Have you ever seen the original match and mistress (with the original husband for 20 years) agree where to play or ask the other party to take the children to their home for a few days?

There are such people, and their psychological backgrounds are different. To give a few examples—

Some original partners, like Xiao San, have a low sense of self-worth. They think it's good to have a man with a home, and they don't ask too much, and they dare not expect this man to belong to them completely. Therefore, they can tolerate men having more than one woman, and even live in peace with other women, so that the "big family" can accommodate themselves.

There are also some women who are quite ruthless and rational. Their marriage may be very beneficial, such as men's wealth and power. They don't love this man themselves, and they don't have any feelings, so naturally they won't be jealous easily. If other women have interests with her, she will also have a good relationship with each other.

There are also some original matches, and when you get married, you expect monogamy. However, after marriage, the whole family is not good to her, but for various reasons, she can't live without such a family (for example, she has given birth to a child, and some women think she can't get divorced). At this time, my husband found a mistress, which happened to be gentle with her, so in the end, their relationship will get better-it is also a pleasure in suffering.

There are all kinds of people in this world, so there will be all kinds of strange marriages.