Is it right to rent a girlfriend to go home with your parents during the Chinese New Year?

I will not rent a girlfriend to cope with my parents. I think doing so is cheating on my parents' feelings; because this kind of renting a girlfriend violates public order and good customs, it is not protected by the law. Therefore, there are certain risks in renting a girlfriend. We work outside the home, and our parents are concerned about us at home. We just hope that our children will get married soon and have a stable life.

Just to avoid the pressure of getting married when we go home during the Chinese New Year, we resort to renting a girlfriend, which is a "hidden deception" for ourselves and our parents. You should do more exchanges and communication with your parents, let them understand your work and life, listen to their parents' suggestions, learn from their experiences in marriage and life, and go out more, maybe you can "meet love around the corner" .

Renting a girlfriend home has become a popular trend among some young people. In many places, parents are influenced by traditional concepts and are anxious about their children’s marriage. As soon as the Spring Festival comes, their children come home and rush to get married. Children bring a lot of pressure. In modern society, many young men and women are busy working for their careers and have no time to take care of marriage. Their marriage age has greatly increased.

What we can do in the face of the urge to get married is to first maintain financial independence. On the premise of being financially independent, whether to get married, fall in love or not, when to get married, and when to fall in love are all your personal choices.

We also need to understand that parents’ motivation for urging marriage is good (in most cases, they want their children to have a stable family). You can have an in-depth communication with your parents and tell them your current thoughts seriously: you want to wait for true love to appear and don’t want to make do with it/you want freedom and don’t want to be bound by marriage/you can’t afford the wedding expenses due to financial pressure. Please ask your parents to understand.

If you really feel bored, it is recommended that you temporarily leave your current environment, family or colleagues, go out to travel, gather with friends, and give yourself time and space to sort out your mood and think about the future.