I met a blind date man before, and I haven't contacted him for a long time. Suddenly I sent a message saying: Come to my city. I asked about travel. He replied that he wanted to play with you. I have

I met a blind date man before, and I haven't contacted him for a long time. Suddenly I sent a message saying: Come to my city. I asked about travel. He replied that he wanted to play with you. I have no contact. This question is like saying hello to a person when you go out and ask him if he has eaten. Even if he didn't eat, that person would casually say that he had eaten and then left. Similarly, the blind date he knew before may have sent you this message just because he was bored and didn't expect you to entertain him or reply to his message. Maybe he did come to your city, but he definitely didn't come to see you. He may have something to do or come to see someone else.

As for you, you should do your own thing and don't waste any more time on it.