How old are boys sleeping with divorced mothers at night?

According to the law of children's physical and mental development, experts suggest that children can sleep in separate beds with their parents at the age of 3. Even if they want to sleep in the same bed, it is best to use their own quilts separately. It is best to sleep in separate rooms before going to primary school at the age of 6.

And if the boy is 13 years old and above and has reached puberty, then he should not sleep with his mother, and his mother is still a divorced mother.

I speak from two aspects: children and mothers:

1. As far as children are concerned, 13-year-old children have entered adolescence, which is an important stage for the formation of sexual concepts and sexual development. Children are naturally attached to their mothers. If you often sleep together, you will be curious and attached to your mother's body, which will affect your correct understanding of sex. It is easy to cross the normal boundary between mother and child, and even the complex of mother-child love will appear. If it is not handled well, it will have a very bad influence on the child's life. At the same time, it will make children precocious, leading to precocious puberty. Children with precocious puberty will also have a great impact on physical development (such as short height, etc.). In addition, after scientific research and investigation, it is found that if a child sleeps with his mother after attending primary school at the age of 6, such a child will be very dependent, will be very lacking in independent ability, and will have poor self-care ability and social adaptability when he grows up.

2. From the mother's point of view, because of divorce, the desire and demand for the other half will unconsciously turn to the children over time. On the Internet, I saw many people's admiration for "mother-child love" and "mother-child nature", under the guise of helping children spend their adolescence safely, just to satisfy their own desires, distort their values and ruin their lives. It is really disgusting to see this. I don't even have the minimum moral bottom line for being a mother. This is naked indecency to minors. If the mother is really good to her children, she should sleep in separate beds and rooms this morning. Instead of being too intimate with children, it is better to establish a correct outlook on life and values for children and teach them positive things so that children can face society and life alone.

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