What if a woman feels "tired" when she marries a man who is 10 years younger than herself and has lived together for less than 1 year?

For modern love, the age gap is not just a number, but because two people have different life experiences and moods. My good friend Jing Yun married a man 10 years younger than herself, but after less than 1 year, she was exhausted.

Jingyun is a woman from bad karma. She married her ex-husband at the age of 28. Her ex-husband is her college classmate, and she has been pursuing Jing Yun in college. However, Jing Yun didn't agree at that time. After graduating from college, two people worked in the same city and got along for a long time. Jing Yun agreed with her ex-husband. Two people fell in love for more than half a year and entered the marriage hall. Just married for three years, Jing Yun found her ex-husband cheating on her with another woman. Jing Yun couldn't stand the betrayal of this marriage and filed for divorce.

After coming out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Jing Yun was very depressed. Although the failure of marriage is her husband's infidelity, Jing Yun still can't get rid of the haze of marriage failure. During that time, she fell in love with yoga and travel. Sweating profusely in the gym, the blue sky and white clouds in the journey let Jing Yun get out of the haze slowly, and let her thoroughly see the essence of love and marriage. Jing Yun secretly vowed never to step into marriage again.

In the following five years, Jing Yun was surrounded by many suitors, but Jing Yun was always alone, because she managed to climb ashore and didn't want to sink in again. Until the appearance of Zheng Jun, this 10-year-old boy came into Jing Yun's sight. Jing Yun didn't defend him at first. After all, there is a big age gap between the two, and there will definitely be no intersection.

What Jing Yun didn't expect was that fate was always so unreasonable. Zheng confessed to Jing Yun. Looking at honest and honest Zheng Jun, Jing Yun was moved by his sweet words, but she immediately realized that it was impossible, so she refused Zheng Jun.

However, Jing Yun's rejection not only lost Zheng Jun's idea, but also stimulated Zheng Jun's androgen. With Zheng's perseverance, Jing Yun's heart finally softened and he agreed to Zheng's confession.

The relationship between the two people is progressing rapidly. Less than half a year in love, Zheng Jun proposed to Jing Yun. Looking at this man 10 years younger than himself, Jing Yun became hesitant. She said calmly, "Zheng Jun, I am older than you 10 years old, which means that you are in the prime of life, and I am in my twilight years. I don't want you to regret it if you bring it up now.

Zheng Jun said flatly, "I don't regret it." . In this way, two people went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register for marriage.

After marriage, the feelings of the two people were still very strong at first. However, less than a year after marriage, the novelty of marriage gradually faded, and their married life began to have problems. Because of his youth, Zheng Jun often stays up late, indulges in online games and often plays late into the night.

Jing Yun was disgusted with Zheng Jun, thinking that he was playing with something, and criticizing Zheng Jun was inevitable. At first, Zheng Jun was very good, but gradually Zheng Jun became impatient and lost his temper with Jingyun.

What Jing Yun can't accept most is that Zheng Jun is completely like a child. He has no scruples all day, has no mature appearance, and doesn't know how to do housework. He lived a life of "clothing for a living" all day, and Jing Yun became Zheng Jun's big momma.

This married life is not what Jing Yun wants. During the 1 year when she lived with Zheng Jun, she felt very tired, not only physically, but also mentally.

After reading Jing Yun's story, let's look back at Stella and Ye Donglie. They should also encounter this problem. Stella is a woman with rich social experience, and Ye Donglie is a fledgling calf. They have different starting points, so their future is not smooth.

However, we can't treat this "love every other year" negatively. In my opinion, it is not the age that determines the happiness of marriage, but the patience between two people, a little more patience with each other, and then two people try to tolerate each other, so that marriage can go further, don't you think?