My wet nurse went to my sister-in-law's house to take care of the children. She was hospitalized for a car accident. I signed up for a tour group. What's wrong?

My wet nurse went to my sister-in-law's house to take care of the children. She was hospitalized for a car accident. I signed up for a tour group. What's wrong? My mother-in-law usually likes to get along with me. For example, I often take her out to watch movies or go shopping. Her hobbies are similar to those of young people. I take it for granted that my mother-in-law likes me very much and will be good to me. After I give birth, I want to ask her to come and take care of my baby. Because my mother's home is out of town, it's very troublesome to find her home. I have to tell her.

But my mother-in-law said she would take care of my sister's children, so she couldn't take care of me. You know, my sister's children have already entered junior high school this year. Where do you need her care? This is just an excuse that she doesn't want to take care of me, so during the whole month of my confinement, my mother-in-law hid in my sister's house and refused to come forward.

At that time, my economic conditions were relatively poor and I couldn't afford a new moon. I have no choice but to take care of myself. Only on weekends when my husband is at home can I relax. It has been ten years since that. In the past ten years, I have been going to my mother-in-law's house except for the Chinese New Year every year. I almost never meet her at ordinary times, and I won't have any contact with her, and she won't come to me.

Therefore, my life has been fairly stable in recent years, and my husband can understand me and will not force me to have a good relationship with my mother-in-law. Just last month, my mother-in-law suddenly fell ill and was hospitalized. My sister, who was very dependent on her at that time, ignored her at all. At this time, she remembered me and hoped that I could go to the hospital to take care of her. But I don't want to take care of her at all. Has she forgotten how she treated me?

So I told her that I was traveling and I couldn't come back. In fact, I was still at home at that time, and the next day I signed up for a tour group to take my children out to play. It's not that I have no conscience, it's that she is too cruel, and she is not my real mother, and I have no feelings with her, so why can't I repay kindness with kindness? I will treat her as she treats me. Fair enough.