How can you tell whether a man regards you as his lover or as a temporary lover?

True love is what we have been longing for all our lives. It is best to get true love and stay together. But the change of feelings always depends on the situation, and it is difficult to know what the end point is. What affects the end of the relationship usually depends on how sincere the other person is. A boy who can give you stable happiness has different contributions from a boy who fakes love. If you want to know whether a man regards you as his true lover or as a temporary lover, you will know if she has the following three main signs when she is dating you.

One: Never let you have the only love

Someone on Zhihu may ask: What is the difference between love and affection? There is a very interesting answer below. She said: Love is for everyone, loving is not good, preference is a matter of two people, and one more person is not called loving. In just two or three sentences, the key to love is revealed. Love means that even if you are not the long-haired girl that I like very much, or the little girl that I like very much, I will still love you seriously. But even if a woman who fits my imagination really happens, I will still remain unwavering.

The most beautiful part of love is expressed in the unique love here. If a man is nice to everyone and treats you equally, in his heart, his feelings for you may not reach the level of love. A more suitable but cruel explanation is: He may also regard you as a lover, ask you out when he wants to love you, and leave when he is tired of it. Because there is no commitment and restraint of marriage, love can be so casual and stress-free. The only love is an excellent proof that a man loves you deeply. If not, maybe you are just an insignificant passer-by in life to her. Without you, someone else will take the lead.

Two: I am always passive when I am dating you

I have seen boys who are intoxicated in love. In addition to some daily sweet words, his love can also be expressed in various ways. It can be seen in the proactive investment. And a man who doesn't love you enough has no active intention in his heart. When he is with you, he just wants to enjoy the care and tenderness produced in the name of love. In short, he may just treat you as a lover who can be abandoned at any time, enjoying the possibility of investment, and it is impossible for him to actively invest. You have already set a final destination for your relationship in your heart, so how can you pay more for a fruitless love?

A Ping has experienced such a boy. When she was with him, she never received any positive care and dedication from him. It was A Ping who proposed the tryst, and A Ping bought the gifts at her request. Even what to eat and drink during the date had to be prepared by A Ping. Later, A Ping understood that it turned out that he had a real girlfriend at home, and he pursued A Ping because he was lonely. This relationship must be fruitless, and that's why after pursuing perfection, he becomes uncharacteristically colder and more passive. Therefore, if a man is always passive when he is with you, there is no need to doubt that there is no other answer other than dislike.

Three: When we have to give, we should be humble

When we truly fall in love with someone, we will also want to give the best things in the world to the other person, and we want to give everything we have to ourselves. he. And for a man who doesn't love you enough, he will always invest in you after considering the pros and cons. Xiaodujichang is his most outstanding performance in this relationship. It is not that he has not paid, but that what he has given is also priced. You might as well ask yourself, if he is not willing to give you all the direct love, his dedication to himself will always have the smell of stinginess. You want to buy the food you like, but he says it’s not delicious; you think you want him to buy an accessory, but he can’t say enough about it; you want to go on a trip, but he says he has no money and no time...

After going through such a mess, do you still admire you as his true love? In fact, you may already have the answer in your heart. He doesn't love you enough and may have some feelings for you, but those two-person feelings are enough to support him in loving you as a temporary lover. Because I was not worried about leaving, even my investment became blatantly nonchalant. When a boy truly loves you, he will give you his only love, and he will take the initiative to give you, without caring about how much he has given, as long as he can be happy. If not, she only treats you as a temporary lover. I hope you know when to leave.