We agreed to flirt with girls, why did they disappear while we were chatting?

Many people say that it is really difficult to chat with girls. They stop chatting and don’t know why? Today, I will analyze with you why girls ignore you. To put it bluntly, it's not worth the money. The reason is actually quite simple.

1. Chatting in an inappropriate manner or being too funny

What does chatting in an inappropriate manner mean? Many buddies read some information about bad boys, the arrogant and funny method, and some cases of flirting with women. After reading this, they thought they had gained a lot, so they started to imitate them blindly.

For example, if you just add a girl and chat with her, she starts to introduce the topic of sex without even saying a few words. It is obvious that the girl is very disgusted with this topic, or it is not the time to talk about it. , just blindly bring up the topic of sex.

It’s a very simple case. Some girlfriends said hello on Momo, and the first sentence was to make an appointment. I sent twenty messages, but none of them got a reply. I said you deserved it. You can send the words "date", but you have to send it at the right time. If you start talking before the chat has progressed much, you deserve to have no girl talk to you.

Too funny. How do you understand this? It’s just unstable and a bit glib. If you don't pay attention to propriety when chatting, and the girl talks to you about serious business, and you reply with a funny reply, in this case, the girl will not only not have a so-called good impression of you, but will also think that you are very unreliable. It's right to tease, but you have to tease at the appropriate time. When the girl obviously doesn't want to joke with you, you should stop at the right time.

Some brothers’ chatting is indeed humorous and fun, but it lacks a kind of connotation. Although it can make the girl happy, it just can’t get into the girl’s heart, because the girl just treats you I treat it as a joke, but I haven't given my heart to you at all.

2. Bragging non-stop

Many people have learned the routine of telling DHV stories. Every time they chat with girls, they send out these stories in series. Thinking that this will make you appear valuable and awesome. As a result, instead of achieving high value, I was blocked by the girl.

I want to say, buddy, when you chat with others, do you ever consider other people's feelings? You are making a long speech there about how girls feel. When you tell a story, the girl's response is very dull, just reply with an ellipsis, right? At this time, you should stop telling the story immediately and stop sending her things.

3. Please keep the negative energy and ugly things to yourself.

I think there should be a lot of people taking advantage of this. Many people interpret picking up girls as just making girls happy, so they bring out their own embarrassing things to make girls happy. Little do they know that this is a very DLV thing, which proves that he is a low-value person. Other men have a rich life, but he does a lot of embarrassing things all day long. This will not attract girls.

Don’t always use other people’s embarrassing things to please girls. Once or twice is okay. If you do this all the time, it will appear that you don’t have high-value friends around you, and they are all ***. It will also make you look DLV.

4. Those who don’t understand are still talking nonsense

This is asking for death. As the saying goes, use your strengths and avoid your weaknesses. This is also true when we chat with girls every day. Just like when going on a date, you should choose a place you are familiar with. When chatting, try to keep the topic in the field that you are good at. Never discuss Korean dramas with girls, otherwise you will not be able to talk to them at all, because we grown men probably rarely watch Korean dramas.

It is best to chat about topics that both parties are interested in. For example, emotional topics, and other topics such as travel, food, etc. But my suggestion is that the chat should be more casual and there is no need to deliberately find topics.

5. Aren’t you seeking death by chatting with other men?

First of all, since you are picking up girls, it must be you who picks up girls, not other men. Since It's you who picks up girls, so why do you talk about other men?

And then there's no gossiping. This is a bit similar to the fourth taboo, because once a woman starts gossiping, she can’t stop it. Never gossip with a girl for nothing. The chat should be centered around the two of you.

6. Don’t ask questions, they don’t owe you anything

When many guys chat with girls, the girls reply slowly and their tone is cold, and then they become very anxious. For example, a girl The buddy sent the girl a message at 8 o'clock, but the girl didn't reply at 8:30, so the buddy became anxious and quickly sent a few more messages to ask the girl what she was doing, why she didn't reply, and if something was wrong. After sending the message, the girl still didn’t reply, and then she came to ask me, saying that Brother Bai and sister Bai didn’t reply to me, what should I do?

The reasons why the girl did not reply to you are as follows:

(1) The girl is busy

(2) The girl did not see it

(3) The girl doesn’t want to reply to you

(4) The girl is thinking about how to reply to you

No matter what kind of message it is, no matter how many paragraphs you send, it will appear that you have a problem. Throw it! The girl will feel the pressure and be scared away by you.

If the girl is in the second situation and didn't see it, it's very simple. After a few minutes, just send an emoticon to remind her and that's it.

7. The little glass heart is really broken at the touch of it

This is a trick that many people fall into, and it is often common among those who are in a state of pursuit or a state of confession. problem. Because I care too much about the other person, I always regard the other person's random words as important, and it is easy to regard the other person's casual words of reserve as rejection.

Brothers, we are men, women are emotional and controlled by emotions, but we men are rational and should be calm. If as a man, you can’t even control your emotions, then Not qualified to be a man. If you can't control your emotions, even if a girl is with you, she will think you are immature and insecure, and she will eventually leave you.

8. Explain, keep explaining.

Explanation is a cover-up. Don't treat a girl as a fool, thinking that she will believe you if you explain casually. In fact, this is not the case. In this era where PUA is rampant, there are fewer and fewer stupid girls. Men will grow up in love, and so will girls, and girls are often more mature than men of the same age.

Once something happens, it is difficult to undo it. What you have to do is not to undo it, but more to accept the fact. Men should be able to afford it and let it go. Remember to try to get a woman back by explaining her feelings. Your disappointed attitude.

9. Staring at one person

There is no grass anywhere in the world, so why have unrequited love for a flower. There are billions of girls in the world, and there is no one who is the most beautiful, only girls who are better looking and have higher scores. If you only chat with a certain girl all day long, you have no choice. You have to think about it. This girl you are chatting with may also be chatting with many other men, but you are only chatting with her. Women are selective, why shouldn't men be selective.

10. Just chat but not make a date

What is the purpose of chatting? Of course, it is to ask the girl out. Everyone should remember that a girl’s interest in you is generally time-sensitive. of. I am interested in you today, but I may not want to be interested in you after a while. This is also the reason why many guys say that girls are lukewarm towards them. When you feel that a girl is already very interested in you, you should invite her out immediately without any ink.