When did you decide to give up a friendship?

When she chose to be with other friends, I decided to give up.

1, that was at the school sports meeting of freshmen. I didn't expect to meet her We agreed to go to the downtown area of the school on weekends. Since then, I have been very kind to her. As long as she is good, I will try my best to do it. So, when we first met, we had a good relationship. Later, maybe I was too kind to her, and she couldn't accept it, so she began to give me the cold shoulder. But I am a sentimental person, and I can't stand the feeling of being hot and cold.

This continues until the winter vacation of freshman year. I wanted to give up this relationship, because the other party no longer cherishes this friendship. However, after the freshman semester started, she came to visit me. She has been looking for me for a long time. As long as she comes to me, I'm happy, no matter what. She also told me that she didn't know how to cherish it before, but now she will always be there. It is enough to be kind to me.

Later, she will ask me what I do and what I play. So, I was nice to her again. But this lasted less than 1 month, and a certain relationship between us changed. We stopped talking, and she only called me when something happened, sometimes ignoring me. There are more and more friends around her, and she is also very kind to her. I feel that I am dispensable.

4. Later, I went out to eat with people in the dormitory and drank some wine when I was depressed. I called her when I was drunk. At that time, those bottom lines and principles were forgotten. I just wanted to talk to her, thinking that she would cherish me in the future, but I was wrong. I didn't get any useful news by calling her.

In the past, no matter what I did or ate, I always considered whether she had it or not before thinking about myself. I made a cake in my elective baking class. I was thinking about whether to leave it for her when I was making it, but her friend said not to eat it until she gave it to her. I don't think anyone should treat her better than me, but she chose to stay with those friends instead of me, so I have chosen to give up.