiayi and Du Jun also began to think about related marriage issues.

First of all, Du Jun and returned to their hometown and met the Zhang family.

The Zhang family and the old couple are both ordinary people and like this girl who looks like a "fairy" and is full of scholarly atmosphere.

Then, the two returned to Du's home and met their parents.

Maybe Lao Du didn't expect that it is a good thing to support the younger generation.

However, Zhang Jiayi "bite the hand that feeds him" and robbed the benefactor of Chinese cabbage.

But in the end, I didn't say much. The most important thing is that my daughter likes it.

200 1, the two married in Beijing in a flash wedding.

You know, at that time, Zhang Jiayi was still an unknown "three no youth", with no car and no house.

Even the money for marriage is barely scraped together, which is very rare in the entertainment circle of "saving face".

We are used to seeing the luxurious wedding scenes of Jay Chou and Master Huang, and it is a bit shabby to look back at Zhang Jiayi and Du Jun. ..

Du Jun, who was carried away by love, married Zhang Jiayi without hesitation. Maybe they still believe in love at this time.

04

What divides us is not our differences, but our inability to recognize, accept and praise them.

Du Jun and Zhang Jiayi live a sweet life every day, just like young lovers who just got together.

Every morning, two people get up together to wash and have breakfast, then say goodbye to each other and go their separate ways.

Cook together at night and share what we see and think.

But as time goes on, the difference between the two people becomes more and more obvious.

A "bandit" of a northwest man, a scholarly family, and a young woman who loves petty bourgeoisie.

It's easy to say it in the bud of love. Once you wake up, it must be tit for tat.

The reality is exactly the same. After several years of marriage, the two often quarrel over trifles.

For example, on a Mid-Autumn Festival, two people invited friends to have dinner together.

As a result, one person wants to eat Shanghai food and the other wants to eat spicy food.

Simple things, but eventually staged into a level of love and not love.

In addition, for the face-saving Zhang Jiayi, he hopes that his wife can give full face outside.

But for Du Jun, a girl from Xinjiang, yes is yes, no is no, and there is no transition between the two.

As long as there is something wrong with Zhang Jiayi, she will accuse it on any occasion, which makes Zhang Jiayi very embarrassed.

The thing that eventually led to the disintegration of the two was at a public party.

Du Jun pointed to Zhang Jiayi's nose and cursed: "You are a soft rice, thanks to my father." ,

I'm afraid this sentence is unbearable for any man, not to mention Zhang Jiayi who is a little male chauvinist.

After all, marriage is to be happy and to spend a lifetime with the person you love.

Instead of living and suffering, living in pain every day.

Du Jun and Zhang Jiayi don't want to make do all the time. The year after that incident, they chose to divorce.

05

"Don't worry, don't be light, don't be others, just be yourself."

Two people broke away from the bondage of marriage and made themselves in the future.

In 2004, Zhang Jiayi met Wang Haiyan in National Mission, and soon decided to fall in love.

On the recommendation of Wang Haiyan, Zhang Jiayi starred in Dwelling House and played the villain Song Siming.

It was this drama that made countless audiences discover this "Uncle Treasure", and Zhang Jiayi, 39, started his career as a first-line star.

The divorce from Du Jun made Zhang Jiayi realize the importance of family.

No matter how busy his daily work is, he always takes time to spend with his family.

Whether it is the birth of his wife, the childhood of a woman, or the illness of his parents, he will appear when he needs it most.

Once again, a little girl publicly stated on the podium that she would marry Zhang Jiayi and have children for him.

Zhang Jiayi, on the other hand, smiled easily and said, "Then you will have to wait until the next life. My life belongs only to Wang Haiyan and my girl. " .

This wave of dog food choked countless single dog.

Look at Du Jun, the proud little girl has grown up now.

She no longer yearned for the life in front of the screen, and began to retreat to the second line, hoping to become a screenwriter like her father.

With the explosion in Zhang Jiayi, her "blind predecessor" was also dug up by the public.

At that time, many media talked to her privately, hoping that she could step on Zhang Jiayi and take this opportunity to return to the stage.

Even when she grows up, she has the pride and dignity of her youth.

She resolutely refused those invitations and said that she broke up with Zhang Jiayi peacefully, without those bizarre love-hate relationships.

Later, friends around her asked her, "If you knew that Zhang Jiayi would be so hot and make money in the future, would you still leave him?" ?

Du Jun indifferently replied, "My life is also very beautiful now. If two people are incompatible, they will only lose each other. I will never regret divorcing Zhang Jiayi before or after. "

This girl who loves literature and yearns for freedom still yearns for a beautiful inner life even when she grows up. The only regret is that she is still single. After marrying divorced Wang Haiyan, Zhang Jiayi became a father at 40.

"No will, no will" is my blessing to every girl.

Don't make do with people you don't love because of children, house, money, etc.

It takes a long time, but it is also very short. Don't regret your choice until the end of your life.