That's right! Older women want to get married, but they can't make do with it

Older leftover women

Nowadays, there are more and more leftover men and women in society, and there is generally an idea that we will make do with it! Marry for the sake of marriage. However, most older women want to get married but can't make do with it. That's right! That's it! Why do you say that? Let's take a look at a love case!

No one knows how many times Sun Xiaomei has been divorced.

I suspect that she forgot herself.

at first, her story was a standard version of "leftover women". Four years ago, she was 28 years old. She went to work as a secretary, watched Korean dramas after work, loved junk food and raised cacti, and gave each cactus a name. Just an ordinary heartless girl.

But in her mother's view, Sun Xiaomei is a disabled person. A 28-year-old girl, who is not in love and married, is not mentally disabled? One day, my mother watched her chatting with cactus, and she was anxious.

Mom is tough enough to open a matchmaking agency directly downstairs in her residential area. Any man who asks for an introduction will only meet one person, Sun Xiaomei. Her mother taught her not to be so demanding, just make do with what can live! Do you really think you can marry Zo In Sung Lee MinHo?

Sun Xiaomei met 11 men one day under the influence of her mother. When she met the last one, she was so blind that she couldn't tell who was who. She was bored and fell asleep.

Then she met a man who worked in a bank. He looked honest, and her mother was very satisfied, so Sun Xiaomei got the certificate from him. The banquet and honeymoon hotel were all booked, and the man said, "Sorry, I still only love my ex-girlfriend". Sun Xiaomei became a divorced woman before she wore a wedding dress. She and the man only had sex once, which was also her first night, and she got pregnant. On the day of abortion, she sent a text message to a man, but the other person didn't reply. Sun Xiaomei said, fortunately, I don't know him very well, and the damage value is relatively small.

Sun Xiaomei got married for the second time with a real estate agent. The agent has a good eloquence and a high income, and he especially likes reading. His favorite literary masterpiece is Bai Jie. Sun Xiaomei told mom, isn't this man's eyes a little slutty? Mom said, people's eyes are dirty, and your skin is dim. Don't be picky, it's almost enough!

Six months after marriage, Sun Xiaomei's husband filed for divorce, because Sun Xiaomei was so unreasonable. He asked for SM, wife change, threesomes and so on, but she refused without hesitation, and she didn't have the enthusiasm to try new things at all.

Recently, Sun Xiaomei broke up with another man. As for whether they have obtained a certificate, there are several versions. Some people say that they are registered in Hong Kong, while others say that the day they went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to obtain a certificate, they had a big fight, so that they broke up on the same day. Sun Xiaomei can't even remember his name clearly, maybe it's Wang Yang, maybe it's the sea, and it's related to water anyway.

Sun Xiaomei's mother scolded her for being insincere and careless. She retorted that you urged me to marry him knowing that I hate sloppy people the most. Didn't you see that he wiped his sleeves with a runny nose, dug his nose and secretly wiped it under the table, and took a train with him? For six hours, he spent five and a half hours pinching his feet, while eating instant noodles and chicken legs for the other half hour without washing his hands. What I can't bear most is that he pinched cigarette ash and spit on my cactus! Why should I remember his name?

Sun Xiaomei is not the only one who can't stand the pressure to get married casually under the pressure of parents, the monitoring of public opinion and the urging of seven aunts and eight aunts. Are there few people around us who are "married" like this? Knowing that you don't like it, it's not suitable, but the conditions are not bad, so let's live it. A few people, especially awesome, can make a good life and get better and better; And more people, just make up their minds and fade out of a bird to live.

Fortunately, Sun Xiaomei's story has developed well recently. She has lived a heartless single life again. Before that, her friends were not good at commenting on the photos of her circle of friends, and all of them were ashamed and black. Recently, she sent a photo that she just went to Mexico to play during the Spring Festival, and her face was almost broken with laughter. She said that the weather there was blue, passers-by were happy and there were many cacti.

I'm not against marriage, just against making do. Just like a female friend of mine, with an annual salary of over one million, she spends two months a year traveling around and will go to Britain for study next year. People always advise her that since she has money and leisure, why not find a man to marry? Wouldn't life be more perfect? She replied, "since I have money and leisure, why do I have to marry a man?" Who won't? I just don't want to. Men are grumpy, just bear it; A man is a playboy, just turn a blind eye; Men are obscene, just pretend not to see them-why should I! Others always say, don't ask for so much, put the conditions lower-if I lower my requirements because I love him, of course; I lowered my requirements because I had to follow the crowd and get married for the sake of marriage. Isn't that sick? No one knows the tricks of getting a man, but I don't want to. At present, no man deserves me to do this. "

many people will say that they don't want to make do with it, which is the reason why they don't have men-"It was once a virtue, but when it comes to" leftover women ",it becomes a personality defect. This is the mainstream values of this era.

However, I still like that sentence, "The last thing in the world is to get married."