What if my roommate always forces me to travel with them?

The best relationship in college is to go out to work and find that the best relationship with yourself is the college roommate. Although there may be some stumbling in college because of the odds and ends of life, it will not affect your feelings. If roommates always force you to travel with them, I'll give you some advice:

First, find a legitimate reason to shirk. In general, your roommate's trip is not without plan and purpose. If so, then you probably judged the time when you made the plan. At this time, you can ask your family to call you and say that you will go home when you travel. At this time, everyone is embarrassed to say anything. Because family members miss themselves, it is human nature to go home by themselves, and going home is the first thing. Or find yourself a part-time job, such as tutoring, the time is not fixed, so when you want to travel, you don't want to say that you want to make up lessons for your children, because it is not easy to do part-time jobs after all. You say you won't go once or twice, then they can't force you any more.

Second, don't reject them directly. Because after all, they all live in the same dormitory. Direct refusal will affect the normal relationship of roommates, so there must be an art of speaking. For example, if you don't spend money lavishly, you can say that you have no money to travel for any reason, so they can't force you to spend money. After all, traveling costs money, especially for college students who have no income. If the company you work for is your roommate, this time is easier to handle. You can refuse for various reasons at home, or even transfer your salary to another account opened in the name of your family, saying that your salary needs to subsidize your family, so that when you know that your economy is not rich, you will naturally not be asked to travel frequently.

In a word, traveling is a happy thing. If you are forced to go, it will affect your mood, so don't exchange your unhappiness for your roommate's happiness. Just follow your heart, but pay attention to the means.