Some people say "Don't travel with good friends". How to understand this sentence?

There are three people in my family and three people in my friend's family. We travel together every year. My two children have been to Beidaihe, Penglai (a friend's house takes the woman's parents), Qingdao, Weihai, Rizhao, Yuntai Mountain, Chengdu and Jixian County (farmhouse music). There is no contradiction. The key is how to spend the money. I'm aa. When I met each family, I first took 2000 yuan and put it in a person's hand. All the expenses on the road come from here (if I drive, I will pay for the car myself). When his family took my parents, his family took 4000, my family took 2000, and the flowers were gone. The two families continue to take money and never keep accounts. Big head is right. Once I brought my wife's nephew (15, 6 years old), and I asked to bring this little nephew every time I went out. The child has a strong sense of responsibility and helps to look after our two sisters. His husband is a few years older than us, and he is responsible for cooking when he goes out (we usually find a suite with a kitchen and cook by ourselves when we play by the sea). I'm in charge of taking the children to play, and the men drink when they eat. Two people are responsible for long-distance driving, and the man is responsible for drunk driving. The key is that our two families have similar economic levels, and not everyone cares about money.

Let me talk about my situation. I traveled with my husband's college classmates before, and they were the couple. Our family of three went to the front near Qingdao. Because I used to work in the tourism industry, I have already arranged the approximate itinerary and calculated the approximate cost before leaving. Both parties paid 5,000 yuan in travel expenses except air tickets. Every expense has an explanation.

The first two days of the trip went well, and everyone had a good time eating, living and playing. In the next few days, everyone was very unhappy because of the accommodation problem, because his classmates liked the supermarket near the hotel to sell yogurt, saying that the couple would drink yogurt after dinner every day and didn't want to go too far to buy things. Moreover, the hotel I booked was my first time to go, and sometimes I didn't consider whether there was a supermarket around when I booked it, so the differences between us appeared. Then I went to Penglai and stayed in a hotel in the city. I think it's ok. People want to live in a sea view room, which is twice as high as the room I booked, close to 1000 yuan. They also told us that their wives had never lived in a sea view room, so they could learn more. This is to test the relationship between the bottom and the stroke. This relationship lasted for several years, at least I didn't meet them again, only my husband contacted their classmates one-way.

To sum up, it does not mean that people with consumption standards should not force them to travel together. It's not that we can't afford it. We just feel that many things need to be communicated in advance and prepared mentally. Don't wait for others to arrange everything before saying that you are not satisfied with such an arrangement. All their efforts have been in vain, and they haven't got a good result yet. Therefore, I have never traveled with my good friends again. I'm in charge of going to my own house.

When traveling, there is a saying that the people you travel with are very important.

Everyone has many friends, and there are many kinds of friends, including friends in business, friends in life and friends in travel. Some good friends like to stay at home, so you have to take them out for a trip. Even if they go out with you, they may not be happy. Travel is a hobby. Only friends who like to travel can travel happily together.

We usually drive out, no matter how far or how close. I joined several local go on road trip groups, and finally several of them became good friends. We often travel together and have a hobby, such as road trip. We formed a WeChat group. For these five families, every time they go out, they discuss in groups, and everyone gathers at the meeting place according to time. We usually cook by ourselves, and every car is equipped. It's very comfortable for everyone to work together, eat their own food and drink a little wine. I still have many good friends, telling them not to go out because they don't like going out.

Traveling with friends is definitely better than traveling with strangers, because we all know each other well, including our personality hobbies, so that we can have fun!

I went out to play with a friend last year and had a very unhappy time!

Puzhehei's two-day tour, because she has never been there, is unfamiliar with the local area, so I discussed with her whether to join the group or play by herself. She said she would listen to me, so I signed up for a two-day tour. Before signing up for the tour, I showed her the itinerary, price and online evaluation. She agreed to report it.

After playing in the back, she vomited all the way, couldn't eat well and couldn't live well, which made me feel bad and couldn't take good photos! The original tour fee was paid by 580 yuan alone. She thought it was not worth it, so she gave me 500 yuan.

