Have you ever slept with men and women while traveling abroad? How to avoid embarrassment between the opposite sex?

In 2005, I embarked on a trip to Tibet from Sichuan. On the first day in Tibet, I met a beautiful woman on the roadside who wanted a ride. I originally agreed to sit in Linzhi. After getting on the bus, I learned through chatting that this is a strong donkey, a Swiss resident from China. My hometown seems to be from Zhejiang. She told me that after graduation, she only worked for half a year and traveled around the world the rest of the time. That woman has knowledge, culture and rich life experience. So very talkative. I got along well with her all the way. On the first night of my stay, I told my boss in the bar that I wanted two rooms. I didn't expect this woman to be very open. I just told my boss that I only wanted a standard room, and then told me that I knew I was a good person. Don't waste money. I was a little embarrassed to sleep that day, but she didn't care. Very talkative, chatting until one o'clock after taking a shower. We reserved a room that day and for the next six days, and we didn't touch her the first night. Because of her rich experience, I am afraid of getting sick. At that time, the hotel did not prepare condoms. By the next afternoon, I felt something was wrong. All the expenses are waiting for me to pay all the way. Girls have never taken the initiative once, so I am a little disgusted with her at this point. I'm willing to give her a ride and I'm prepared to pay all the expenses, but at least you should be polite to me. We have nothing to do. It makes me uncomfortable that you spend my money so justly, so I have some antipathy to her. So I didn't touch her until we broke up. But she did a good job in other aspects of logistics, and even one day the car got stuck in the mud. Or did she negotiate with local farmers and ask five or six people to push the car out?

On the seventh day, we arrived in Lhasa I asked her where she wanted to live. She said that she would be closer to the Potala Palace and watch the sunrise the next morning. So I found a hotel near Potala Palace, put her down and told her I was leaving. She paused and asked me if I would stay. I tricked her into meeting a friend and staying at her house. She stayed for a while and then told me. She went to get a room and asked me to help her take things into the room. After leaving her, I felt much more relaxed, thinking that I would never meet strangers again. I spent three days in Lhasa. On the third day, I accidentally found a stack of two thousand dollars and a note in the co-pilot's locker. The note recorded in detail the fuel, food, accommodation and ticket fees for these seven days, totaling more than 3,900 yuan. . . . . .

I hurried to her hotel, but it was too late. She checked out at eight in the morning, and we didn't leave any contact information with each other. I always owe her an apology!

Traveling abroad, you can often meet fellow travelers. Many people will choose to fight for a house in order to save room expenses and facilitate accommodation. If nothing happens between the same sex, it is inevitable that there will be embarrassing scenes between the opposite sex. So how to avoid the embarrassing atmosphere brought by the opposite sex? I shared the experience of two houses matching the opposite sex during my trip and discussed with you.

20 15 My wallet was stolen while traveling in Nha Trang, Vietnam, along with cash, ID card, bank card and camera. Fortunately, I left my passport at the hotel, otherwise it would be very troublesome to return to China. This encounter has affected my next trip, because I have booked the air ticket from Ho Chi Minh to Hanoi in advance, so I plan to go to Ho Chi Minh for two days by new coffee bus, and then fly to Hanoi to return home.

There are six or seven people going on this trip. In the first half, everyone took the same route, so they ate and drank together. In the second half, the destination is different and we go our separate ways. There happened to be a girl who also went to Ho Chi Minh. When she heard about my experience, she expressed sympathy. She made a reservation in a five-star hotel for two nights. She was going to share a room with another girl, but that girl changed her schedule and now she is alone. After some discussion, she said that she could accept the house so that she could share the room expenses.

The five-star hotel is luxurious, with well-equipped rooms, a gym and an open-air swimming pool. The food in the restaurant is super delicious. In the evening, I went to the top swimming pool. The wind blew for a while and then I came down. She said that she was a little sleepy and went to wash and sleep separately. There are two beds in the room, each sleeping separately. I didn't think much at that time. After taking a shower, I fell asleep. I slept until midnight and heard her cough. I can't sleep again and again. She said she was a little sick. I tried it with my hand and found that she had a cold and a fever!

