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Why don't China people who stay in Africa want to bring their wives back to China?

Some people like to go to some prosperous and developed countries when traveling abroad, such as Britain and the United States, but some donkey friends like to go to countries with a long history and culture but relatively backward development, such as African countries. As the birthplace of human civilization, Africa's current economic growth rate is really slow, but it has the most primitive natural scenery.

In recent years, our country has been extending a helping hand to Africa, helping Africa to build various infrastructures and donating a lot of materials. In addition, some China people travel to Africa, which has promoted the economic development of Africa as a whole. So some China people saw the development space in Africa, so they chose to make money and invest in Africa, and even settled in Africa.

A donkey friend traveling in Africa found that in fact, China people can often be seen in Africa, and most of them follow them to invest and make money. Some China people get used to life here after staying in Africa for a long time, and get married and have children in Africa. However, after talking with several China people who got married and had children in Africa, the donkey friends found that most of them had never brought their wives back to China. It's not that their wives don't want to, but that they don't have such an idea. The donkey friend was puzzled by this and asked the other party why.

According to the local people, it is mainly because of the great cultural differences between the two places. Each country has its own customs and habits, and it has already had communication difficulties just in language. Even if some Africans can understand Chinese, it will be difficult for them to adapt to China's future lifestyle. Moreover, most families in China have traditional ideas, so some elders may find it difficult to accept foreign daughters-in-law, and may also face various comments from relatives. In order to avoid unnecessary family conflicts, it is better not to take it back.

The local people told the donkey friends that some China people may have failed to invest in Africa after they got married, or because their parents and elders are under too much pressure to find a way out. Some of them went straight back and never came back to Africa, and those wives who stayed in Africa will be punished by the local people? Treat others differently? , call them? Abandoned woman? Life is hard, too.

Locals revealed that they often miss their country and hometown, but they also have their own small families and responsibilities here, so they can only go back once for a long time. After listening to this, the donkey friends also felt a little sad. Bian Xiao felt that China was becoming more and more tolerant. Every year, African friends come to live in China. For example, Guangzhou, a first-tier city, is the favorite city of black friends. China is also very particular? Deciduous leaves return to their roots? In our country, people's ideas are also advancing with the times. You might as well take your African wife back to China to have a look. Maybe there will be unexpected gains. Surprise? ..... How? What do you think of this? Welcome to discuss in the comments section.