The first time I asked a girl to travel, why did the girl not agree?

I think this is normal. A normal girl should not associate with men easily, especially men who are ordinary friends. They want to go out with you, either they are interested in you or they want to treat you as a meal ticket. Why do they have to promise you? Because of your first date? Sometimes people who come to dinner for the first time may not come, let alone make a trip for two people.

It is this kind of girl who can reject you immediately. I think it is a good girl. One of the excellent qualities of a girl is self-esteem. Girls who can respect themselves are good girls, so that boys will not think you are frivolous and will respect you more. It is also possible that this girl is not interested in you. If she is interested in you, she should allow you to go out. After all, it is still a very happy thing to travel with a boy you like, just like Guan Juer and Xie Tong in Ode to Joy. When two people go out to travel together to enhance their uncertain relationship, and finally determine the relationship, then find out if that girl is not interested in you. If so, don't be too anxious to ask others out for a trip. You can start with small things, eat together, take a walk together, etc. When I was chasing my girlfriend, I didn't say that I rashly proposed to go out for a trip together. It's embarrassing for two people to stay. If you get a room, it will look very sexy and aggressive.

Another possibility is that girls have no money. If you are a student, that may be the reason why you have no money. If you are working, you may be short of money recently, have no money to go out to play, or have no time. It's all possible, you need to distinguish it according to the situation.