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My boy and I quarreled over different travel plans. How can we make up?

It is inevitable that couples will have differences because of some things in their lives. In fact, the main reason is lack of communication or impatience. If you want to reduce differences, you should pay more attention to your tone and attitude.

It is a happy thing for two people to plan a trip together. If there is an argument about the travel plan, it is unnecessary. Before departure, we must discuss together, collect and study more travel strategies, and make a good route plan. Don't wait until after we get on the bus, the two people will chatter endlessly because they don't agree on the plan, and they can't argue about the best route. They will also be confused and unhappy when driving.

Many times, we should learn to put ourselves in the other person's shoes, and don't always think about our own affairs. This is very selfish. We should communicate more and learn more about each other's views and suggestions on this trip.

I remember once, my boyfriend and I traveled to Tianjin together, and we had differences about the tourist route. One said to go to the Eye of Tianjin, and the other wanted to go to Guwen Street. So, after getting off the bus, they argued at the railway station for half an hour, and finally determined the route, but they still lost their good mood. It is because there is no plan before departure that I am at the train station, which is time-consuming and hurtful. I could have taken a trip with sweet memories to add to the stain of such an argument.

This is actually a negative textbook for many couples to travel now. Many times we need to communicate with each other more, learn more about each other's ideas, and tell each other your suggestions and plans. Isn't the combination of the two very good?

Of course, in order to avoid differences, we still need one side and learn to be modest. Generally speaking, boys should make way for girls and listen to their girlfriends. If they really feel uncomfortable, express their ideas euphemistically, and then discuss them calmly together, so that good results will emerge.

Everyone learns to respect each other's opinions, study the travel strategy together, plan the travel route completely, and go straight to the destination after getting on the bus, which will neither hurt harmony nor spend time quarreling, killing two birds with one stone.

Learn to respect, make a good plan, make your trip more harmonious, and leave sweet memories for both sides.