Is it appropriate for go on road trip to bring a friend's wife? Why?

There is no way to put aside the pictures about this. Let's talk about it first Back to the topic: First, your buddy is either big-hearted or naive, or his feelings for his wife are already very general. Otherwise, it is impossible to do so, even if he goes to the Summer Palace from Huang Zhuang, Haidian for two hours!

Secondly, if his wife is still comfortable with this arrangement, it is proved from both husband and wife that there are some problems between them. If she doesn't know this arrangement, or knows it, but she can't bear it, then at this time, as a buddy, your position at this moment is very important!

Third, because it can't only be known by the three of you in the future, especially between men and women, and even between brothers and sisters. Therefore, no matter how good your original intention is, you should remember the proverb "A friend's wife should not be bullied" and never help this. Because, once you call back, you can't say anything clearly, and many people will look down on you ... The only thing you should do is to make a statement to that buddy and say, "Oh, what a coincidence, I just have something to do! If you don't mind, let's go to play another day. " Remember, don't show your heart to explain your embarrassment. This simple lie must be told! If you value the friendship between friends, then after you say it, this friendship will be saved, and besides, it will win their respect for you.

Whether it is appropriate to travel with a friend's wife depends on what the friend thinks.

My friend gave me a routine that year.

Brother Huang and I are colleagues. We used to work in the same company.

When I first arrived at the company, I often went to his house for dinner.

Brother Huang's wife is Xiaohua. She cooks delicious food and is very enthusiastic.

Everything is fine between the husband and wife, except that they have never had children.

Two people blame each other for trifles, but they just don't want to go to the hospital for examination.

Actually, I think it should be brother Huang's problem.

The reason is that every time the company organizes an outing, he is particularly bored.

Xiaohua likes to travel and often sends some travel photos in her circle of friends.

I didn't care before.

Later, I came out of the company and started my own small business.

Earned some money and worked very leisurely.

One day, I went to play with my brother Huang.

Chatting after dinner, Xiaohua said that she would go out to play.

I asked Sister Hua if she could take me there. I'm free recently and want to go out for a walk.

Xiaohua glanced at Brother Huang. Brother Huang said, "No problem, let's go together. Just because Xiaoyan just bought a car, driving is more fun. "

This matter was thus solved in a muddle.

Xiaohua and I went to Guangxi by car, and the round trip 1000 kilometers.

When two people are alone in the car, the conversation begins.

Chatting, I asked Sister Hua why she always travels alone without Brother Huang.

"I want to avoid him when I come out alone." Xiaohua said somberly.

"What's the matter? Aren't you very good with brother Huang? " I asked.

"You don't know, he is a pervert!" Xiaohua said bitterly.

Speaking of which, I think this is private and should not be asked again.

But Xiaohua didn't mean to stop.

Xiaohua said that at night Brother Huang complained that she couldn't have children.

At first, she had a quarrel with Brother Huang.

But Brother Huang always said that his ex-girlfriend XX was pregnant.

"Little bitch, you said he happened with XX once. Is it so easy to get pregnant? " Xiaohua asked me.

"Well, this ..." I don't know how to answer Xiaohua's question.

We went to Guangxi by car for five days and lived together every day.

Xiaohua swore not to mention anything about it.

Shortly after returning from Guangxi, Xiaohua became pregnant.

This thing scares me.

Xiaohua hasn't been pregnant after so many years of marriage. Now, just come out with me, and everyone will get suspicious.

But Huang Ge seems to be unaware of it, and he is still happily basking in happiness in his circle of friends.

I deliberately avoided Sister Huang, but the couple didn't forget me!

Before the Spring Festival, Xiaohua gave birth to a big fat boy.

Brother Huang set the wine and invited me to dinner.

I can't push it if I want to.

I thought for a long time and decided to wrap a red envelope from 500 yuan.

On the day of serving wine, I gave Brother Huang a red envelope.

Brother Huang opened it and sneered, "A little less?"

His eyes made my heart tremble, so I had to tell him that there was no cash, so I used my mobile phone to transfer money.

I sat down uncomfortably, just wanting to drink some water to calm my nerves.

Xiaohua pushed her way through the crowd and said to me, "Bitch, I haven't named the child yet. I discussed it with Lao Huang and let you get up. "

A word scared the daylights out of me, and no one around me noticed me.

"Well, let me think about it." I answered.

"Then think about it and tell me when you think about it!" Xiaohua patted me on the shoulder and walked away.

Go on road trip, I have an appointment with a good friend. As a result, my friend couldn't go because of something, and he was going to let his wife play with him. The wisest thing to do at this time is to find an excuse and refuse to take your friend's wife with you.

You haven't made your basic situation clear. Here are two scenarios. One is that you are married, and the other is that you are still single.

Suppose you are married.

This trip, with my wife, to see the scenery along the way and relive the warmth of love, how rare and romantic. However, all this will be destroyed by friends and wives' peers.

A friend's wife goes with her, so you should take care of her because she is good.

When a wife is around, she should care about another woman without causing her discomfort. The difficulty coefficient can be imagined.

If you allow a friend's wife to travel with you, you are simply looking for abuse yourself.

Suppose you are still single.

A single man, leading another man's wife around the world to play, how to think how to feel ambiguous.

This woman is either too generous or too naive. When her husband was away, she and a friend of her husband drove around. Isn't she afraid to embark on a dangerous journey? She has great confidence in your character.