Do you need to chat every day during the ambiguous period? How to grasp the frequency of chatting with girls at first?

At the beginning of chasing girls, many boys would habitually pester girls to chat every day, and send them large paragraphs of text with expression packs when they are not familiar with them. In fact, such behavior will only make girls feel that you have a strong sense of demand. Therefore, it is very important to learn time management well and grasp the chat frequency. So what kind of chat frequency is better when you start chasing girls?

I suggest that you chat every two or three days, that is, two or three times a week.

If the girl responds enthusiastically to you, you can talk every day, but if she doesn't, it will take the next day, two or three days is longer.

Looking for her every day may not only expose the sense of need, but also have nothing to talk about. It is also possible for girls to think that you have nothing to do all day, which is a manifestation of low social value.

So put yourself in the other's shoes:

If a girl who is not interested in you chats with you every day and talks about something that is not nutritious.

do you feel bored and don't want to talk to her?

Actually, you don't need to be too deliberate, just don't look for her every day, which is basically qualified.

In the ambiguous period, at this stage, boys can be more active, but there is no need to talk to each other every day.

The main thing is to look at your feedback from each other. If you feel that you are in a good state, you can talk more. If you are in an average state, take a break.

Being in love is not the whole of life. Even if there is a little sister on your WeChat list who has a hot relationship with you, don't forget your own pace of life. You should eat and sleep. Being yourself is the most important thing.

After all, a movie can't be full of exciting shots. A book can't be all climaxes; A stock can't go up and down continuously every day; Similarly, a relationship can't be all the time when you are inseparable from me.

value each other, but don't forget that you are still important. Secondly, chatting is not about frequency, but about rhythm.

whether she likes you or not depends not on your language and topic, but on whether the information conveyed behind your language and topic can attract her, or cause her to sing.

for example, talk about travel.

Xiao Ming said, "I have been to Beijing and seen the walls of Beijing. The walls are extremely high and thick."

Gray said, "Look, your circle of friends has been to Japan. I'm planning to travel on my annual vacation recently. What do you think of Japan? .

It's also about traveling, but the messages sent by two people are different.

The former seems to be telling others that I have been to Beijing.

The latter not only tells the other person that he wants to travel, but also triggers the other person's chat mood.

Generally, girls like to talk to each other about the places they have been, especially traveling abroad.

I used to be very worried about finding a girlfriend, until one day when I was surfing the Internet, I saw a book by pick up hot chicks, The Complete Works of Lao Wang, and I began to understand it slowly and got out of hand. According to the love skills and thinking learned in the book, I won the younger sisters step by step, and the most important thing is to rely on the thinking of chatting in the book. After three or five rounds of chatting, I will capture the younger sisters and win them directly. Brothers who are still single are advised to take a look at the study. There are e-books on the Internet, which can be seen by Baidu. How much you learn depends on your own understanding.

So, don't you stop for a minute before each chat with a girl, and think about whether sending this WeChat can arouse her mood and trigger a buzz.

Of course, we should also pay attention to the time. For example, sometimes the other person happens to have a job to deal with at hand, or you are shopping with your best friend, but you keep sending her WeChat, so how can you get back to you?

Finally, if you are already in love, the chat frequency depends on each other's rhythm.

how to fall in love and get along at this stage is the result of two people running in with each other.

I tell you to contact for one hour a day. What should you do if your girlfriend is too few?

I told you not to break for 24 hours. What should your girlfriend do if she is bored?

run in well with each other and find a comfortable way to communicate.