We've only been dating for a week. Why do girls ask boys to travel?

We've only been dating for a week. Why do girls ask boys to travel? Look at the attitude of the other party to spend money on you

There is a saying: "Those who spend money on you may not love you, but those who love you will definitely spend money on you." Money is a mirror of yin and yang of feelings. Although it is too rash to take this as a norm, it is a paving stone for people's hearts. Traveling is a consumption that needs to spend money all the time, so according to the attitude of the other party in traveling, you can directly see whether he has a good impression on you. If a man talks nonsense in the middle of a trip, then such a man certainly doesn't really like you, and if a man always rushes to pay the bill, then he will have you in his heart.

Although we can't judge the level of a man's love for you from the rate at which he pays, a man's attitude towards money is his attitude towards you. There is only one possibility that a man won't pay for you, that is, he thinks you are not worth it. "Never experienced, never understood" contains such a sentence: "Love has nothing to do with money, don't care if he has money, just see if he is willing to spend money for you." Before graduation, a boy who said that he loved Xiao Meng for a long time invited her to travel together. In fact, Xiao Meng was not sure whether they were suitable, so he wanted to know more about it, so he agreed. When making a travel plan, Xiaomeng wanted to take the high-speed train, but the boys insisted on taking a hard seat to save money. In addition, it was suggested to buy a car at night, so that it would be just dawn to get to the destination, and it would also save a day's hotel expenses. Xiaomeng showed that traveling was to release pressure, which was too hard and tossing, but the boys could only persuade her to get rid of it.

Before a relationship begins, Xiaomeng intends to end it. What she really cares about is not the financial strength of the boy. If she really has no money, she can travel, but the boy has never considered whether she is willing to work so hard. Tu Lei once said that no matter how bitter a man is, he will take the initiative to give money to a woman to make him feel safe enough. A man really loves you, and it will bring you sweetness through diligence, not force you to bear hardships and stand hard work. 2 Look at the mentality of the other person sleeping

There is a saying that a man is an animal with a lower body thinking, so you can't deny it. In the relationship between men and women, it is true that some men's desire for women's bodies far exceeds their spiritual essence, and sometimes men may just want to "get" more when they send out travel invitations. Just like Liang Zhengxian, the sea god in the TV series Nothing But Thirty, Wang Manni first met him, only thought that he was brilliant, rich, funny and gentle, and immediately fell into its "love trap". She thought that she had met a marriage, but she didn't know that he just wanted to conquer her. Before I got it, I came out one after another, trying to please him; When I got it, I immediately showed my playboy nature and didn't intend to fall in love with her at all.

Before traveling, if a man actively asks for your advice on hotel accommodation, such a man is worthy of delivery. Even if he can produce romance together, the man who really loves you will still pay attention to your decision. If a man only wants to be with you under the guise of traveling, he must not really love you. Xiaoya met a boyfriend who was five years older than herself, and the other party struggled to pursue her for more than a month. During this period, she was tricked into thinking that the other party was her marriage. Therefore, when the other party invited him to go out for a trip, he really agreed. After arriving at the destination, the man went straight to the point before he could see the scenery. In the next few days, the other party only wanted to stay in the hotel restaurant. When Xiaoya made it clear that she wanted to play, the man complained that she was inexperienced and only wanted to go.

A sentence by Mao Mu in The Moon and Sixpence reveals the bad roots of some men: "I am a man, and sometimes I need a lady. But once my own desire for love has been achieved, I am ready to do something else. " From a man's attitude towards "being together" in the middle of a trip, we can see that this man really loves you or just wants to sleep with you. In love, there must be an exclusive desire, there is no doubt about it. But feelings are not only exclusive, but also valued, cherished and careful.