This is a room, originally a standard room, and the travel agency arranged it as a big bed room. Because it is the peak season, there is no way to change the standard room, and she has been complaining there. I think the room is ok, clean, comfortable, with good light and beautiful scenery outside the window.

I want to do well, so I have to spend money to upgrade to a five-star hotel.

How can I put it? Travel depends on character. The two of us made an appointment to go out to play. I arranged it, but I was still very picky.

In short, I won't go out to play with her again, and I have less contact.

I traveled freely with a friend this year and had a good time all the way!

Because it is the off-season, no one is crowded, and everyone is satisfied with the accommodation. That is, when I asked my friend to take a picture of me, she was ugly, unable to compose a picture, unable to take a snapshot, and took such a beautiful scenery and such a good picture, which was ugly (maybe because I was ugly, but I was not ugly). I was not satisfied with some photos, so she got angry and stopped taking them. Actually, I'm even angrier I took a beautiful photo for her, and she made friends happily and took it for me. Still mad at me ... but neither of them cared. After all, they have a good relationship and will not affect their friendship and mood because of these little things.

I will still go out to play with this friend, just hoping to make me beautiful next time.

I think I can go out to play with my good friend, provided that the consumption level of this good friend is similar to my own, this good friend is consistent with my hobbies, and this good friend has a good personality and a broad mind.

There are many kinds of friends. When you meet people on the road, you can call them friends. If you know them well, you can call them friends. Such a good friend, traveling together will also have friction and even turn his face. There is a kind of person who likes to take advantage and haggle over every ounce. He does what is good for himself and opposes what he doesn't like. It is difficult for a group of people to coordinate and the whole trip is unpleasant. I once prepared for a trip. Several donkey friends made an appointment to drive together, but the owner later had better friends to join, so I was not allowed to participate. Although I haven't turned my back, I don't want to travel with him in the future.

But it is pleasant for real good friends to travel together. They have the same point of view, take care of each other when traveling, communicate with each other during traveling, and don't care about things. I have a friend who will contact me first when traveling or arrange a market for my holiday.

Traveling with good friends, especially three people, is very troublesome, and four people will make it worse. I have a good relationship with my wife and two friends. We have known each other for many years. My wife's company organizes league construction, and one of my brothers is my wife's company. I helped tell them that my wife's company was in a good location, so I introduced it. My wife should also take me to the League Building. I said I should call that friend, but he is all that is needed. She said yes, my wife will take the activity funds, and it doesn't matter if one is more or less. I have a reservation.

Shidu, barbecue, bamboo raft, mountain climbing, rafting and so on. In the company, that buddy dallies with girls in the company when he has nothing to do. He is not satisfied, haha. Return to Beijing in the afternoon. We said let's have dinner together, and we all said no problem. The buddies who go to my daughter-in-law company are usually very picky. Eating doesn't cost money. What others do is pay for it. We usually pay for meals. When I arrived at the place where I ate, I ordered food. Another buddy said that it would be a treat for him later. We usually pay for meals, so it's no exaggeration for you to invite us once. My wife also said yes, this brother invited me once, and I also said please, but this brother was in a hurry. Miser, quick-eyed, why let me please, comment on what let me please, pour a glass of beer and drink it all at once, and say, brother, I'm tired today, so I have to go first.

This temper is enough, just kidding. We can pull it, and we won't let it go until we give it.

Finally, send me a signal to charge my phone bill. I have never seen such a person. This is not an acknowledgement of trust between friends.

Don't travel with good friends. Let's not talk about it for a while. Let me tell a story about my trip with two friends.

Many years ago, I traveled with my friends May and Iowa. Because Iowa and I are carsick, we agreed to reserve three front row seats for the travel agency in advance. As a result, when the bus came to pick us up, only two were in front and the other was at the end. The tour guide said, which one of you is sitting in the front?

May, a tall man with long legs and quick eyes, got on the bus first and sat in the front row near the window. When Hua saw it, he said to me: You are more dizzy than me. Sit in the front and get behind me.

Sure enough, the bumpy mountain road made me dizzy and my stomach turned upside down. Although I took motion sickness medicine early, it didn't work at all.

