What can stop us from being together is not distance, not external, nor material.

Xiao Jiu, 26, is now a wife and a novice mother. She got married a year ago, then got pregnant and gave birth to a child. Many of her colleagues think that she married too early and decided to live too early. In this age of more men and fewer women, in such a small town, girls with a little diploma and decent figure should have many choices. Xiao JIU doesn't think so. She thinks she is fine now. Although the husband's income is not very high, he loves her very much and treats her very well, so she can ignore his other shortcomings. When she decided to choose this person to get married, her friend asked her why. Xiao Jiu said he was very kind to me, and he could give me warmth. What I always want is not wealth, but satisfaction, relaxation and warmth.

Aquarius wine is a very stubborn person, stubborn about everything, fanatical and stubborn when he loves, and thorough when he doesn't love.

When I fell in love in college, the other person's condition was really bad, not only his family condition, but also his height was not much higher than that of Xiao Jiu. Roommates say they don't deserve it. At least they walk together. As long as Xiaojiu wears taller shoes, she is taller than him. However, it is only the boy's talent that attracts the wine. He took a fancy to the boy's ability to speak and do things in this world, and he took a fancy to the boy's hard-working quality. Xiao wine said that her future husband, no matter how poor, can live a good life in the future as long as he has a good heart. Such a person is willing to accompany him to suffer hardships, because he believes that he will definitely let her live a better life in the future, which is much better than his parents who are rich but he is down and out. All the boys with good conditions have pursued her, but Xiao wine always feels a little worse.

Xiao Jiu's college boyfriend is really capable. In the communication with teachers, between the student union and various societies, he was chosen to prepare for party member during his college years. Such a capable boy is of course loved by everyone and liked by girls. Xiao wine said that her sixth sense is accurate, and she hates it when she is really accurate. Or maybe only girls can understand girls? She got rid of some girls who wanted to destroy them. Xiaojiu first discovered that her boyfriend was cheating with others from the space message board, because it was really too frequent. Later, she found the text message on his mobile phone, "Did you break up with Xiao Jiu or not?" In that case, it must be that the boy once said something similar to breaking up with the girl. There's another one. The girl is very familiar with Xiao Jiu and boys, but every time she meets a boy, she is reserved and even says hello unnaturally. Once Xiao Jiu broke up with the boy, and the boy disappeared for a few days, and so did the girl they all knew. Xiao Jiu particularly suspected that they had gone out together, but later both sides denied it, firmly denying it. Although Xiao Jiu was dubious, he accepted it.

When they eat together, it is never a boy's meal. It's always AA, or he pays this time and Xiao Jiu pays the next few times. Xiao Jiu said that she didn't want to owe him anything or be a burden.

They have been together for so many years, only traveled once, stayed in private hotels, and were reluctant to spend more money on local specialty snacks. Besides, we quarreled after two days' travel. It's really bad.

Near graduation, Xiao Jiu chose to practice in the boy's city despite his mother's objection, because Xiao Jiu planned to marry him in the future, and Xiao Jiu fell in love with the city.

From love to practice, they have been on and off countless times, but in the end they failed to separate and did not interrupt Xiao Jiu's determination to be with him. Until graduation, Xiao Jiu really felt disappointed and cold for the first time. Near graduation, Xiao Jiu suddenly said that she was pregnant. As a matter of fact, Xiao Jiu knew it had to be aborted, because they had no ability to get married, despite all the psychological preparations. When the pain came, Xiao wine suddenly felt cold and disappointed. At that moment, Xiao wine thought of many things. She thought that after being together for so many years, she did not become a very small and coquettish woman, but became more and more sensible, more sensible than when she was single, and Xiao wine was so sad that she felt distressed. After graduation, Xiao Jiu returned to his city. They didn't break up, but they both knew there was a big gap in their hearts.

I remember eating a little wine and slowly starting a sweet long-distance relationship with each other. Basically, every time we meet, we take a little wine to the boys' city. The last time we went, the boy was in the bottleneck of his work and his mood was very low. Xiao JIU surprised each other and went to visit him. Soon after she came back, she found herself pregnant again. She is particularly scared, but full of hope, because now he has not just graduated and is not rich. And how many times can a girl have an abortion? However, after a series of things, she finally miscarried. During this period, all kinds of things about marriage and engagement are involved. As for boys and mothers, it is obvious that boys think more about themselves and their mothers, and ignore Xiao Jiu. In an argument, Xiao Jiu was disappointed. She said, "Forget it, since you and your mother are so embarrassed and you think nothing is more important than your feelings, then I won't force you." The boy's answer is "whatever, just think about it." What made Xiao wine even more angry was that the man's mother called Xiao wine and said, "Okay, forget it." Xiao JIU suddenly felt like a fool. It is enough to experience this kind of thing once, but the second time is also a cheap experience. She should break up completely from the first time. Why is it so cheap? When she experienced another pain, she felt that her heart was cold and dead. She hates herself.

Later, he saw the boy in the space and said that he didn't bully the poor boy. Xiaojiu knew he was talking about himself, but Xiaojiu didn't want to make any explanation at this time. She never disliked that he didn't have money, otherwise she wouldn't break up again and again. What disappoints her is his attitude, always unsatisfactory things, and cold hearts again and again.

Later, Xiao Jiu quit his job and went out to play. Later, she also said a few things. Until I met my current husband. Together, they just let nature take its course. Her husband loves her so much that he even treats her like a child. He said that Xiao Jiu was too thin and needed nutrition. He often cooks all kinds of dishes and soups for Xiao Jiu. He washed her hair and blew her hair. He wears shoes and socks for Xiao Jiu. He has many shortcomings, but one advantage is enough to impress Xiao Jiu. They were never mean when they were together, and then they naturally got engaged.

Why did the university break up with her boyfriend so many times, and a third party appeared, and she was so hurt that she decided to let go? Later, Xiao wine said that he was too stubborn and persistent. She's been thinking about it since we broke up. She knows that he is very capable. She thought that when the boy finally succeeded, it must be herself standing beside him. Why did she go through all the ups and downs? She put her best years on a person, but it was not herself who accompanied him in the end. At that time, every time I thought about it, she decided to be together again, but in the end, she didn't love his power so much anymore.

Xiao Jiu said that she did not regret having loved or given up.

Xiao JIU said, I never thought about how much wealth I wanted. I just want to love happily, live happily and be full of motivation.