If your family goes on a trip with your sister-in-law or your brother’s family, how will the expenses be calculated?

This question was not invited to answer, but something like this happened to happen, so I wanted to talk about it. I traveled with my sister-in-law’s family fifteen years ago. At that time, we went to Hong Kong together. At that time, we had never gone out. My brother-in-law and his family asked if they wanted to take their children to Hong Kong. Hong Kong was relatively popular at that time and everyone was proud to go to Hong Kong.

I am no exception. I have never been out. My sister-in-law and her family invited me to go on a trip together, so I agreed. Six people from the two families brought their parents-in-law with them. Because they had never been out, and my husband and brother-in-law had met the elders. People from the world said that we would go together. I didn’t know how to go out at that time, so I thought that if there was someone to go out with, then we must definitely go together. When we arrived at my sister’s house, I handed over the tens of thousands of yuan I had brought to my brother-in-law, saying that I would return more money. Just add less and everything will be fine. Who knows that I forgot to take my parents-in-law with me.

When I arrived in Hong Kong, my father-in-law and mother-in-law started to do various things. My brother-in-law may not have seen such a world. When he saw something was wrong, he left his wife and ran away with the children. I think this problem is a bit troublesome, and I am too. It’s my first time to go out, whatever I want to do, I’ve already come up with it, so the best way is to follow suit, so I’ll take the kids and run away, leaving my husband like this, and I’ll run away too. The only good thing is, Although it was my first time to go out, I was not stupid enough to only bring cash. I also thought of bringing a bank card. If I didn’t have Hong Kong dollars, I would use RMB. After spending a day wandering around Hong Kong with my children, I felt like I should go. Everyone has gone, and it seems that those who should swim have also gone.

I took my child back to the hotel in the evening, and my nightmare started from this trip. The man turned on the abusive mode, and it got out of control. It lasted for more than ten years. I originally thought that the child After finishing college, I should be liberated. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law died. The man seemed to have grown up from various modes of caring for his mother overnight. He said that he had nothing to worry about and wanted to live a good life for me. Where should I go? The money for travel, specifically Is it worse or more? My brother-in-law was so worried that he didn’t say anything when he came back. In the end, I didn’t ask. I thought I should give some to my brother-in-law. My brother-in-law was always very generous, maybe not too much, so he didn’t ask me what I wanted. , even when there were difficulties later, it was my brother-in-law who came to help, and neither my sister-in-law nor my parents-in-law said anything about helping. After that, I never went out with my sister-in-law and her family when traveling again. I took the children to various places by myself.