I am 32 years old and haven't worked for more than a year. I am so depressed, I have no money, no income, and my family is not good. I want to find a job. My mother said that I would have to wait thre

I am 32 years old and haven't worked for more than a year. I am so depressed, I have no money, no income, and my family is not good. I want to find a job. My mother said that I would have to wait three months to find a job. What should I do? First of all, I understand your present situation and mood. Facing the lack of work and economic pressure, but also facing the pressure of family situation, it really makes people feel depressed and helpless. Here are some suggestions, hoping to help you out of the predicament:

Accept the status quo: First of all, you need to accept the current economic and career difficulties. It's not your fault, and it doesn't mean your future is fixed. Difficulties are opportunities for growth, and you can change the status quo through positive attitudes and actions.

Seek support: share your difficulties and ideas with family and friends. They may provide some useful suggestions and support, or provide some opportunities and resources to help you out of trouble.

Make plans: Make detailed plans, including job hunting, travel and financial planning. This will give you a better sense of purpose and direction, and also help you to better control your life.

Looking for a job: If mom agrees, you can try to find some flexible jobs, such as temporary, part-time or freelance. These jobs can make you earn some income during the trip, and at the same time, you can continue to work after the trip.

Self-improvement: Use this time to improve your skills and knowledge. You can improve your competitiveness through online courses, training or self-study and prepare for future work.

Keep a positive attitude: It is very important to keep a positive attitude when facing difficulties. Believe that you have the ability to get out of trouble, and try to find some fun and activities to relieve stress and anxiety.

Finally, on the issue of travel, you can communicate with your family and explain your thoughts and plans. Maybe they can understand and support your decision or offer some other solutions. Anyway, I believe you will find a way to get through this difficult period. I wish you an early exit from the predicament!