Development steps after blind date

How to further develop 1, the contact and contact after blind date are not well understood, so you need to get your own contact information. In the next two weeks, you can make an occasional phone call or send a message, and go out for dinner, tea or movies together. These ways can enhance our feelings. However, when going out to meet, boys should pay attention to preparing small gifts for girls, which is not only the performance of gentlemen, but also the goodwill of girls. 2. Fully explain that you don't know much about each other's personality and hobbies, so you should contact each other more, or ask his friend's introducer about the girl's interest. If a girl likes humor, you can tell him some jokes. If a girl likes sports, you can take her to experience some adventure activities. At the time of contact, you will fully show the man's desire for protection and make the girls look at you with new eyes. 3, bold confession After a week or two of contact, if you are sure that you really like her, you can boldly confess, regardless of the other party's reaction, at least express your mind, even if you are rejected, you will not regret it. 4, don't have physical contact with couples who have just contacted, it is best not to hold the girl's hand casually, or have physical contact. Because there is no special familiarity at this time, your little moves will scare girls and cause their disgust. Second, the correct development steps after blind date 1. It is necessary to start communication just one week after the blind date, but it should not be too frequent. You can learn about some girls' hobbies first, make some preparations before the date, and go to some interesting places to pave the way for the next date. 2, blind date for two weeks and two weeks to get along with each other, we must have a general understanding of each other's personalities, we must be clear about each other's taboos, and we can get to know the girl's family and work, so that when communicating and chatting, we can also understand his troubles and give him correct advice. 3, blind date can get along for about a month, indicating that the other party has the willingness to continue to communicate, but at this time boys should not be careless, we must pay attention to the emotions of girls. At this time, some physical contact is also possible. For example, hugging is a good way to relieve people's pressure and enhance their feelings. Many young people don't like blind date and think it is an arrangement. In fact, in some ways, this may be the arrangement of heaven. In the process of blind date, if you meet a girl or a boy you like, you are very lucky, so you must cherish this opportunity. Some lovers slowly develop their feelings after they meet. Development steps after blind date 2 1. There are two standard lines for men's blind date. Everyone likes beautiful women. In fact, men also have an acceptance line, generally based on their own looks. If a woman's length is much worse than her own, it is hard to accept. Usually there will be no more contact. Even if the woman's other conditions are good, unless there is a political face marriage with other plans, beautiful women will generally get more enthusiastic pursuit, unless they are seriously inconsistent in other aspects and are passed down to the next generation. 2. What should we talk about? Most men feel uneasy when dating, even if they pretend to be calm on the surface. If the other person is eloquent, it will make you wary. Some blind date men who are a little more active will talk about their basic situation and make fun of you. Even if they talk about the topic, they will be outspoken and smile. The brain is already in a mess at high speed I hope you can have a topic that you like to talk about actively, or ask God for some inspiration or something. Next time, you should know that there are differences between men and women, which is an indisputable fact. Men sometimes don't understand women's subtle hints, but only wonder what you mean. Is it appropriate? If you want me to take the initiative, you must show that you are willing to be close to me! At least it gives me more courage to ask you out next time. Please don't play hard to get. Second, the chat topic after the blind date 1, food topic Food is a relaxed and happy blind date topic for any country. What topic is easier to talk about than food? Everyone has something delicious that he wants to eat and is willing to share it with others. But remember one purpose of chatting. Talking about this topic is to know what she likes to eat, which is also to prepare for future invitations. 2, recently released movies, even popular TV series, girls like to watch movies or TV series, so they all have these things and have a special understanding. If you know something about these things, they will think that they are chatting with you in particular, but you can't show special interest in these TV series. Boys are more advanced in watching movies, but talking about TV dramas is very low. Girls still like domineering boys. If a boy often stays at home and watches some TV dramas that girls like to watch, I don't think girls are particularly interested. You can talk to him about some recently released movies. If TV plays are mentioned, it will be better for girls to talk about themselves and listen more. On the topic of tourism, both men and women in modern cities are faced with very high-intensity work, and they all expect to have a wonderful holiday to relax themselves. Talking about holidays and traveling, first of all, will let the other side relax their vigilance and relax their mood; Secondly, guiding the other person to imagine a beautiful holiday will make her feel happy and even outline the blueprint for you to play together; Finally, you can also take the opportunity to ask each other to meet next time. For example, if the other person talks about wanting to go to a certain place, you can say that you want to go too and make preparations for it. If the other person has a good impression on you, of course you will be happy to invite him. Third, dating skills after blind date 1, before blind date, you must know each other clearly. Before the blind date, the matchmaker will say good things about both sides and can't help but fix you up. However, this information is one-sided and even false. Therefore, in order to understand the object of trust, you can ask the matchmaker more objective information, such as work occupation, family background and so on. To understand his personality, from the circle of friends, QQ and other aspects. You can't judge a person by your own imagination. He used to be a big fat man. Maybe now he is a man with eight abdominal muscles! 2. Thank you in time after the date. In order to show reserve, some girls think that "after the date, you should wait two days before replying to the boy". De la Casa thinks this is not a good idea. In fact, it is not only polite to express gratitude to the man in time (preferably no later than the next morning) by SMS or email, but also helps to enhance mutual understanding. Don't stare at each other directly when you are talking. Psychologists call it the "focus area", which is a triangle with the other person's eyebrows as the top angle and two cheekbones as the bottom angle. When talking with the other person, please focus on this "triangle" so that the other person can feel concerned and have a good impression on you. On the contrary, if you stare at each other's eyes, it will make them feel bound from the beginning.