When I got to the rest place, my insides were almost spit out by me. After getting on the bus, I was sweating profusely, my head was as big as a bucket, and I felt going into shock. I want to sit by the window and change places with May, but she is reluctant.

At the same time, I got carsick, and Iowa got dizzy badly and threw up. The tour guide quickly brought her a plastic bag.

I'll ask May and Hua to switch and let Hua sit in the front. May said no. What should I do if I faint later?

Along the way, Mei either played with her mobile phone, ate and drank, or sang to music in the car. How can she get carsick?

I say you change with Hua for a while, and when she gets better, you can sit down again. She still refused, insisting that she was afraid of fainting for a while.

When she arrived at the scenic spot, May went into battle lightly, carrying her wallet, mobile phone and selfie stick, but let Ahua carry a big bag of food and drink. I told them not to bring so many things, but Mei said that she was afraid of being thirsty and hungry on the road, so she had to ask Hua Bei to come back later.

Hua is a slow-witted, slow-witted, walking with a bag of things on his back is even gentler. We walked all the way, waiting, "if it's good!" " May always complains that Iowa is too slow.

I don't think so. I helped Hua carry the bag for a while, but Hua still fell behind. Mei said, look, look, what's the reason for moving things? She's so slow!

I say you recite for a while, of course you run fast. Why didn't I recite it? I recited it for her just now. May rolled her eyes as if the bag had nothing to do with her.

Now the three of us change our backs and come in turn! I gave an ultimatum. Mei grabbed the bag, picked it up angrily and left.

When it's time for me and Iowa to pack, we have to stop and wait for May. Everywhere she goes, she takes all kinds of selfies, over and over again. No matter how fast we hurry, she will shoot until she is satisfied.

Sometimes Hua and I will be asked to take pictures for her and examine her. If this is not what she wants, we must make it again. Over and over again, I didn't complain, but she kept complaining about my poor shooting here and there. I was so angry that I picked up Iowa and left, ignoring her.

During the break, I asked them to finish their bags as much as possible and not to fall behind the big troops. May won't do it. She said there were many roads ahead. What if she is thirsty and hungry?

Didn't they sell it all the way? We can buy it! I object to traveling with a lot of things.

Mei said how expensive it is and how convenient it is to carry!

Then carry it, don't just let Hua carry it! Say that finish, I threw the bag in her hand.

In high-altitude scenic spots, in order to promote products, tour guides first intimidate the whole car.

May was really scared. Although she also bought those things recommended by the tour guide, she not only ate them in advance, but also prepared a lot, but she still hesitated when buying tickets.

Iowa and I both suggested that she come here or go there. If she doesn't feel well, she will stop at once, not to mention there is a place to take oxygen along the way. But she was afraid of dying of high rebellion. The tour guide said that this place is allowed to die of high rebellion every year.

She said you two go and play, and I'll wait for you at the door. We couldn't bear to leave her alone at the door for a few hours, so we found a tour guide to persuade her, and she bought a ticket to go with us.

But as soon as she joined the team, she went back on her word and asked me to go to the tour guide to refund the ticket. Hua and I will go to the tour guide to refund the ticket. During this delay, Hua and I were the last to enter the scenic spot and the last to come out.

When we walked out of the scenic spot, we couldn't find Mei at the door. There is no one on the tour bus, and the mobile phone is turned off. We can't find anyone anywhere, which makes us and the tour guide very scared.

Finally, I went to the police and found her sitting there crying like a child at the scenic spot police station. When I saw us, I swear we really wanted to throw her away. I'm really in distress situation!

It turned out that when we never came out, she was in a hurry and didn't see anyone else in our car. The parking place is still some distance from the entrance of the scenic spot. She ran to the parking lot to find us, but she went to the wrong place and wanted to call us. Her cell phone is dead.

At that time, it was getting dark and there were fewer and fewer people, so she panicked, thinking that she had missed us and the bus had left. She was so anxious that she cried. Someone reminded her to go to the police station and took her to the police station.

After the trip, May broke up with us completely. Her husband said that Hua and I were not friends enough, leaving her alone and almost losing her.