I hurried downstairs and asked the front desk for cold medicine. I thought such a big hotel would have standing medicine, but the front desk said no! At about one o'clock in the morning, I ran out to find a drugstore for her. It was raining outside in Mao Mao at that time, and I finally found a drugstore that was not closed.

Later, after returning to China, I went to Guangzhou to visit her. She invited me to eat delicious food and visit scenic spots. Later, I heard that she had something to do with a married male colleague in the company, which almost caused a divorce. She belongs to that kind of smart woman. She may be studying science and always asking questions! Very small things are sometimes magnified infinitely by her, which makes her a little unbearable. Because of disagreement, I didn't contact again twice! After two months, you deleted me! Several years have passed, and now there is no contact.

2065438+In September 2006, we hiked Kanas East Line with a good friend. Carrying tents and dry food, we walked all the way through virgin forests, glaciers, villages and no man's land, and finally reached Kanas scenic spot. I met a man and a woman on the road, not a couple. They also met on the road. The four of us agreed on the same route, and then we went forward together.

I was going to camp in the small black lake area, but when I arrived, I found that I was cold, tired and hungry in the environment of MINUS 20 degrees. There is no signal on my mobile phone here, and I want to vomit with compressed dry food. Seeing a Kazakh yurt not far away, several people discussed it and decided to have a hot meal in it all night. It's really cruel outside

Kazakh yurts are Datong shops, but everyone has a quilt. The conditions here are hard, there is no electric light and no signal. After dinner, Kazak grandma lit candles for us, and the four of us chatted around the stove. Because it's too cold, we don't take off our clothes when we sleep. After all, we are in no man's land. To be on the safe side, we three boys let the girls sleep in the middle, and my friends and I slept on both sides, so we slept all night. It is absolutely impossible to think too much in this or that environment. At that time, the biggest extravagant hope was to have a hot meal and drink some hot water!

Many times, people fight for a house just to save room expenses, or for the convenience of accommodation, and they don't have much thought. Because the route is the same, we are destined to walk together and leave at the next intersection after dawn. No name, no age, no occupation, we are just passing by in a hurry.

Before going to a city, we were all colleagues, just three rooms. In the evening, we drink and eat on the first floor of the hotel. A female colleague said to go back after eating, and several of us continued to drink. As a result, my buddy accidentally drank too much and threw up. Then everyone said to send him back to his room together. After arriving at the passage, a lesbian opened the door with a room card in advance, thinking that she would help us open the door. I helped the buddy in without thinking.

I travel with friends of the opposite sex and live in a room, but we are pure. "What is the most hurtful thing in a relationship? It should be knowing that something will hurt each other's hearts, but still doing it without guilt.

Today is the fourth day of my girlfriend Tian Tian's trip. Tian Yu lay in bed, staring at the ceiling. Yes, Tian Yu didn't travel with his girlfriend. Now Tian Tian is with her opposite sex friend.

Although Tian Tian looks as sweet as her name, her personality is far from quiet. She is a very careless and heartless girl. She has many friends and likes making friends very much. Even if you just met, Tian Tian can talk to her for hours. Tian Yu is so sweet that she gradually approached her friend and succeeded in becoming a sweet boyfriend a year ago.

At first, when Tian Yu knew that his girlfriend was still traveling with friends of the opposite sex, of course, ten thousand people didn't want to, and he didn't know this sweet friend at all, and he had never seen him. Two people went from discussion to argument, from argument to cold war for this matter. Finally, sweets finally couldn't help it, and came to Tian for a big fight.

"I am your girlfriend. Of course, I only love you. This time I just went out to play with my friends. Why can't you be rational? Am I such a dirty person in your heart? " Sweets dropped this sentence and set off with friends of the opposite sex the next day.

But it never occurred to Tian Tian that a person's generosity and tolerance is not that he will forget what he has been hurt, but that he chose to shut up in order to protect his love.

During these days' travel, Tian Tian took the initiative to contact Tian Tian, politely asked for his forgiveness, and repeatedly promised that she would never have anything with friends of the opposite sex. She also promised that Tian Tian would be obedient when she came back, and Tian Tian would let her do anything.

