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What is a mature man?

First, pay attention to the promise: a mature man will never break his word. He attaches great importance to every promise he makes. Before making a wish, he will carefully consider whether his words can really come true. If he could, he would never say, and his words would be carried out. Everything he says makes you feel at ease and trustworthy. A man with an unknown address, shooting at random and not taking action has nothing to do with maturity.

Second, don't talk big: a mature man never talks big casually. He will keep a proper silence and speak clearly but not noisily. Just drink a little wine and tell your story all over the table. You can hear it in half a room without a speaker. This kind of man will laugh at the audience at most, and no one will take your so-called "road to struggle" to heart.

Third, they are knowledgeable and reserved: they read books, accept new things and information, and constantly enrich their connotations. But they don't make public, their talents will only be displayed when necessary, and they will never deliberately show off to satisfy vanity. They are like mellow wine, the more you taste, the more delicious it becomes.

Fourth, broad-minded: mature men don't haggle over every ounce, don't covet petty advantages, don't care about small losses, and don't complain endlessly. Their eyes are never caught by trivial matters, and they are often "angels who turn back first" in small family quarrels.

Five, not self-centered: mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All men "like me" are typical little emperors and have not grown up.

6. Dare to admit mistakes: Mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions and are good at adopting good suggestions. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their improper decisions and never make excuses.

Seven. Strong-willed: Mature men have the psychological quality of never being confused. Once they set their own goal, they will work towards it. When encountering setbacks, they will analyze the reasons, learn lessons and correct their direction in time, but they will never give up easily. They will be very tired, but after the rest, they will start with confidence.

Eight, clean and tidy: mature men respect their appearance. They keep the hairstyle that suits them best, their chins are clean and stubble-free, their faces are not greasy, and they don't leave long nails. Clothes don't have to be famous brands, but they should be neat and generous, and they won't be wrinkled like couriers. They will never wear black shoes with white socks or travel in suits.

Respect for the old and love for the young: Mature men are caring, have a sense of social responsibility and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to the disaster areas, help out-of-school children and donate blood voluntarily ... they may not do all these things, but they will never do nothing.

Ten, have hobbies: They are not robots who only know how to work, but know how to use hobbies to adjust their tense nerves, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say that men with hobbies are not easy to go bad.