After that trip, I also thoroughly saw what a so-called friend is. There is no conflict of interest on weekdays, and it is not 24 hours. I really can't see everyone's true colors.

Traveling is different. Everyone magnifies many things of each other infinitely, and some things may be exactly what we have never discovered, and this aspect may be exactly what you are not satisfied with, so the boat of friendship will turn over!

Don't travel with good friends. This sentence is really right. Not particularly good relationship, not particularly generous, three views are consistent. If you have the same consumption concept, don't travel together.

Thank you for inviting me! "Don't travel with good friends", and another sentence is even more stinging: See if a person is suitable as a partner and take him/her on a trip. One thousand is love rat or BMW woman, travel together, immediately betray oneself.

Now the divorce rate is too high, and domestic violence has always been a big social problem. Why can't I find it before I get married? Why can't I hide the tail of a married fox? Can you minimize this "cost" before getting married? Traveling is really a good way.

This also means "don't travel with good friends", which means the same thing.

Couples who are inseparable from each other and love each other are likely to expose their nature and break out contradictions during their travels. Good friends may have friction when traveling, and even friends can't be friends at that time.

A trip is a life.

During this short journey, many things will happen and many things will be exposed.

For example, the taste of food, such as the price, such as the speed of travel, can not always accommodate each other. Once or twice is ok, even if you don't say it, you will have a knot in your heart.

In the process of traveling, two people can say that they must cooperate closely and differences are inevitable. A person who leaves the familiar environment may expose himself more.

Inconsistent opinions, different living habits, different ways of thinking and solving problems will all lead to contradictions.

Once there is a gap and misunderstanding, you may not even be a good friend. It is not uncommon for even good couples to part ways because of a trip.

I always see the news that two people who are already husband and wife have dumped each other in the service area and even in expressway. It's not necessarily a big deal, it's just a family affair. Husband and wife are birds of a feather, let alone good friends, this will happen.

The so-called good friends are more like-minded in some aspects of their thoughts, but their living habits and values, especially their living habits, may be very different, and differences in travel are inevitable. Friends can't do it because of trivial things in life, and it's really not worth the candle.

Still cherish the friendship between friends, don't create opportunities for misunderstanding, try not to travel with good friends, don't wronged yourself, and it's not difficult to be friends.

There is some truth in the sentence "Don't travel with good friends". I was deeply touched by this problem when I was driving in Xinjiang last year.

It can be said that Xiaomei is my best friend for many years, and she is really closer than her own sisters. We also know her husband very well. We often eat and drink together and help each other when something happens, just like a family. Her husband is the leader of the unit, and he usually gives us the impression of humor, generosity and enthusiasm. We often go out for a day and a half together. It's very ostentatious to grab the bill every time you eat. Everyone likes him. If the relationship is not good, we will definitely not meet to drive in Xinjiang.

Long-distance travel, especially self-driving travel, is the most comprehensive test for a person. After a long time, everyone will eat and live together, and all kinds of details will be faced, and people's personality will be exposed. Xiaomei's husband is completely beyond our cognition, and all kinds of shortcomings are shown. Even the usual advantages have become shortcomings in travel. The bureaucracy in daily work is vividly manifested: he is lazy in mouth and hands, but he is too lazy to talk, and never asks for someone to drive. Inclined mountain roads are closed, foggy and snowy weather is closed, and a full meal is closed. Every time I arrive at my destination, I don't care about the suitcase. Every morning, we refuel the car, check the car, and people get up and clean up. Eating is still as ostentatious as usual. If you don't eat this, you won't eat. You have to eat hot pot and a big meal in the scenic spot. As we all know, it is very hard to travel. Money doesn't necessarily have time. Everyone should have a sense of teamwork. In order to have a pleasant journey, we had to wait patiently, but he argued with me plausibly that these were not his strong points! I am speechless!

After Xinjiang came back, we seldom contacted each other, and our friendship for many years was greatly hurt in a few days. This reminds me of that sentence: I must have a long journey before I decide to marry a man. It's really different from home. You can test all aspects of people during your trip. Similarly, if you want to be good friends, try not to travel together.