In order to reassure Tian, I take the initiative to call and chat with him every night, sometimes until late at night. His girlfriend tried her best to prove her innocence, which made Tian feel relieved and their relationship gradually reconciled.

But once, when Tian Yu was brushing her circle of friends, she found that her girlfriend had sent a new set of photos. Sweetness in the photo is intimate with friends of the opposite sex, and she is not as polite as she said. But after the field was refreshed, the photos disappeared, and all the photos were sweet. Tian Yu knew that his girlfriend blocked himself in the circle of friends.

Tian Yu tried her best to see his girlfriend's complete circle of friends from Sweet Friends. The intimate photos with friends of the opposite sex have not been deleted, and there are many travel photos that Tian Yu has never seen before. Tian even found that these two people actually lived in the same double room.

This time, Tian didn't take the initiative to contact his girlfriend, and no one answered all his phone calls and text messages. In the past few days, Tian Yu has been lying in bed, recalling her past with her girlfriend over and over again. Every time we quarrel, Tian Yu takes the initiative to admit his mistake, and Tian Tian can do whatever he wants.

Some women are aware of men's efforts, and some women are not even satisfied with men's efforts.

After Tian Tian came back from her trip, she apologized to Tian Yu again and swore to God that she really didn't have any relationship with friends of the opposite sex. Those intimate photos are just infected by many tourists and taken with the wind. Tian Tian also told her opposite sex friend that she had a boyfriend, and told him not to have any wild desires.

Tian looked at his girlfriend with a face of injustice, tears in his eyes, and his heart softened by half at once, but he broke up cruelly when he recalled what he had been hurt by his girlfriend in the past.

As for whether his girlfriend did anything behind his back with a friend of the opposite sex in the end, Tian Yu no longer cares. Because he knew that at the moment when his girlfriend promised her friends of the opposite sex to travel, he was not the most important thing for sweets.

The ideal relationship between lovers should be balanced between both sides. If one end feels inferior, the balance will be unbalanced and love will deteriorate accordingly. Actually, there are many men like Tian Yu. He loves his girlfriend and is willing to give everything to care for him, but not all women's demands should be accommodated. To love someone, you must first respect yourself and speak your mind honestly.

When you choose to shut up for fear of hurting her and losing her, she doesn't belong to you anymore.

In the autumn of 2008, the unit sent five of us to Chongqing to inspect the project. Then take a cruise from Chaotianmen Wharf to Nanjing. After boarding the ship, four colleagues lived in the second-class cabin for the convenience of hitting Parker, while I took the initiative to go to the third-class cabin of more than a dozen people. Go in and have a look, there are three people besides me, a couple and a dark and thin girl. I don't know why, when I went back after dinner, only the little girl was there, and the little couple didn't come back until dawn. That is, the two of us didn't say a few words for several days in a row. We just smiled and greeted each other. But every night when I go sightseeing on the boat or go ashore, the little girl always follows me closely, but never talks. Colleagues joked that she posted me. When the boat arrived in Nanjing, we disembarked and the little girl disembarked. Just ashore, she suddenly came to us and smiled and said to me, thank you for taking care of me all the way! I was cheated. I just stayed in a warehouse for a few nights. What is there to be thankful for? Look, I don't understand. She just told the truth. It turned out that she was working in Chongqing, had something urgent at home, had money with her, and was afraid. Later, I was honest and stayed with me all the way. At this point, I realized that I was a good man again.

I prefer to travel by bike, post information online and travel with my bike friends. On the way, people either live in youth hostels, with men and women in separate beds, or live together. Sometimes there is no room, and some men and women live in the same room.

A few times it was Datong store, where our riders slept side by side and the girls slept next to me. Of course, everyone has a quilt. . Everyone is simple. There are no complicated ideas, because everyone should partner with each other and help each other along the way. . Bathing is also a separate line, and everyone chats until they are sleepy.

Last year, I rode Qinghai Lake. On the last day, it was just me and a female college student. I wanted to live alone in a room, but the girl insisted on living with me, saying that she was afraid of being alone in the room. Since the girl trusts me so much, I also want to protect her. Later, I kept in touch with this girl on WeChat. Such a simple friendship is good ...